Valentines Day Approaching – Old Fling Calls

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I wouldn’t press charges. Just don’t answer the call and don’t give her the f~~~ she wants on V day because she will come back for more next year.

Don’t make any more entanglements between you. Block her new number and consider changing yours. I know it sound like a hassle but she sounds like an abuse claim waiting to happen.

If she shows up again, then I would call the cops. I wouldn’t open the door or even talk to her.

I was advised to do this by the police when my ex called them on me after I let her back in my house.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[narwhalParticipant]

Peer pressure is a common thing among women and men. It’s really not surprising that a woman feels like she’s less if she doesn’t at least have an admirer on Vday. It’s no different then a teenage boy who feels he’s less of a man if he hasn’t been laid. It’s all just nonsense.

But I think V day old flings calling up is more than just peer pressure. It’s also an opportunity to get free stuff from a guy. If you try and start something up with an old fling at any other time, she gets nothing.

Another way to look at it, if she really was interested in you, then she would be doing something FOR you with no strings attached. Instead, she tries to convince you that you do something for her, you might get something in return.

Ok. Then do it.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Well, I am expecting women giving things to me.

I will get no gift? Okay, no gift for them too!

It is just supply and demand. And men are in high demand now. Enjoy the scarcity, gents. Make yourselves even more unavailable. The price of c~~~ was already sky high, but now, they cannot buy is using diamonds.

And bitches, I expect a diamond ring and you on your knees sucking my dick, and asking me to marry you.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

That c~~~ is no good and lonely.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Prophet MicahParticipant 1972]

Wow, a wife of a friend of mine was trying to hook me up with some friend of hers. Valentines Day kinda explains it.

Haven’t heard back form her since I told her “I’m saving my money for a sexbot. At least then I’m getting what I pay for.” Which was yesterday.

She even sent a picture of her friend. The bitch hit the wall probably 5yrs ago lol. I was very kind in avoiding insulting her friend though.

No Wife - No Strife

[GrumpyParticipant]

Meh.
When a woman calls me, invites me out for a date, presents ME with a lavish unnecessary gift, pays for the outing, requests noncommittal sex, then drives me home afterwards. I may consider possibly thinking about Feb 14th being something other than Feb 14th, or Int’l MGTOW Day.

-Note-
The odds dont look good for that happening.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Ranger One wrote:

F~~~ing crazy makes for crazy f~~~ing? LOL.

F~~~ing crazy makes for jail time.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Update –

I never responded to the girl in question.

She calls me again tonight. I don’t answer.

After the first call w/no answer on my part she IMMEDIATELY texts me:

“F~~~ You!”

Followed by another text:

“You won’t answer me”.

Radio silence on my part.

Ten minutes later – another attempted call.

So much for being my “friend” and “checking up on me”, eh?

W/in 24 hours of no response it goes from the innocent “friend” above, to – “F~~~ You!”.

The only thing worse to a woman than rejection, is radio silence/indifference.

As an aside, it’s interesting women don’t even know how to use femininity any longer. If I was in a moment of weakness, a simple “I miss you” or “I never forgot about you” would have gone so much further.

Instead I get some BS “friend” “checking up on you” followed by “F~~~ You!”; all w/in 24 hours. Talk about flipping the switch! Good God.

I haven’t seen this person in over 5 years; we initially met almost 17 years ago. But…24 hours of no response on my part, is enough to induce vindictive anger.

IN…SANE.

And, if a man did this he would be labeled: insecure, jealous, psycho-stalker.

Ya, no thanks.

Resident cynic.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Insert slow clap meme here
Well played
I’d be giggling non stop seeing the phone blowing up

women hate it when you see their intentions right away – you can’t bluff in poker with your hand open

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Space Cowboy wrote:

Resource harvesting season. They need to ring around their old suppliers trying to strike a deal that suits them. Put several ex texts out wanting a fancy meal paid for, check positive responses and pick the fanciest resteraunt option.

As a general principle, what you say is true, but, you can’t just apply these things to every situation.

You don’t reconnect w/someone you met 17 years ago simply for a free meal; especially at my age (I’m not in my 20’s). She also makes more money than me, at this point.

My point is, as much as we talk about women using men for financial resources, they are just as likely to use men for emotional/romantic/passionate resources..

Most men are romantics pretending to be pragmatics. Most women are pragmatics pretending to be romantics. In my youth, like most men, I was no exception.

Women?

They want it all.

Typically, they don’t get it “all” from one, individual man; so they’ll use 2 or more men to get it “all” from. But, to limit a females never ending need of “consuming” to merely financial resources, is short-sighted and inaccurate.

Again –

They want it all; & be damned anyone who stands in her way.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Russky wrote:

I’d be giggling non stop seeing the phone blowing up

I wish I was giggling. To be perfectly honest, it’s yet another bitter red pill to swallow.

I’ve swallowed enough (thank you women).

But, it just confirms how utterly selfish they are.

All w/in 24 hours:

“just THINKING bout you” <–Teee-heee-hee

Next day:

“FU$K YOU!”

God.

They are literally incapable of having feelings for anyone other than themselves and their children.

It’s repulsing.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I’m using this thread as a means of a personal journal at this point.

This experience truly put another nail in my red pill coffin.

A female obviously had an emotional need to be met (she wanted to be wanted/needed) and it wasn’t met w/in 24 fu$King hours.

Her response?

“FU$K YOU!”

“You didn’t ANSWER **ME**”.

Un,fu$king real.

It’s NEVER about a relationship.

There is no reciprocity, in her mind. No give and take, it’s about what she’s getting, and that is all.

I already knew this a long time ago, many years before even hearing of this forum and joining it a couple of years ago. But, there’s nothing like another kick in the face, from a female you’ve known for almost 20 years to make it THAT much more real; yet again.

They truly can’t love like we can.

It’s all about them.

Zero reciprocity.

What kind of man can tolerate this, or any, “game”.

Fu$K that.

I’d rather be alone than “have” someone who can flip on switch.

No thanks.

Resident cynic.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

After the first call w/no answer on my part she IMMEDIATELY texts me:

“F~~~ You!”

Hehehe.

Maintain radio silence. Soon it will be time to twist the knife. After she finally gives up (probably on February 15th), give her another week of radio silence. Then send her a message: I’ve been in the hospital for a month in a coma. I haven’t been allowed to use my phone until today. And you come out of the blue and tell me ‘f~~~ you’ just because I can’t answer you immediately? You are a horrible person, and I never want to hear from you again. I am saving these texts, and I WILL get a restraining order against you if you ever call, text, e-mail, visit, or otherwise contact me ever again.

If she does contact you again, get the restraining order. If she contacts you after that, have her ass held in contempt.

Problem solved.

You don’t necessarily have to use the hospital excuse, just something innocent that would keep you away from your phone. Like maybe your crappy phone battery died and you had to wait for a replacement from Amazon or whatever. Point is, call her out on her 24 hour turnaround and leave her knowing SHE f~~~ed up and SHE is the reason why you want nothing more to do with her.

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