Valentine's Surprise!

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Hey Daryll55, read your intro, I think you have a lot of experience to bring to this community. Welcome aboard. Thanks for your response and there is not a doubt in my mind that she didn’t want something from me. She’s not texted back since then but I doubt she has given up that easily, one thing I know from the past is that she cannot stand to be ignored.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Of course it bothers you. After all, you were together for a while, so it does not feel good when a cheap tactic that requires no effort from her side (and in fact is one a coward would use) is then thrown in your face trying to shame/guilt you into something.

But the point here is simple:
A) She is a coward and does not even have the forwardness to srtaight up call you and tell you what she is thinking (in other words, she does not care enough to work for it).
B) She tries to use your emotional care for her in order to make you do something (aka, emotional blackmail… yeah, stay away from her).
C) She gets upset when you dont fall into her fantasy of what you should do (kids behave like that).

So, no reason to hate or get angry at her, but there are reasons to stay away from her.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

CatsPaw wrote:

Of course it bothers you. After all, you were together for a while, so it does not feel good when a cheap tactic that requires no effort from her side (and in fact is one a coward would use) is then thrown in your face trying to shame/guilt you into something.

But the point here is simple:
A) She is a coward and does not even have the forwardness to srtaight up call you and tell you what she is thinking (in other words, she does not care enough to work for it).
B) She tries to use your emotional care for her in order to make you do something (aka, emotional blackmail… yeah, stay away from her).
C) She gets upset when you dont fall into her fantasy of what you should do (kids behave like that).

So, no reason to hate or get angry at her, but there are reasons to stay away from her.

Agree with it all CatsPaw, good observation! ….. and they want US to be able to communicate with them!

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[CG27Participant 302]

Just another attention seeking narcissist who is trying to create reasons to get in contact with you. All she is looking for is your time and attention and the worst thing you can do is give it to her. You could have all kinds of time on your hands and she still isn’t worth a second of it.

No reaction, No Response, Nothing

The single biggest threat to your happiness is women and the only way to win is to not play the game

[CG27Participant 302]

Just another attention seeking narcissist who is trying to create reasons to get in contact with you. All she is looking for is your time and attention and the worst thing you can do is give it to her. You could have all kinds of time on your hands and she still isn’t worth a second of it.

No reaction, No Response, Nothing

The single biggest threat to your happiness is women and the only way to win is to not play the game

[Anonymous 13]

You’re a million times better than her, she KNOWS it.

No. F~~~s. Given.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Yeah that’s what p~~~ed me off the most, after the way she treated she doesn’t even have to respect or empathy to say “hey how’s it going?” You guys are right, it’s downright childish. Clearly she wanted to contact me so instead of being an adult she instead makes up some dumb bulls~~~ like that. AWALT.

[AuctoratusParticipant 52]

Hm. I think your Ex is trying to stay relevant, by implying you should still be there for her, just in case she get tired of her ‘friends’. Or it could be this woman is delusional and lonely, because her other ‘friends’ stood her up. No chocolate & money on Valentines Day – so sad, so sad. Not! LMAO

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