Vindicitive Divorcing Wife Nightmare

[SolowayParticipant 63]

A bit of an update:

For those who haven’t read my intro or previous marriage post; I am a recent red piller, victim to a wife whom, after I decided to separate from her alcoholic mood swinging behavior, decided to seek retribution by falsely accusing of domestic violence.

After 8 months of agonizing depression and trying to recover, I was finally “okay”; got a new job, new friends, discovered mgtow.

Then the vindictive wife returns…

I got a call from her (violating her own restraining order) saying that she now needs insurance from me and that because I got a lawyer for the divorce she’s gonna get one herself and I’ll have to pay for it.

Furthermore, her sister texts me saying that what my ex-wife is doing is righteous. That she’s protecting herself and deserves my insurance for all the court trauma…. wtf.

Baffles me that after so many months I have agonized over it, tried to come to terms with what happened and she’s the same old b*tch self. Unwilling to see her mistakes but willing to cause more harm.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. Never have I been so backstabbed/betrayed from someone I loved and cared for so much. Boggles my mind how evil she is, huge contrast from the cute innocent girl I first met. Scary.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Keep us updated, this story is a sweet reminder of the chameleon that women are. I wish you the best man and keep your cool, she’s banking in you to loose it.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

this story is a sweet reminder of the chameleon that women are.

I prefer the use the word parasite rather than chameleon. While they to pretend to be something else to lure a man, most of their activities are centered around sucking the resources out of men when the could work for a living.

A chameleon doesn’t pretend to be anything other than what it is. A predatory lizard, with good camouflage skills, that eats only what it is able to kill.

So, let’s give the lizards a break.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[SolowayParticipant 63]

She’s more like the facehugger from Alien

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

I don’t know what state you live in but you do not have to pay for her legal fees. If she claims that she cannot afford a lawyer, the jurisdiction she is in will assign one. She still has to pay for legal services one way or the other. And not being nosy, but you are still separated and not divorced? Also, I don’t get the insurance part. Anyway, if you have a lawyer, you need to run all of this by him/her. Things get tricky when you’re separated as opposed to divorced. Don’t give her anything without consulting a lawyer first. Just my advice, not telling you what to do because I don’t know the circumstances. Tread carefully and I hope it works out for you. A lot of women on this earth are pure evil. Never let your guard down and don’t let emotions and feelings outweigh common sense.

[SolowayParticipant 63]

Yessir, I’ve been consulting with my lawyer, according to him she’s just blowing smoke with vague threats. I’m recording everything (i.e. her texts/calls). I’m in California, and I’m sure she can get an affordable legal consultant and even free healthcare, it’s all bs just to prolong court nonsense.

[OldBillParticipant]

If you actually have recorded all her contacts with you, have your lawyer her to the court for violating her own no contact order. You need to put this woman on her back foot. She needs to start reacting to you instead of the other way around.

Start acting proactively. Begin your divorce proceedings NOW. Serve her with the papers NOW. Insist that she meet every court deadline NOW. Make her dance to your tune and stop being a victim.

The sooner your divorce is legal, the sooner she will be out of your life.

Also, block all contact with her family. As your soon-to-be ex-sister-in-law proved, those people are nothing but additional weapons in your wife’s hands.

GET STARTED NOW and good luck.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[SolowayParticipant 63]

OldBill wrote:

Start acting proactively. Begin your divorce proceedings NOW… As your soon-to-be ex-sister-in-law proved, those people are nothing but additional weapons in your wife’s hands.

GET STARTED NOW and good luck.

Thanks, it has already begun, time to give her a taste of her own poison.

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

In regards to the restraining order, I believe it is illegal for your ex to contact you through 3rd parties, such as her family, as well.

