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Warning signs – When did you know your wife was planning for divorce? I think it may help other newcomers look for some warning signs and prep.
In hindsight, 6 weeks after marriage (as told to a Court appointed psychologist). The psychologist asked “Why did you have kids with him then?” …. crickets
Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.
In hindsight, 6 weeks after marriage (as told to a Court appointed psychologist). The psychologist asked “Why did you have kids with him then?” …. crickets
Why she said?? Cash & prizes of course.
Yeah spotted it one mate!
Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.
Anonymous13Once they start s~~~ talking you behind your back and you find the evidence on the computer and phone.
GET THE F~~~ OUT.
They’re nasty c~~~s of things.
Once they start s~~~ talking you behind your back and you find the evidence on the computer and phone.
GET THE F~~~ OUT.
They’re nasty c~~~s of things.
Could not of said it better myself.
Have a friend or a recording device tell you:
Hearing women talk about their men – And losing the contents of your stomach
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After the baby rabies, and then after any sign of financial trouble, then they’re through. Exit strategy in progress … … …
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
Once they start s~~~ talking you behind your back and you find the evidence on the computer and phone.
GET THE F~~~ OUT.
They’re nasty c~~~s of things.
As a young man, the c~~~s talked s~~~ about me even in my presence.
That’s how I got desensitized from the fear of “making enemies” by speaking up and telling women what I think of them.For me it was:
STAY THE F~~~ OUT!
To our young lurkers in such a situation, tell women or girls in school that your plantation is closed and that they might as well shut up because all efforts are futile and that you will never want to support any woman anyway for the rest of your life…
Tell them:
“After what you say about me, I am done with your kind.”
“Learn to become a friend and then I might want you as a girlfriend…”
“A friend doesn’t talk s~~~ about you”…
They will avoid you and steer around you like a ship avoids the riff.
And let them become someone else’s problem.
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“When did you know your wife was planning for divorce?”
When she said, “I do.”
Just kidding — never been married, but you get the picture.
When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.
I’ll throw this one out there, just because it’s a little different. Watch out for women that have to have “new”. My ex had happy feat. Had to have a new job, had to have a new house, had to have a new car. Had to have something NEW. She got bored very easily with the status quo.
At some point it dawned on me that eventually she would need someONE new.
Order the good wine
I’ll throw this one out there, just because it’s a little different. Watch out for women that have to have “new”. My ex had happy feat. Had to have a new job, had to have a new house, had to have a new car. Had to have something NEW. She got bored very easily with the status quo.
At some point it dawned on me that eventually she would need someONE new.
Your point needs to go right to the MGTOW encyclopedia.
Spot on.
To women we are replaceable status symbols and utilities. And when she wants “new” there is a 100 percent chance she will want a better and “new” wallet…
LOL.
C~~~s are now running out of men to open, drain and throw away like an empty can of food.
There is what they call “man scarcity” and it frustrates the f~~~ out of the c~~~s.
No more exploitable utilities on the shelves of the “all free” supermarket of life…The ocean is “overfished”, we are gone. Species extinct.
In the near future they no longer have “to plan for divorce”, because they will not find a fool to marry them in the first place.
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“When did you know your wife was planning for divorce?”
When she said, “I do.”
Just kidding — never been married, but you get the picture.
Seriously, this should be the default assumption. When she says “I do” you then know she’s planning to divorce rape you in court…
I’ll throw this one out there, just because it’s a little different. Watch out for women that have to have “new”. My ex had happy feat. Had to have a new job, had to have a new house, had to have a new car. Had to have something NEW. She got bored very easily with the status quo.
At some point it dawned on me that eventually she would need someONE new.
My ex was the same. I’ve noticed that the pattern has not changed since our divorce. It’s been about 7-8 years now. But she remarried, moved across town, gotten two dogs, gone back to school, started a new career, and is now talking about wanting a bigger house.
In those off moments where I wonder ‘what if?’… the answer is always ‘aw hell no’.
But to the original question. I was a moron and ignored the signs. Even after marriage counseling, I never really thought divorce was on the table. Our situation was never as bad as my parents was, as I saw it. It was still early, there was lots of stress with new kids, I saw as stuff that could be worked through. I assumed she had the same mind set. She gave me blunt warnings, but I acknowledged them and thought of it as a process to get there.
So I really didn’t consider divorce a real possibility until she asked for a separation. There really wasn’t any hope after that.
Ok. Then do it.
I’ll throw this one out there, just because it’s a little different. Watch out for women that have to have “new”. My ex had happy feat. Had to have a new job, had to have a new house, had to have a new car. Had to have something NEW. She got bored very easily with the status quo.
At some point it dawned on me that eventually she would need someONE new.
My ex was the same. I’ve noticed that the pattern has not changed since our divorce. It’s been about 7-8 years now. But she remarried, moved across town, gotten two dogs, gone back to school, started a new career, and is now talking about wanting a bigger house.
In those off moments where I wonder ‘what if?’… the answer is always ‘aw hell no’.
But to the original question. I was a moron and ignored the signs. Even after marriage counseling, I never really thought divorce was on the table. Our situation was never as bad as my parents was, as I saw it. It was still early, there was lots of stress with new kids, I saw as stuff that could be worked through. I assumed she had the same mind set. She gave me blunt warnings, but I acknowledged them and thought of it as a process to get there.
So I really didn’t consider divorce a real possibility until she asked for a separation. There really wasn’t any hope after that.
