Walked out of a Lecture Tonight

[jambearParticipant 282]

Good evening fellow MGTOW,

So i have to walk out of my Sociology class tonight. That s~~~ was getting so f~~~ing man bashing, ball stomping, soul crushingly hard for me to take that I just snapped.

Let me back up a bit I had asked for some MGTOW advice here.

/forums/topic/i-need-some-mgtow-advice/

And you guys responded with the wisdom and articulation I have come to love from you guys. Seriously thank you for the advice.

But tonight instead of a lecture we get to watch this f~~~ing piece of s~~~ video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80lzJwRGUw4&list=UULhfndhW38B4IEMUJcXMTXg

Watch it if you like I made it till about the 53 minute mark, where the guy said “even if your wife hates you keep on pouring your love and affection into her even if you does not return it, because that is how woman grow and love.” Up until that moment it is nothing but telling men how to act and says nothing to the woman.

I proclaimed loudly WHAT?!

Got up from my seat, gathered my possessions, all the while says no this is nonsense this makes no sense. I start walking to the stairs turn to the class and say this video is crap and any man who believes what this guy is selling ( the video not my professor) do not buy into it because it is 100% man hating garbage. Not sure what my fate in the class will be but I do not care at this point.

LOL I tell the younger MGTOW to contain their anger and to not let it control you, and I just failed at that. I just could not handle the hate in that class though. It was to much for me to bear I am sorry to say.

I think what got to me the most that I would of at one time agreed with everything in this video and thought” WOW, now I can be a better husband!” God what and idiot I was.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

the 53 minute mark, where the guy said : even if your wife hates you keep on pouring your love and affection into her even if she does not return it, because that is how woman grow and love.

What do you mean the 53 minute mark?

Anyone who expects a film called “Men are From Mars” to be taken seriously in a lecture…. needs to be lectured themselves – for at least 53 minutes.

Men are from EARTH. And there is plenty of proof of that. There is no life on Mars.
I would prefer a science class where people are AT LEAST forced to be intellectually honest.

Let’s not confuse LOL with frustration and anger. This is not the time to LOL. This is the time to be p~~~ed because the s~~~stain who expects you to take that quote to heart and act accordingly have several screws loose. When your wife hates you, she needs to be DUMPED as quickly as possible. Get her out, or get yourself out. She didn’t even deserve the time of day from you. Let alone a goddam WEDDING, your devotion, vows and certainly not your “love” or attention.

That kind of “advice” is for “husbands” who don’t even hold themselves in medium esteem.
She can get a puppy for that.

Men are from earth. That “advice” is from Mars.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Two way street brother, if anyone is getting treated like that either give it back to em or leave.
As my father says “Don’t dish it out if you can’t take it”

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

I fully sympathise with your situation. MGTOW is not compatible with conventional sociologic theory. As a GP I am blessed, as I can talk to men as a man and not worry as there are no women in earshot. For instance today, I was talking about white ribbon domestic violence with a former editor of the local Newspaper- and he AGREED with my position. He stated that he was sorely tempted to write an article balancing the man bashing -but had been advised against it. But it is refreshing to see this in a fellow man.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Ugh….I made it past the whole thing, now i need a f~~~in beer.

 

I could Sympathize with each guy on a certain level, but the one guy who said: “sometimes All I ever feel, is that I don’t do enough“.  That guy I could totally understand. My ex wife was the type of woman, you seriously needed to read her f~~~ing mind. It got to a point where I gave her a paper and pencil and told her to write stuff down that p~~~ed her off and turned her on. Not only that but after awhile, I started to get criticized for everything i either said or did.

 

I did have a girlfriend who I lived with once that was an absolute control freak, every damn thing, whether it was cleaning, cooking, washing dishes I was 99.9% WRONG!. She’d re-wash the dishes, sometimes re-clean s~~~ I already did, and after awhile it p~~~ed me off beyond belief. So,  i stopped doing it, she would throw these temper tantrums and completely lose it. Talk about a confusing situation, I honestly cannot take that sort of mind f~~~ anymore. Damn if you do, and damn if you don’t. What the hell is so hard with just accepting the the way that person washes the dishes, as long as all the food is off it, you’re good to go!.

