Valentine's Surprise!

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

Relax, deep breath, exhale. You are only a few months into ghosting. It gets easier. Don’t give her the sweat of you nut sack. She got a Starbucks and moved on to orbiter number 2. Give her nothing.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

This is typical behavior for a female narcissist. The NARC simply wants to see if she can still get a reaction of some kind out of you. Any response from you, of any kind will simply feed and re-enforce her sense that she can reach out and manipulate you anytime she wants. Shut her down man, by not responding. If she loved you she would never have let you go.

As your friend and your attorney, the most eloquent way I can put this to you is .DON’T GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO F~~~ WITH YOUR HEAD !!!!!! Take it from me. People do not change even after 30 or more years pass. There are two things you simply cannot fix in this world……

You can’t fix stupid….and you can’t fix crazy. Women unfortunately are born with large doses of both.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

For 3 years after an ex of mine MARRIED THE VERY NEXT GUY(!) I received an email on 02.14.

Imagine being her husband and knowing that your new bride is emailing an ex on Valentine’s Day. Not once. Not twice. THREE TIMES. Three years in a row. EIGHT years after the wedding, I still get a note on my Birthday.

Yeah. No s~~~. I had this South African princess call me on V-Day, from her new boyfriend’s bed [while he was on call at the hospital] telling me how much she missed me, shouldn’t have left, blah, blah. Click.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Workhard wrote:

Just for kicks I should tell her to go pester her f~~~ing boyfriend.

No. There is no “should”.

“Boyfriend?” That word is for women and gays.
It’s “man”. You’re a MAN. Leave her and her “boyfriend” alone and be glad it’s not you.

Workhard wrote:

After all, why the f~~~ would she be texting me on Valentine’s Day (MGTOW Day) if she has a boyfriend?

It’s not “Valentine’s Day”. It’s International MGTOW Day. Get it?

Why would an MARRIED ex of mine email me on 02.14?
I don’t care. Maybe she wants the HBI (hot beef injection) but I don’t care.

You don’t either.

It’s not “Valentine’s Day”. It’s International MGTOW Day.

Reframe that s~~~.

53ClicksUp wrote:

The NARC(ISSIST) simply wants to see if she can still get a reaction of some kind out of you.

That’s it. And that’s all it is. She would rather fight with you and ruin your day than have a pleasant day herself.

53ClicksUp wrote:

the most eloquent way I can put this to you is .DON’T GIVE HER THE CHANCE TO F~~~ WITH YOUR HEAD !!!!!!

YES!! ^^^ To Obi Wan, you listen ^^^^

Do not let a woman live in your head rent free.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Heave-Ho Mgtow wrote:

She got a Starbucks and moved on to orbiter number 2. Give her nothing.

+100. You think you’re the only guy she’s screwing with today? Guess again. She’s got a s~~~ load of them lined up. She’s just trying to get any response from you. It’s oxygen to a fire. If you give any response she will start spinning it, throwing a spark looking for ignition.

People like that are experts at getting under your skin. Trust me, when you were dating she was taking notes. She knows EXACTLY how to get a rise out of you. I little text on V Day to see if you would take the chance to gloat about your new girlfriend. Or to see if you acted like a little orbiter pussy.

It was a s~~~ test, and you passed not because you did what she wanted, but because you did what YOU wanted, which was to avoid the bitch. To not have to deal with her again.

Now, do yourself a favor and block her number.

Order the good wine

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

Her incredible guy judgement radar, who thought he was better than you, backfired, oops.

I guess the c~~~ is bored.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Anonymous 25]

Women hate being ignored. Bet that stung like a hornet.

They like it even less when you just change your number and they have no way of contacting you ever again. Sends the message that the door is not only closed, it’s nailed shut, bricked up, surrounded with barbed wire.

The future’s bright, the future’s mgtow; no time to waste replying to ex’s or even reading anything they have to say.

[Anonymous 54]

Workhard wrote:

To do this on Valentine’s day of all days. What’s up with that s~~~ guys?

I doubt she doesnt know what day it is.When ever a woman approaches you, she wants something. Never live life in reverse.

