$unts Behavior – Is this A Superficial Rant?

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

There was a recent posting that one member thought was just a “superficial rant“; if the following is perceived as a superficial rant, I would like to know.

I realize that sometimes members of ANY forum can become Confirmation Biased , and if the following is such a case, I would welcome the responses, because I do NOT want to become such a person.; and that precisely is, in part, why I am posting this.

Back-Story:

I was going for a walk today, getting some exercise. At the end of my walk was a very narrow pathway. These two girls (mid 20-‘s) were pushing this 5 ft tall shelf-structure through the walk way. They were clearly on the job, earning money, working for some local shop, pushing this shelf contraption down the road.

They were blocking the entire walk way. No big deal, I will simply turn sideways so I can pass them.

So, as I walk by, I am forced to turn myself sideways (literally) to accommodate their space. So, I naturally turn myself sideways, so as to avoid a collision course.

Once I am about 10 feet behind the girls in question, one of them streaks out –

“Excuse YOU!”.

This individual is WORKING for a living. I shouldn’t have to turn myself sideways, out of that persons way to simply walk by, then be met with this $hite!

I *immediately* turned around and said –

“Are you KIDDING ME!?!? I turned SIDEWAYS to let you by!”

The girl didn’t say a word; though once I walked about 20 feet further I heard some “heckle”. I think they were so shocked that a man would reply to them, that hey had no idea what to say in response.

To me, this type of attitude from females, exemplifies what we always talk about on this forum.

I am curious what each, individual, member on this forum thinks about an instance such as this –

Obviously this isn’t Earth shattering.
Big deal.
But, it is the everyday example of self-entitlteld, narcissistic females act.

The proper attitude should have been –

“I’m sorry, we’re taking up the ENTIRE walk way. Excuse us”.

But Slut-Cake took up the entire walk way, with two girls trying to man handle a cart that one man could have handled by his onesies…Then, once taking up the entire walk way and fu$king up the walk path, when a man gets OUT OF THEIR WAY, rather than apologizing for taking up the walk way, they yell at the man.

It’s an example in minutia, but suffice it to say, it proves the point: One man could have pushed that cart, and if he were in the way of ANYONE else, he himself would have apologized.

I’m just sick of the *attitude*.

Is this an example of “Confirmation Bias”, or would you guys not think the exact same way?

That type of attitude and behavior, pi$$es me the FU$K off. I can’t stand it.

I welcome any opinions – both contrary and in agreement.

Thank You,

AW.

Resident cynic.

[bstoffParticipant 4878]

That sounds pretty typical to me and that’s why we call them c~~~s.
Pretty cut and dry.

[ghostParticipant]

I believe you live in town as opposed to the suburbs. I have found women in urban environments to have that type of attitude. It is one of the reasons I prefer to live in the suburbs. I also don’t live in a liberal town so the women are generally very friendly around where I live.

That being said, I can understand your frustration. Her attitude was unwarranted but you could have gotten a similar attitude from a guy as well. I just think she was probably a bit frustrated, that’s all. Regardless, you handled it properly.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

bstoff wrote:

That sounds pretty typical to me and that’s why we call them c~~~s.
Pretty cut and dry.

Thanks for the input man!

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

ghost wrote:

I believe you live in town as opposed to the suburbs. I have found women in urban environments to have that type of attitude. It is one of the reasons I prefer to live in the suburbs. I also don’t live in a liberal town so the women are generally very friendly around where I live.

That being said, I can understand your frustration. Her attitude was unwarranted but you could have gotten a similar attitude from a guy as well. I just think she was probably a bit frustrated, that’s all. Regardless, you handled it properly.

Thanks Gambit!

In re-reading my post:

I didn’t articulate it quite properly. But, I appreciate your response as well as the guy above you.

My intention in positing, was wanting to ensure I wasn’t becoming some “echo chamber”/”Confirmation Biased”- as in, what I *perceive* in this world is simply a confirmation of what my individual biases are, as in part, by being a member of this forum/and/or my own individual perception.

I was looking for individual and objective opinions as to that isolated situation. Because to me, it was a superficial situation, but it exemplified so much as what we discuss on this forum.

<—Opposite of the “hive” mentality.

Thanks for the reply Gambit. I hope all is well bro!

Resident cynic.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22546]

With todays modern women, AWALT.

And the more younger they are, the more its a certainty you will get confirmation.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

With todays modern women, AWALT.

And the more younger they are, the more its a certainty you will get confirmation.

Thanks, but to ALL:

Am I OVER-REACTING to a minor situation,

OR

Do you guys also perceive the above example as evidence of what we discuss here in terms of female nature?

Honest input is requested.

Thank you in advance!

Resident cynic.

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Here’s a trick I learned:

Buy yourself a bag of mini chocolate donuts.

Put a few in your dad bod pouch and take them with you every day.

When you run into a situation like this again, toss a donut or two further down the hall way to get them to go after it. Then the walkway will be cleared and you can easily pass through it.

Metal Gear Solid was also an inspiration for this idea.

Don't care

[ghostParticipant]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

I hope all is well bro!

Yes, thank you.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I desire to be both critical of the opposite sex, but also critical of myself.

Us men, are capable of: introspection, empathy, and sympathy. As a result, sometimes when I question a females attitude, I question myself. I wonder if my reaction is simply a result of an “echo chamber”, “cognitive dissonance”, or some other means.

Only men would question such a thing.