 

Another thing I want to point out is that, if you look at these men carefully, They almost look lifeless, like a zombie or something. As if the life force of their very being was sucked out of them. They don’t look happy, they look tired, worn out. Why?, because they WORK, they’re the bread winners and all these guys ask for in return is a little appreciation, they don’t get that. They come home to a bitching wife who complains about “these kids are driving me nuts” or “how come you don’t ask about my day?“.

Well, let’s see honey, i have a boss that absolutely f~~~ing hates my guts, the new hires want my position, and I’ve got assholes to deal with each day. What was your day like?, change a few diapers? pop in a kids DVD and make the kids lunch or breakfast?, wowwwww that sounds sooooo f~~~ing difficult.

 

What I also didn’t like about this atrocious look into Married couples lives, is how one-sided it was. I swear, 95% of it talked about the Women, and want they want and how they feel. I was happy to see a goddamn Man Cave these dudes had!!, s~~~ nowadays most Men don’t even have that because their wives would complain about “are you watching porn?”, “you play too many online games” bla bla bla.

 

If anything this piece of crap put together by Barbra Walters should be a cautionary tale for every young person NOT to get Married. Why?, you’ll end up looking like these guys, unhappy, stressed out and at your wits end.

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I can’t vote that up enough.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[jambearParticipant 282]

@keymaster

Sometimes when a man is faced with so much bulls~~~ and hatred all he can do is laugh. Laugh at the world, laugh at himself, laugh at the hypocrisy of it all. Sometimes you get shocked so much you break for a moment and laughter is all that is left inside you. I broke last night.

@fitzbones

A great saying but trying to get woman to adopt it is hopeless.

@o2tosin

That is something you are only supposed to read in 1984, not present day America. You have to have an insane level of disconnect to not see the hypocrisy in what the feminists are doing. Good to see that some men want to retort though, that counts for something.

@Deus Ex Machina

I can not believe you were able to stomach sitting through that whole thing. You deserve all the beer ever for it though.

It seems like no matter what these guys did it was never enough in the eyes of their “perfect” wives. Why would you keep on jumping through so many hoops for, this is something I will never understand. I mean is sex really that important that you will run yourself ragged for the slim chance of getting it a few time a month? Is it that you really wanted a child and putting up with this woman is the only way you could get one? Are you so afraid of being alone or being called gay that you do not care who you are with as long as it has a vagina? Please someone explain it to me because I just do not understand the logic.

I wish guys would see this and run for the hills but seeing the guys in my lecture made me sad. I just saw them agreeing and nodding their heads in approval of everything. Call me an optimist but I hope some of them were doing it so they do not seem like a misogynist, but secretly found it as disgusting as I did. Who knows though.

 

 

[AlmostNiceGuyParticipant 210]

God damn, talk about misandry. All this video really showed me was that it doesn’t matter how much you do for a woman, how much you “care” for her in her emotional, economic, and physical needs…It’s just never enough. To be quite honest women have a hole in their heart. Sounds ridiculous, but bear with me. Have you ever seen a woman SATISFIED with her economic status? no. Have you ever seen a woman SATISFIED to be married? No. It doesn’t matter how much a man does for them, it’s never enough, and that is the problem. The MORE you do, the more they EXPECT that you will do better, or continue to improve your behavior towards them. And then they get angry, because you aren’t trying harder and harder than before. You can never fill that hole they have (pun not intended), and so you see men bending over backwards trying to please their wifes/girlfriends, and that only makes the situation worst, accustuming them to being treated so well. That is why men in relationships/marriages, need to do the opposite, slowly but surely, start trating them worse and worse, or the best alternative, tell them you are going to the store, and just never coming back. At the end of the day leaving is the best alternative, but these pussy whipped men think that by doing so they “will not have love” in their lives. At the end of the day, leaving will improve the situation, either by getting break-up sex, or finding a new chick that doesn’t have such high expectations. Sorry for ranting, its just this type of video drives me nuts, suggesting that men “aren’t trying hard enough”. Pleasing a woman emotionally is about as “easy” as breaking down a brick wall with a flacid penis.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

1:22 is all I could manage. Deus is a masochist!