Follow Old Bill’s advice and go after her for breaking her own restraining order, etc.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Run everything past your lawyer.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

This.is.what happen.to.many men all.over that country or should.i said all.over.that world none.of.thoses men.though something like that could happen.to them that.is that danger.all married men faces marriages.is a contract easy.to get in but hard to get.out hope everything go well with.you

[experiencedParticipant]

Step one hire the best divorce attorney.
Step two consult with the next few in the list once to block her
Step three have your attorney from step one inform her that ALL communication with you will be through him [[in the RARE case her, if best divorce atty is female]]
Step four DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES COMMUNICATE WITH HER THROUGH ANYONE EXCEPT YOUR ATTORNEY.
Step five reread step four.
Step six reread step four
Step seven reread step four.
Good luck. Keep us updated.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[experiencedParticipant]

Sit down now and write down every reason to divorce her.
Everything.
File immediately. Sue her for divorce immediately
Why? Because I didn’t do this and SEVERELY regretted it later on.
WHO the f~~~ does she think she is?

BELIEVE me, OLD BILL’s correct.
You must take the offensive right now. You will get slaughtered via a defensive battle.
Years later [this won’t happen] you can give her 110% of everything if you decide to.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[EekParticipant 1162]

You also need to divorce yourself of any lingering blue pill after effects. She has threatened your freedom, your finances, and your social standing. That makes her an enemy, and should be treated as such within the law.

Do your best to purge any lingering sentimentality, or she will use it against you.

All your public and private interactions with anyone associated with her should be recorded, and make sure your behavior is above reproach so you don’t let anything get back to her to give more ammunition.

[experiencedParticipant]

Eek hit upon the very important point.
Brainpilot used to hit on this, I wish he were here now.

There is the HER that you want to believe exists.{she does not exist}
vs.
There is the actual her which is what you are seeing now. She has emerged. She has dropped all her camouflage. You must remember and refer to her only as what you are seeing Now.

My ex had the gall, post divorce, to try to pass herself off as the earlier her.
Unfortunately for her, she now looks like this:

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fKUIMqrxgA4/UMS40KmoifI/AAAAAAAA-PY/5nzbz2i-CXc/s1600/Spike-Tom-And-Jerry.jpg

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[SolowayParticipant 63]

experienced wrote:

Eek hit upon the very important point.
Brainpilot used to hit on this, I wish he were here now.

There is the HER that you want to believe exists.{she does not exist}
vs.
There is the actual her which is what you are seeing now. She has emerged. She has dropped all her camouflage. You must remember and refer to her only as what you are seeing Now.

That is the toughest part. It is sooo baffling to me that she turned from this super sweet loving character to satan incarnate; freaks me out how good she was at deceiving me. How do you guys come to term with this Jekyl/Hyde complex? I almost have this reflex/paranoia when I see women bc I can almost see past the smiles and looks and see the darkness.

[TiredofbsParticipant 485]

Soloway, don’t try to understand a woman’s nature. It’s very hard on anyone to accept the fact that someone they loved and trusted could turn on them with little or in most cases, no remorse. The behavior from a woman like that is evil and is meant to tear you down, and rob you of your life and purpose on this earth, whatever that may be.

You will go crazy trying to understand psychotic behavior in women. Don’t waste your mental energy. It will also drag you down physically if you think about it too much. Take the advice from the gentlemen above in earlier posts and listen to your lawyer. It’s hell going through this but it will end. Don’t let a woman destroy your life or your confidence.

The woman you described probably can’t even explain herself why she did that to you. So, no way in hell you can ever begin to understand. Go on with your life. Hard to do, I know, and a helluva lot of men on this site know it to. But you can make it.

[NEVERGELParticipant 166]

Soloway wrote:

She’s more like the facehugger from Alien

“A creature that gestates inside a living human host and has concentrated acid for blood.”

I live the life I love and I love the life I live.

[SolowayParticipant 63]

Very true. Any mgtow videos or posts you can recommend for me to check out? Thanks

[HitmanParticipant]

This woman is typical. .no remorse, don’t expect any. The guys have given all great advice. .I like sms.backup.app…sends all of her texts to your email. .she will f~~~ up..This let’s you save the ammo she texts you to use to protect yourself.

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