I can’t ask women this, so I ask you guys this.

Women would NEVER even consider this; but I don’t want to act like a petulant child who is incapable of self-evaluation; so I ask you men, if examples such as the one I gave are simply superficial.

Thanks for your time fellow doooodes, and have a good night!

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

OneTrueMisfit wrote:

Here’s a trick I learned:

Buy yourself a bag of mini chocolate donuts.

Put a few in your dad bod pouch and take them with you every day.

When you run into a situation like this again, toss a donut or two further down the hall way to get them to go after it. Then the walkway will be cleared and you can easily pass through it.

Metal Gear Solid was also an inspiration for this idea.

Is this supposed to be a knock on me or something?

“dad bod pouch” ?…

If it’s a knock on me, then that’s cool as I asked for honest replies; but I’m honestly not following…

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 43]

it’s all your fault, and your existence is insulting. You should be ashamed for living.

walking on campus often put me in the path of a female with a cellphone. To avoid collision I learned to scrape a heel while walking, or stop completely in their path to make it obvious that texting while walking has made her look stupid. Oh the looks I would get…lol

oh, you were supposed to offer to help them/do their job completely. You failed horribly. Loser. 😉 Be happy in knowing she could have called a cop and reported you as her rapist. You got off easy, brother, next time you may not be so fortunate.

[Anonymous 43]

AW, the way to distract a guard dog is throw a steak in the other direction…women are a little more picky, chocolate covered anything will work, donuts even better they roll

dad bod pouch, = fat slob, not a threat, you don’t look like an alpha male, therefore you are invisible

[Anonymous 3]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Am I OVER-REACTING to a minor situation

I don’t think it was an overreaction. I think an overreaction would be something like you running up to them, kicking their cart or whatever down, and cursing them out.

Although, I think your retort was unnecessary as well. If I was in your shoes, in the same situation, and the two girls said “excuse you” to me, I most likely would have said nothing at all and kept walking. At most I would just look at them and give a quick little “whatever” nod. A lot of times, whenever I get myself into a similar situation like this, I would think to myself, “is what I’m going to say merely an emotional reaction? Is it going to change anything?” So far, no was the answer every single time. Sometimes people would deliberately put themselves in the center of attention to try to start trouble just for the sake of it, and would blow up an otherwise nonissue, so I think it’s wise to give them as little to work with as possible.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

oh, you were supposed to offer to help them/do their job completely. You failed horribly. Loser

My immediate thought was –

“It’s taking TWO of you to move this contraption down the block, but you STILL can’t do it. One man could have done it, and he would have said ‘excuse ME’…”; if he came across a female.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

dad bod pouch, = fat slob, not a threat, you don’t look like an alpha male, therefore you are invisible

So, the implication here is that the reason why they said:

“Excuse *YOU*” is because they perceived me as some fat fu$K?

If that’s not what you are trying to state, I’m not sure what it is.

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

If I was in your shoes, in the same situation, and the two girls said “excuse you” to me, I most likely would have said nothing at all and kept walking.

This is probably most wise; thank you for the reply.

I should have entitled this thread “Litmus Test”, or something of the sort. My intention was to see what others thought of a situation such as this.

At times, I become upset when I encounter females entitled attitudes.

Thanks for your honest input man!

Resident cynic.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Anonymous wrote:

AW, the way to distract a guard dog is throw a steak in the other direction…women are a little more picky, chocolate covered anything will work, donuts even better they roll

dad bod pouch, = fat slob, not a threat, you don’t look like an alpha male, therefore you are invisible

I’m sorry, I think I ENTIRELY misunderstood your post, in my last reply.

I think what you/and the original “dad pouch” were stating was, if “ONE” did ‘x’, then that would be the desired response.

No?

I both express myself and read others in an extremely direct/blunt manner, so I think I misunderstood. If I’m incorrect, feel free to let me know.

Thanks for the reply.

Resident cynic.

[Ever5Participant 1008]

You know how when an attractive woman walks by, guys will suck in their gut to make themselves look more fit???

Well… women act bitchy. It never fails, when women are attracted to a man, and if she’s attractive, they usually act kinda bitchy.

It’s very strange but I think women do what they know works on them with men. Since women are attracted to assholes, I guess they believe men are attracted to bitchy behavior???

If you were ugly, they would have just ignored you.

That’s what makes this whole thing a giant headache. If a woman does like you, more than likely, she’s going to attack your self esteem and bring you down emotionally, especially if you are around them too much, it’ll slowly sink in to the subconscious.

Anyway bud. I don’t think you are over reacting because yeah, it’s f’n annoying that this is how women behave and think it’s how they need to be to get guys to noice them… but you might be perceiving it incorrectly.

They were trying to get your attention, drain you psychically. Had nothing to do with anything more than that.

They just wanted to make sure they stayed in your mind. And it worked.

That was something I learned when I was dating. Hate you or love you, as long as she’s thinking about you.

They just wanted you to remember them and think about them… and it worked.

Truth has no place to live in the mind of a woman.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Is this an example of “Confirmation Bias”, or would you guys not think the exact same way?

I’d think the same way. It’s indicative of the attitude of modern women.

The same situation may also occur if two blokes were incompetently trying to move stuff and were blocking the way but they wouldn’t get p~~~y about it and go “Excuse you!!”. Idiots remain idiots regardless of gender it’s only women who would get stroppy with a random passerby about it.

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