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

I remember a cultural anthropology class I signed up for at community college. I lasted about 30 minutes into the first lecture before the teacher starting going off on the obligatory “joys of diversity”. Needless to say I dropped the class the same day.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Wow tht one women who is a teacher, that is typical women behavior right there. “You have 27 kids pull at your leg all day and try to keep your patience”. How about you don’t go into teaching if you can’t handle that? I may work at high school now, but I have taught all grades in Europe and before getting my job at a high school here I subbed at elementary schools,I even interned at them in college and you need to have patience. Even working on high school now having to deal with kids who don’t do their work or don’t want to listen at times I don’t come home and go “omg my day was so hard I can’t do anything else I am so stressed” Last year I had a student in Algebra who not only didn’t do his work, but would constantly be off task in class and in the computer lab would be googling different shoes he liked and when I told him to do math he would say “I am doing math” with me looking right at the screen of his google show search. Was it annoying? Yes. But stuff like that didn’t make me come home and act like my day terrible and make me un happy. It seems women will always be so “Stressed” or “tired” after work where us men can much easily go home or do something after work without any complaining.

That guy who owns the investment firm shouldn’t feel bad if he has to stay late. It is that lab that gives his wife all those nice things we all know she loves. Women fail to understand that if they live a more lavish lifestyle then chances are their husbands are going to be stuck at work more, that is the trade off. Plus no one ever mentions how the man must feel always being at work and not getting to see his kids as much and the fact his wife gets to easily live off of his wages while bitching to him all the time.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

@jambear

Trust me, it was not easy enduring that, but after you’ve been married to Satan herself, it’s not so bad to watch. someone had to take one for the team!. Haha!.

As soon as you put a ring on that girls finger and the marriage contract is signed?, sex dies off like a damn T-Rex did 65 million years ago. It goes completely and utterly extinct!. The sex was good with my ex wife when we started dating, however when we went into our second year of marriage?, it was gone. There should be a psychosocial brain test done on the female mind after they sign a marriage contract.

 

Women begin to get fat, stop having sex, and just complain more and do less.

 

I seriously would have to prove myself worthy, just to enter her “Holy Vagina”. I’d clean up, wash the dishes, mop the floors, wipe the windows, clean the bathroom, all for her to lay there like a dead fish…..when we did? it was almost always was a chore on her part. She also did this s~~~, she’d ask me to do the dishes, and afterwards she’d give me sex, so me being all stoked for sex I’d do it (like a dumbass) only to come back into our bedroom and find her snoring away. That s~~~ would f~~~ with my mind so bad sometimes.

 

When women start using sex a damn tool to get what they want? or give it as a “Reward“?, that’s when it’s time to say goodbye!. With most wives, it’s about “How much do you care“, “Do you even love me“, “I need you to listen to me“. Well, it’s pretty f~~~ing obvious I passed those tests already when we dated honey, otherwise I wouldn’t f~~~ing be here now would I?…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

Holy F~~~, I’m glad I never got married! Yeah, my life make look lonely from the outside, but damn I am glad I never went through that.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I had a similar incident when I was in school.

In regards to your grade, it really depends on your professor.  Some don’t take ideological rejection seriously, others will.  The teacher I had, during a similar issue, gave me a barely passing C.  She gave me this C after I made an observation that a writer was bias and did not back up her claims with enough evidence.

In regards to universities, they are largely meant for brainwashing.  The role of the university is to tell you what and how to think and then take your money.  If you disagree in any respect, you will probably be punished.  Unless you are guaranteed a job coming out of school, you are wasting your time.  I would not go back, due to the PC bulls~~~, even if it was completely free.

[GoneGaltParticipant 361]

S~~~! Jambear, don’t leave us hanging – did the professor penilize (pun intended) you for expressing an honest opinion?? Thank goodness none of my classes involved anything like that, I’m 58 and simply didn’t take any electives like that because I would have simply dropped the class if someone tried to shovel s~~~ like that on me. The worst that ever happened to me was in high school when an older (and ugly) bitch of a science teacher (Ms. Rosenthal) marked my answer of ‘Artic’ wrong because I’d misspelled it (I left out the ‘c’). When I then said that other students were given credit for it she said she knew I shouldn’t have misspelled it and held me to a higher standard. When I remarked that it wasn’t fair, she came back with the old ‘life isn’t fair’ and I bit my tongue and was able to suppress a ‘No, life is simply life – it’s C~~~S like you that are unfair’.

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