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I wonder how many of you have or are currently experiencing this.
An old fling – someone I initially met 17 years ago and I haven’t seen in 5 years – just called me. I rejected the call. She leaves a VM, acting all innocent as though she’s just seeing how I’m doing (she never cared about me in the first place, it was always about her). She attempted to call 14x in total, all of which I rejected, within a half an hour. <—Ya, I’m sure she’s “just” seeing how I’m doing.
Granted, we had a really steamy affair; but it’s 9 days until Valentines day. The last time she tried to contact me was almost to the date a year ago – RIGHT before Valentines day.
The only amazing aspect about this to me, is how true the un-amazing cliche is about women and how emotional they are around a day designed to produce consumerism.
Women feel these tugs on the emotions of their heart-strings, because of “Valentines Day”; I could honestly care less. It’s not even on my radar – and I’m not trying to sound like some hard a$$ here. MAYBE when I was a puppy-eyed teenager, seeing the world through rose colored glasses would I be affected by some made up ‘Day’ for romance. It hasn’t occurred to me once in my adult life though.
Females are so predictable. So subject to group think, and emotions; such a foregone conclusion.
Anyone else getting past flings trying to contact them during this time of year?
Edit – btw this is the girl that put the final nail in my red pill coffin.
Resident cynic.
Anonymous43No old ex gf knows where I am, all at least 800 miles away, if it’s the ex wife ringing my doorbell, ummm it won’t be pretty.
No old ex gf knows where I am, if it’s the ex ringing my doorbell, ummm it won’t be pretty.
Like most people, I haven’t changed my cell # in over a decade.
Resident cynic.
I’ve been single for so long now my old flings have become ancient flings. They are so far past hitting the wall they have become the wall. I probably wouldn’t recognize one if they got in my cab and sat next to me.
None of them have my number as mobile phones hadn’t been invented when I last dated.Women are so bad, if they changed the law so I kept the house, I still wouldn't marry one. I'd rather be homeless.
Good catch. But just block her damn phone number(s).
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
I recognized as a teenager that Valentine’s Day was another one of those “mindless consumerism” days, where people (mostly guys) rush out last minute, in vain attempts of affections to buy cards, candy, and flowers for some “loved one”. I used to think – “If you really loved that person, you wouldn’t need a special day to show affection. You’d be showing it the rest of the year.” But after years and years of red pills, Valentine’s Day seems to me as an ever bigger waste than it was.
Valentines day ? It’s during flu season, how ironic, since the whole thing is SICKENING.
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Women feel these tugs on the emotions of their heart-strings, because of “Valentines Day”
Like I said in another thread: February 14th is the day that reminds single men of the benefits of being single while rubbing the noses of single women in their failure at life.
Happy International MGTOW Day!
Like most people, I haven’t changed my cell # in over a decade.
I maintain a phone number from my old area code for a very few old friends to keep in touch. Because I sure as f~~~ don’t want to give my current number, or area code, to anyone back there.
14 calls inside an hour? Be glad she doesn’t know where you live or she’d probably be beating on your door.
Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.
14 calls inside an hour? Be glad she doesn’t know where you live or she’d probably be beating on your door.
I had an exgf do both. Years ago, she left me for an ex, then she called me when I had a new girl (just a fling) over at my place. Eventually I turned the ringer sound off, but I could still SEE the phone ringing, because it was a transparent phone and it lit up when ringing. It rang for like 10 minutes straight. The fling thought my ex was a psycho.
I knew how long it took for the ex to get to my place from hers. (about 30 minutes). So I finished banging the hell out of the new fling, and I heard a knock at my door, and knew it was the ex. She kept yelling for me to open the door, but I wouldn’t open it, and she started very loudly weeping at my door. I told the fling “my ex is a psycho”, and the fling was scared, so I had the fling exit my apartment from a basement door in the back. By the time the fling walked around the apartment building the exgf was in her car weeping as she walked past to her own car.
Eventually I peered out of the apartment, and the old gf saw me and came in. She was all sad acting (hilarious, considering she had left ME for an ex). I ended up “comforting” her and sure enough it turned into sex, despite the fact that she said she could smell the other woman on me. Ended up banging the exgf like a loose screen door.
Females are silly. They really are like hens.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
It just never ceases to amaze me how true the cliche is of women being so emotional and swayed by popular thought. It’s absolutely NO coincidence that Valentines Day is about a week away, and the last time she tried this s~~~ was during this time a year ago.
I simply can’t imagine being so emotionally swayed by such a superficial day on the calendar, to that extent.
Resident cynic.
I maintain a phone number from my old area code for a very few old friends to keep in touch. Because I sure as f~~~ don’t want to give my current number, or area code, to anyone back there.
I actually thought I put her new # on my “reject list”, per my cell phone. She changed her # and I didn’t even recognize it last time this year when she called.
After I received 4 calls in a row from the same # last year around Valentines, and I answered to say “Who is this?” Her shock of horror was PRICELESS.
Is anyone else experiencing this during the holiday season and now as Valentines day is approaching?
Resident cynic.
So I finished banging the hell out of the new fling, and I heard a knock at my door, and knew it was the ex.
That’s when you call the police. And keep the door CLOSED. You’re inside, she’s locked outside, and you have another woman present to act as a witness.
And the next morning you go have a restraining order made out. Establish your paper trail early and often.
I ended up “comforting” her and sure enough it turned into sex,
Isn’t there a rule about sticking your dick in crazy?
Something along the lines of: “Don’t!”
Consider yourself lucky this little adventure didn’t come back to bite you in the ass.
mobile phones hadn’t been invented when I last dated
This is the way to date, gentlemen! A truly brilliant response! A man after my own heart right there!
These forums cheer me up no end…
An old fling – someone I initially met 17 years ago and I haven’t seen in 5 years – just called me.
She’s out of options and desperately trawling her old address books.
Resource harvesting season. They need to ring around their old suppliers trying to strike a deal that suits them. Put several ex texts out wanting a fancy meal paid for, check positive responses and pick the fanciest resteraunt option.
"Have you ever thought about any real freedoms? Freedom from the opinions of others...even from the opinions of yourself?"
Anonymous42I bet there’s a s~~~load of MGTOW in Venezuela!
As the ship sinks all rats start showing up for a flotation device! (YOU)
Whack that rat with your paddle! Old flings should be FLUNG!
The world burns and they’re still yammering something about equality?
They have no idea the kind of ugly headed our way! We do, that’s why we’re RUNNING!
You know you could press harrassment charges on her. 14 times is a lot
Marriage and Divorce for a man is like getting a cactus shoved up your ass. It’s painful with all the spines that go in and it is painful getting all the spines out, meanwhile Wifey gets most of the money, your home, your kids, and practically everything you own.
I ended up “comforting” her and sure enough it turned into sex,
Isn’t there a rule about sticking your dick in crazy?
Something along the lines of: “Don’t!”
Consider yourself lucky this little adventure didn’t come back to bite you in the ass.
F~~~ing crazy makes for crazy f~~~ing? LOL.
Actually, ironically, it did lead to a bankruptcy, but years later after that she helped me get a job in my field that I had gotten a degree in (I had serious failure to launch after graduation) and made up for multiple years of working fast food and data entry and the hundreds of resumes & applications sent in futility to that point.
All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.
You know you could press harrassment charges on her. 14 times is a lot
#YouToo
Its abuse, plain and simple. Be a survivor! Get the hat.
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