[Anonymous 18]

That woman is quite dumb if she thinks ‘Oh did you text me’ as a way to have you notice she is still alive.

Like so 16.

Or may be she wants the new Macbook pro and has collected $2449 from 12 other betas and needs another $200 to meet the MRSP (taxes included).

She sounds like a whore bro.

And whores do not use macbook pros. Their pimps do.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

The typical woman can not stand the idea that a guy has lost interest in her. She may have chosen someone else to protect and provide for her, but she never wants to allow any man to escape her orbit.

Delete the text, go on about your day.

[Anonymous 42]

If you have call blocker, use it.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Just ignore her.

Reply back with: “Do I know you?”

[Artboy99Participant 369]

sidecar wrote:

Jan.Sobieski wrote:

Just ignore her.

Reply back with: “Do I know you?”

Nope. She will respond with “tee hee, silly” and in her mind you cared enough to reply.

[Anonymous 5]

She should be off f~~~ing her new boyfriend . It’s just to feed her ego in her mind she’s thinking we’ll if I just contact you you’ll answer right away don’t if you do it’ll confirm her power over you.

[Anonymous 13]

Workhard wrote:

To do this on Valentine’s day of all days. What’s up with that s~~~ guys?

It’s really very simple, you’re more likely to be (in her mind anyway) missing her, or just more vulnerable to her monkey branch attempt. Especially if she thinks you’re alone.

Workhard wrote:

I can’t help but wonder if she really thought I may have been calling her or if it was just a front to get me to text her, either way I’m ghosting, just would be nice to know if she realizes that she f~~~ed up.

What are the chances someone from your town was calling her? She wanted to feel you out but didn’t want the risk of rejection if she said something like ‘hey there, it’s me, how have you been?’

No, it’s much safer for her narcissistic ego to do the old ‘did you call me?’ ploy. She can then start a text conversation and see how the land lies.

You know what, it’s predictable and text book.

[Anonymous 13]

Workhard wrote:

So I get a text this morning from my ex, haven’t heard from her in five months now, the ex who left me for a “better guy”. The text read this “Did you call me from a phone number from your Town, your the only one I know that lives there”.

Also, why didn’t she just call or text THAT number back if she was so curious?

You know, actually contact the number where the call came from.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

You are bothered but remember this, you ignoring her is making her f~~~ing livid. You did the right thing not responding, you already know how that s~~~ show ends so why go back to it. She more than likely wanted attention so she reached out to you. Nothing and I mean nothing is going to be more of a slap in her face than you proving that she can no longer control you with her vagina.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

I hear you SpritRR, that’s exactly what I was thinking. Foghorn of course your right, I do know how it ended and no way would I go back to that bulls~~~. What nerve it takes on her end to try this s~~~ though. I never really thought this day would come because she was so adamant that her and the new guy would be so happy and how she had finally found happiness in her life…

[narwhalParticipant]

I agree that she is definitely playing a game here, but it may not be because she is interested in getting back together with you.

As much as women manipulate and convince themselves that their evil is justified, they still want you to ‘forgive’ them to alleviate their guilt. If you show her that there are ‘no hard’ feelings, then she can tell herself that she didn’t hurt you and alleviate her guilt. If you respond to her hatefully (in her opinion) then she can tell herself that you’re a bad person and deserved what you got from her…alleviating her guilt. She is even trying to take your lack of response as an inclination of bad character on your part so she can alleviate her guilt.

Give her nothing. Even you respond to her, make sure that you give her nothing.

My ex tried to do this to me years ago. Communication was a must because of our kids.

I don’t understand why we can’t be friends
We are divorced. It’s a naturally antagonistic relationship. What did you expect to happen.

That’s the last I heard of that. She will occasionally start trying to talk to me about her life, her plans outside of the kids. I just give her a blank stare.

Ok. Then do it.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

What a coincidence!
she just happened to text you on VD day.I realize that I am the newb here, but I have a bit of experience concerning women. She is “working ” you (for whatever reason ).When women talk to men, there is always pretense.
I F you think she brings trouble, its best to just ignore her.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

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