Warning signs – When did you know your wife was planning for divorce?

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Yea, NoMore, I was in a similar situation. My ex-wife thought the threat of a separation would make me beg and plead. I said, I think it’s a good idea, let’s do it. In fact, I over heard her state later to her POS Mom that she was surprised at my reaction. Her previous husband begged and pleaded for her to stay in the marriage. I was berated because I didn’t. Simply put, I do not stay where I am not wanted. She wants out, I showed her the door.

Funny how many of them have a similar thought process…

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

ForeverDone wrote:

Yea, NoMore, I was in a similar situation. My ex-wife thought the threat of a separation would make me beg and plead. I said, I think it’s a good idea, let’s do it. In fact, I over heard her state later to her POS Mom that she was surprised at my reaction. Her previous husband begged and pleaded for her to stay in the marriage. I was berated because I didn’t. Simply put, I do not stay where I am not wanted. She wants out, I showed her the door.

Funny how many of them have a similar thought process…

I read that same story setting in a monumental psychology book of 1963.

“basic forms of fear”

Grundformen der Angst by Fritz Riemann. Sadly there is no English edition out.

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[BeerParticipant 11832]

ForeverDone wrote:

Yea, NoMore, I was in a similar situation. My ex-wife thought the threat of a separation would make me beg and plead. I said, I think it’s a good idea, let’s do it. In fact, I over heard her state later to her POS Mom that she was surprised at my reaction. Her previous husband begged and pleaded for her to stay in the marriage. I was berated because I didn’t. Simply put, I do not stay where I am not wanted. She wants out, I showed her the door.

Funny how many of them have a similar thought process…

My mom has been threatening my dad with divorce for over a decade now. His life would be so much better right now if the first time she threw that threat out there he just said “Ok,” got in his car, and drove straight to a divorce lawyer to get the ball rolling.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Beer wrote:

My mom has been threatening my dad with divorce for over a decade now. His life would be so much better right now if the first time she threw that threat out there he just said “Ok,” got in his car, and drove straight to a divorce lawyer to get the ball rolling.

I was just lucky because some people on another forum taught me about VARs to learn the truth (they all thought she was cheating. No cheating, just the truth about her thoughts about me. Trust when I say they hurt just as much). To be honest, if I didn’t have a VAR in a few locations that she uses, I’d still be married and thinking all is okay while she’s building up equity in cash and prizes from my hard work. I was lucky, I was only in the marriage for about 2 years. Most men, like your Dad would get financially devastated through assets distribution and possible alimony.

The game is rigged. I was just lucky enough to act instead of do nothing.

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