Vindicitive Divorcing Wife Nightmare

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

She can say whatever she wants. that doesn’t make it true. Keep counselling with your lawyer. If she violates a restraining order, report it. She sounds very toxic.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[MemberParticipant 323]

You already see now what she is. Don’t deny what your gut is telling you. If you don’t have kids with her get the attorney working on way to cut ties with her for good. There is no reason to talk to her anymore if you don’t have kids……the rest can be worked out through a lawyer.

However, if you have kids you are in for a rough ride. As I type this I am getting repeated calls on my phone from my child’s mom (ex) over and over and over. I answered once and once I realized it had nothing to do with our child I cut the conversation short. However, that is never good enough to these women….they will call and call and leave nasty messages with any insult you can dream of just because you won’t give them the attention they desire. Your ex breaking her own restraining order by calling you was just that….she want’s to talk to you and she was desperate. Do as the others said and report her through your attorney. Seriously…..make it clear that you want no contact with her for any reason. If you don’t she will just keep bothering you. Same goes for her family. Your attorney can notify them in writing as well if need be. They will all work on her behalf to guilt and harass you….f~~~ them all.

When this is over (if you don’t have kids of course) you can cut all ties..change your phone number, email, home address, drop off facebook etc. and start over. Consider it a valuable lesson and walk into the sunset. Don’t ever let a woman get an advantage over you again bud. Good luck.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Sound advice from OldBill. Double thumbs up man.

[MotivParticipant 441]

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[experiencedParticipant]

Soloway wrote:

experienced wrote:

Eek hit upon the very important point.
Brainpilot used to hit on this, I wish he were here now.

There is the HER that you want to believe exists.{she does not exist}
vs.
There is the actual her which is what you are seeing now. She has emerged. She has dropped all her camouflage. You must remember and refer to her only as what you are seeing Now.

That is the toughest part. It is sooo baffling to me that she turned from this super sweet loving character to satan incarnate; freaks me out how good she was at deceiving me. How do you guys come to term with this Jekyl/Hyde complex? I almost have this reflex/paranoia when I see women bc I can almost see past the smiles and looks and see the darkness.

When faced with anything this daunting, study it.
Go back through this website via clicking on the author’s name and reading everything from Brainpilot, Keymaster, Sidecar et al.
It’s an ongoing process because society is an ongoing process that doesn’t have your interests in mind. Hope this helps.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

“huge contrast from the cute innocent girl I first met. Scary.”

True Story brother, My Ex Wife was just as sweet and innocent as well, and could charm the pants off me at the drop of a hat. Boy was I wrong!, Long story short, she turned into an abusive, alcoholic who was intent on draining me of my Money I worked hard for.

Hope it all works out, good thing you got away from the Ex, they are venomous.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

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