Trying to let go

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

Im 25 years old, career on track, got my s~~~ together, etc. I was dating a girl for about a year and a half then, boom she said I need a break,(This was about 6 weeks ago), I looked at her and said f~~~ that then we are breaking up, Im not doing a break with zero emotion on my face, she left my house crying, at the moment I didn’t really care. We went 6 days no contact, when I caved and s~~~ went down hill. I called her asked to talk we met up and did. I told her I was sorry and wanted to make it work and was willing to do what I needed to, at the time she said she agreed but we needed to take it slow. I proceeded to try and be a what I thought was a “better bf” and for the next 3 weeks she treated me like I didnt f~~~ing exist, ice cold. She wouldnt ever say move on or it is over but she also treated me like she had no interest, I am embaressed to say I let this proceed for 3 weeks. I never begged her or told her I need her or any crap like that, but I made it clear I wanted her (which was her reasoning behind break, I acted to non chalant and I didnt want her). So half way thru the 3 weeks I gave her space, didnt contact her for 8 days, and pathetically sent her flowers, the next day I hadnt heard from her I texted her asking if she got them and all she said was “yup” no thanks, no nothing. This enraged me, but I didnt let her know or reply. 3 days later I texted her “hey breakup was right decision, going seperate ways is best, wish you best” and began no contact [on day 15 now) On day 4 she texted me this long message “im still not sure about breakup etc etc etc more bulls~~~” trying to bait me into chase again I did not reply. All our mutual friends are on my side and Im trying to just let this braud go, I was already in gym, I play basketball 4 nights a week, Ive been with my boys, gotten new pussy (gotten some every single night I went out) since no contact. But I can not just forget about this girl, idk why I cant, I know I should as its clear shes just trying to manipulate me at this point. Any advice gentlemen?

[JVBParticipant]

Your gut is correct and the writing is on the wall. Don’t keep putting yourself through it bro. Kick this bitch to the curb and learn from this young man. At your age there will probably be many more. Welcome to MGTOW brother. Beers are in old sage’s fridge.

Peace is > piece.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

SeanM5511 wrote:

But I can not just forget about this girl, idk why I cant, I know I should as its clear shes just trying to manipulate me at this point.

That’s not you. That’s your hormones. Are you going to let your hormones push you around?

SeanM5511 wrote:

Any advice gentlemen?

Find someone else to f~~~. You’ll be amazed how quickly your hormones forget about the previous girl. Just don’t let them latch onto this new girl. Pump and dump.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Nothing means nothing
Gone means gone

When your feelings/emotions are at that high a level you must go through the 5 stages of grieving.

It’s a part of the loss grieving process. It is that way for everyone depending on their mental level of emotional etc attachment.

The general rule is that it takes 6 months. That is why when you divorce or a parent dies you shouldn’t make any major life decisions for 6 months. You’re not on right frame of mind.

After 6 months of no contact you will grieve no longer. You will feel right as rain.

Or, I can do to you what my brother does when I act like you. He slaps me up the side of my head and says wake the f~~~ up dude!

Or, as Stealthy would say, “f~~~ her sister!” Wait, that’s only if you’re p~~~ed at her, I think…

Peace brothers

[Anonymous 42]

Smothering yourself in new pussy is not the way to free yourself from pussy. You’re still intoxicated with snatch.

You’re the one that needs time off and a break from women to give your mind time to breath something different, and that difference is FREEDOM!

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

I leterally just left another brauds house, f~~~ed the s~~~ outta her, not helping

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

yeah starting to realize it, because new pussy isnt helping

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

SeanM5511,

Be careful with shagging brother. The last thing you want is to be tagged as the baby daddy for some other Chad’s kid.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

DorkShit wrote:

The general rule is that it takes 6 months. That is why when you divorce or a parent dies you shouldn’t make any major life decisions for 6 months. You’re not on right frame of mind.

After 6 months of no contact you will grieve no longer. You will feel right as rain.

Or, I can do to you what my brother does when I act like you. He slaps me up the side of my head and says wake the f~~~ up dude!

Or, as Stealthy would say, “f~~~ her sister!” Wait, that’s only if you’re p~~~ed at her, I think…

holy f~~~ 6 months

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

I can probably expect to hear from her again right? continue ignoring if I do correct?

[OldBillParticipant]

SeanM5511 wrote:

I can probably expect to hear from her again right?

As sure as the Sun rises in the east, brother.

continue ignoring if I do correct?

You should have been ignoring her from the first. Thanks to constantly failing the s~~~ tests she subjected you to, she now thinks you’re a beta simp. It’s going to take a LOT of ignoring to get out of that particular hole.

Block all her means of contacting you. Block her phone number(s), block her emails, block her texts, tweets, etc. Remove her from your Facebook list and get off Facebook while you’re at it. Block it all, forget it all, then go out and pump & dump some other meathole.

Reclaim your life from her.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

well unfortunately all her s~~~ is still at my house, its boxed n out of my way, how do i handle that?

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

and shes blocked everywhere but phone, and i dont have an issue ignoring calls or texts

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

Do I break no contact n tell her to get her s~~~ or just keep it in basement?

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

yeah im quite sure she is, I don’t want her back. Itd be a pointless endeavor, Im just tryibg to make moving on as seamless as possible

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

SeanM5511 wrote:

Darksith wrote:

The general rule is that it takes 6 months. That is why when you divorce or a parent dies you shouldn’t make any major life decisions for 6 months. You’re not on right frame of mind.

After 6 months of no contact you will grieve no longer. You will feel right as rain.

Or, I can do to you what my brother does when I act like you. He slaps me up the side of my head and says wake the f~~~ up dude!

Or, as Stealthy would say, “f~~~ her sister!” Wait, that’s only if you’re p~~~ed at her, I think…

holy f~~~ 6 months

It depends on how emotionally traumatic the loss is. In your instance 9 months to a year is sounding reasonable.

Shagging in your present state is not doing Nothing!

Nothing, means nothing. Shagging now is just going to another extreme.

You have her s~~~? You know where she is living? Then, late at night dump her s~~~ on the doorstep.

This is actually good practice for when you get a divorce later in life.

Peace brothers

[IntellectualSaviorParticipant 1238]

sorry to say that straight but you still seem weak in the heart.

what you need to do my friend is to stop having sex with other girls too because right now what you’re doing won’t help it will make you remind her even more, just let it go for a while, do sports, hit the gym, go with your own life don’t do anything that reminds you of her, yes even sex because it seems like you’re just frustrated right now.

do your own thing go your own way after you’re over her then start doing whatever pleases you the most.

When I have a pen in my hands, it's lethal.

[SeanM5511Participant 5]

Yeah, you are right. Thank you

[AttonParticipant]

Don’t do things that remind you of said person.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

SeanM5511 wrote:

because new pussy isnt helping

It takes a while for your hormones to figure things out. Because your hormones are stupid as f~~~. Remember, they’re the ones trying to get you into baby jail. Does that sound smart? Of course not.

SeanM5511 wrote:

well unfortunately all her s~~~ is still at my house, its boxed n out of my way, how do i handle that?

Rent a storage unit.

Pre-pay for one month and only one month.

Put all her s~~~ inside it.

Mail her the key.

Problem solved.

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