Urgent advice needed

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Stories like these makes me glad I’m a virgin who’s only girlfriend he ever had was his right hand and some lube.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[RennieParticipant]

Anthony wrote:

Stories like these makes me glad I’m a virgin who’s only girlfriend he ever had was his right hand and some lube.

No shame in that.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Sidecar’s plan is good, get someone else’s DNA if you can.

Other than that, have that c~~~ pay for a paternity test to prove you’re the father. I don’t know the law, but if she can’t prove you’re the father, you won’t be on the hook for child support…at least that makes sense to me.

Stop all contact and let her set up and pay for the paternity test. I was in a similar situation years ago, it’s a pretty awful feeling having absolutely no control so I feel for you. Actually it sounds almost exactly like the situation I was in. Except she was banging her orbiter blue piller instead of banging for drugs. Good luck to you brother.

[narwhalParticipant]

I’m going to have to disagree on the whole “get someone else’s DNA” plan. Personal ethics aside, consider the profession OP is looking to get into. If your first act in studying to become a medical doctor is to falsify medical test, that could very easily come back to haunt you. I don’t know enough about qualifications for earning your degree and other certifications, but I would not be surprised if you are ask about truthful medical records.

Besides, that if he submits a DNA test from Poland, it’s entirely possible that he may asked to rest when returns to the States. When the new test doesn’t match the old test, bad things will happen.

Ok. Then do it.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

narwhal wrote:

Personal ethics aside,

Ethics? This is family court we’re talking about. Ethics have nothing to do with anything. She already threw ethics out the window when she f~~~ed other men behind his back and unilaterally chose to have a baby to trap his future income for herself.

All is fair in love and war and family court.

If your first act in studying to become a medical doctor is to falsify medical test, that could very easily come back to haunt you.

So don’t get caught. Falsifying someone else’s results, especially in a way that might cause harm, would be medically ethically wrong, but he’s controlling his own results here which causes no harm whatsoever.

Besides, that if he submits a DNA test from Poland, it’s entirely possible that he may asked to rest when returns to the States.

He won’t be. By the time he’s back the case will have already been closed and the courts will be loath to reopen it for her. And the bitch will no doubt have moved on to another of her potential wallet candidates from the pool of other men she was also f~~~ing.

When the new test doesn’t match the old test, bad things will happen.

No they won’t. He’ll just blame the Polish lab for the “error”. But a retest is not going to happen.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

The important points are:

1) Get a paternity test by hook or crook. If your ex and her mother is religious, bribe a priest to tell them about a “divine intervention” where Jesus have ordered them to approve of a paternity test.

2) Take care of the legal side of things (yes, lawyers cost money, but hardly as much it will if you ignore the whole thing).

3) Don’t let the emotional side get the best of you.

Keep us posted. Good luck.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

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