I was in a similar situation, however, I turned the tables as I already knew (VAR – valued tool). She told me her “therapist” (yea, the one she wouldn’t allow me to go to with her cause she needed it for herself more) said me and her should separate for a while. I said, sure, let’s do it. I will have my lawyer draw up legal separation papers. She did a double take and was in shock. She said she didn’t want a legal separation, only just that she moves out. I said, it doesn’t work that way. She said she would sign. A few days later, her POS mother talked her out of it and she threw the papers back at me saying non-legal binding separation or no deal. I said you always want to do things the hard way.. Don’t you. Fine. I want a divorce, she turned white and moved out a week later. She thought she’d have the upper hand and that I was weak. I assure you know she knows I am not weak. I just allowed her to believe and live in her own little miserable world. I did try to pull her out of it, but she rather live in pity and dismay. When it was all said and done, she pushed the wrong button and all three of the stooges (her, POS mom, and therapist) were literally shocked. I even went so far and had some off duty cops here to supervise her removal of her crap.
Who’s in control? Certainly not her. You mess with the bull, you get the horns. I always try to be nice, until it’s time not to be nice. She didn’t know I was preparing for this day for months. Gentlemen, as much as it hurts, you MUST PROTECT YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES. Do not let a set of t~~~ and a few warm moist areas get control over you. Is a few minutes of fun worth decades of earnings and assets? I should clearly hope not. I always tell others to speak softly, but carry a big stick in case you need to use it. You hope not to, but it’s important to be armed just in case.
Who’s in control? Certainly not her. You mess with the bull, you get the horns.
Well done.
If you act like that bull from the start, they don’t even get married to you in the first place. They intend (trained by feminism) to f~~~ men over and then they’ll search for an easier target.
I always told my “girlfriends” what I would do “in case” or “in the place of neighbor xy”… They all left.
None stayed because they loved me. It’s all about the money and nothing else.
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I had ZERO warning. Went to work with as kiss and a “I love you” and came home to “I want to divorce you”. I wonder how long she was planning this? 17 years married, no problems…
Get a vasectomy.
I had ZERO warning. Went to work with as kiss and a “I love you” and came home to “I want to divorce you”. I wonder how long she was planning this? 17 years married, no problems…
Sorry dude. I hear a lot of men get broadsided. I had some hints. More distance than normal. Wanting her to move back into the master bedroom (for over a year), she said no. Suggested a trial of one night per week, she said no. Sex stopped 1.5 years prior to my filing for divorce. She telling me, stupidly and repeatedly that her co-workers think she’s cheating with another dude, request for an open marriage, talking behind my back (VAR), Etc. Men just have to keep their eyes and ears open for the signs. Rarely do they stick with business as usual.
Would you believe, for Valentine’s Day two or three years ago, I won tickets to Hamilton on Broadway. I wanted to take her. She declined and said she’d rather be with one of her besties. Even her parents told her she was wrong. I sold the tickets on Ticketmaster and bought some good scotch, few cigars and started to plan my exit.
Truly a shame what these modern women did to traditional marriages. We now have (as mentioned in a previous thread) women openly cheating on men in front of them with other guys (hot wives) and the cucks actually enjoy it. I think we’re on the verge of total male annihilation unless we as a gender all stand up and say NO.
Look how the average male has changed over the past few decades. Pastel colors, male rompers (https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/106904571/the-romphimtm-your-new-favorite-summer-outfit), metro sexual males, feminine males, etc. Other male animals must be laughing at us. Welcome to the pussified (not pussy filled) modern male.
I was in a similar situation, however, I turned the tables as I already knew (VAR – valued tool). She told me her “therapist” (yea, the one she wouldn’t allow me to go to with her cause she needed it for herself more) said me and her should separate for a while. I said, sure, let’s do it. I will have my lawyer draw up legal separation papers. She did a double take and was in shock. She said she didn’t want a legal separation, only just that she moves out. I said, it doesn’t work that way. She said she would sign. A few days later, her POS mother talked her out of it and she threw the papers back at me saying non-legal binding separation or no deal. I said you always want to do things the hard way.. Don’t you. Fine. I want a divorce, she turned white and moved out a week later. She thought she’d have the upper hand and that I was weak. I assure you know she knows I am not weak. I just allowed her to believe and live in her own little miserable world. I did try to pull her out of it, but she rather live in pity and dismay. When it was all said and done, she pushed the wrong button and all three of the stooges (her, POS mom, and therapist) were literally shocked. I even went so far and had some off duty cops here to supervise her removal of her crap.
Who’s in control? Certainly not her. You mess with the bull, you get the horns. I always try to be nice, until it’s time not to be nice. She didn’t know I was preparing for this day for months. Gentlemen, as much as it hurts, you MUST PROTECT YOURSELVES AT ALL TIMES. Do not let a set of t~~~ and a few warm moist areas get control over you. Is a few minutes of fun worth decades of earnings and assets? I should clearly hope not. I always tell others to speak softly, but carry a big stick in case you need to use it. You hope not to, but it’s important to be armed just in case.
Similar situation here FD. She was controlling and manipulative. I’d known for a few months how this was going to end, just not when. One day, she starts berating me for not following her demands. I told her I wasn’t her personal servant. She said she wanted a divorce and I said that’s fine with me.
She was shocked and tried to back peddle into a separation, but I said no, we are getting divorced. A few days later, I realized What I had done was called her bluff. She didn’t really want a divorce, only to threaten me with one to get me to fall back in line.
Me saying that ‘no’, was like the shot heard ’round the world. It changed everything. I through off the attitude of appeasement and it felt good to just say ‘no’ to her. I quickly became accustomed to telling her ‘no’ when I disagreed with her. It was interesting to see her personality devolve after realizing she had lost her control over me.
A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!
Somehow I made my post part of the quote.
A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!
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