Top 3 relationS~~~S regrets

[Anonymous 6]

1. Thinking that love was real
2. Time
3. Money

[Foxtrot November GolfParticipant 28]

Regrets:
-Wasting the time and energy
-Talking to my first ex girlfriend in the first place when I could’ve made my drawing in art class suck less lol
-Letting that crazy bitch be my first kiss, although I suppose it doesn’t really matter anymore
-Wasting the gas it took to get to the date

[DauntlessParticipant 403]

– Time.

– Money.

– Emotional investment.

Not to mention what a spineless, blue pill simp I was. I’d literally let her walk all over me all the time. Goddamn, I get the shudders just thinking about it. Then I discovered MGTOW, and I was like “Oh, THAT’s why she behaved the way she did.” Other than that, I don’t have any particular regrets. I look back at it as a learning experience. I’ll never make the same mistakes again if I somehow end up with a new girl in my life.

"To live is to suffer; to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering." - Friedrich Nietzsche

[BDParticipant 1146]

Blue Skies wrote:

What are your top 3 relations~~~s regrets?

MalfunctionNeedInput wrote:

Time, Money, and Energy.

Agreed!

I do regret not putting my dreams first above all else.

Women expect men to compromise(change their behavior) or even worse, put her first.

I redesigned everything in my life to put myself first now. Life is good.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[GrumpyParticipant]

1. Getting into them
2. Staying in them too damn long
3. Not getting out of them sooner

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[NephilimParticipant 1]

– Not being true to myself.
– Giving 100% for someone who didn’t deserve even 50%.
– All the time, money and energy I’ve put into it.

My regrets are also my lessons.

How about NO?

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I am not a kind of person who regrets anything. I own all the decisions that I made, because those were the right decisions for me to make at that time in that mindstate. If other options were better than the ones I made – I would have made them.
Hindsight is always 20/20. Rearview mirrors are optional when you’re driving faster than everyone else.
If I died tomorrow I’d be fully content with the life I had. No regrets and no apologies, only valuable lessons to take into consideration

the present me – is the collection of all experiences and decisions I ever made. having regrets is destructive – it’s wishing you were somebody else. it’s hating yourself. It’s hating God’s creation and His plan. it is from the Devil

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[xollobParticipant 2]

My biggest regret, not dumping my last two g/f’s sooner

[SuperPranxParticipant 25]

Top 3 regrets I can think of at the moment would be:
1. I gave in to emotional blackmail.
2. I went back to her after all the s~~~.
3. I took everything in silence, for 4 years.

I know I’m to blame for staying and enabling the behavior, but hey, what do you expect from a white knight mangina?

Been there, done that, I’m out and going my own way.
Got a s~~~-load of red pills that will last me a few lifetimes.

[alchemistParticipant 484]

I knew what I was going to write in reply to this thread the moment I saw the title but you guys are thinking the same thing:

Regret #1: I didn’t listen to my gut, I ignored my initial instinct to back out. Why? I thought people could change, but the ability to change is a personality trait based in curiosity. If you don’t have it, you won’t overcome negative personality traits.

[BrujahParticipant 579]

Dauntless wrote:

– Time.

– Money.

– Emotional investment.

Not to mention what a spineless, blue pill simp I was. I’d literally let her walk all over me all the time. Goddamn, I get the shudders just thinking about it. Then I discovered MGTOW, and I was like “Oh, THAT’s why she behaved the way she did.” Other than that, I don’t have any particular regrets. I look back at it as a learning experience. I’ll never make the same mistakes again if I somehow end up with a new girl in my life.

I find it scary as I came in to reply and pop my 2 cents in when word for word, someone else already did. Just goes to show AWALT. I look back in awe at the s~~~ I went through just for some kind of validation. I would admit that alot of it was my own fault for being too clingy but looking back at such an emotional wrecking event puts alot of things into clearer perspective.

Since then I have never allowed myself to be subjected to such treatment ever again. It was an utter degradation of everything it means to be a man.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Like everyone else I somewhat regret investing my money, time, and energy. But if I did not experience these things it would not make me the man I am today. Yes I am human and I still check out reasonably attractive women however, it changes to just looking and not pursuing. When I talk to these women which is usually rare, I quickly become less interested in them due to their lack of intelligence, shallow behavior, and bad manners.

I look at women today like I look at shares in the stock market. Which is why just about all of them are DQd. Now that I put a monetary value on everything, the pursuit of a date isn’t worth it. Why should I pay for a dinner, movie? The costs of that equate to (guesstimating) two $15 movie tickets ($30), two $12 appetizers ($24) plus two $25 dollar entrees ($50) a dessert or two ($12-$24) (plus 15-20% tip), the amount you spend in gas to get there and back (maybe $5-$8) can total above 160 bucks. Lets pretend you did that once a week every week. That’s over $650 dollars a month. In a year that is 7800 dollars on maybe getting your dick wet. This is not including gifts, other random outings etc. What if you took that same amount of money and invested it in a company like Tesla when they were new? Or another blue chip stock with endless growth possibilities? Why do we continue to invest so much hard earned cash into commodities that are guaranteed to depreciate?? Make no mistake, the wall forgives no one. ALL WOMEN DEPRECIATE.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

1. Money, gobs of money lost of c~~~s that did not deserve it as I was thinking with the wrong head.
2. Emotional strain…. women will f~~~ with your head and it has happened to me as well.
3. Trying to chase the pussy…. thank god for the fleshlight.

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

[505vikingoParticipant 521]

MalfunctionNeedInput states this subject best and if you remember anything from this topic REMEMBER WHAT HE STATES BELOW, THIS IS WHAT YOU HAVE TO LOOK FORWARD TO!!!!!!!!!!!

“Wow…I agree with the majority here: Time, Money, and Energy.

It was all for nothing, good memories I suppose at times followed by sadness when thought about, great waste of time. And I have a child I’ll be paying with for 18 more years and she’s raising her…great f~~~ing life.

Best part is she’s set for life now, she actually likes work (accountant) and I paid for her education (out of my pocket)! Everything fell into place nicely for her! She’s a user of men yet she claims to be strong and empowered. To some extent she is but she also uses men any chance she gets to achieve more. Can’t do that s~~~ on her own…”

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

Most of you guys have already hit on anything I could add. The only thing I really find myself wishing when I find myself reminiscing is not telling all of my exes to f~~~ off sooner than I did. Every single one.
I haven’t been in a relations~~~ since 2008, but since then I’ve had far more success dating. By “far more success”, I mean more attractive women, a bit more mentally stable, more interesting conversations, and more sex. I just never let them weasel in past the guard shack anymore. The ones that try just get culled earlier.

[globemasterParticipant 443]

I dont feel anything ,no regrets. I feel hopeless and lost.

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

1. The crazy amount of years i have spent in bad relationships
2. Not dumping when i knew it was right
3. Paying for s~~~ (white knight)

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[TGMParticipant 55]

1) Taking her back every time
2) Wasting 5 years
3) Be in denial

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

@tgm – Mate, did you just get legged over by a girl and are in your red pill rage phase?
No biggy if you are, it’s all good, but with your initial post and 6 likes so far it’s kinda obvious!

[TGMParticipant 55]

DeepInThought wrote:

@tgm – Mate, did you just get legged over by a girl and are in your red pill rage phase?
No biggy if you are, it’s all good, but with your initial post and 6 likes so far it’s kinda obvious!

It’s was a long time ago. Occasionally I look back in time and ask myself why did I waste time with such a broad.

Even when I was in a relationcrap, I still read and listened to MGTOW content then. Listening deep, I started questioning the relationcrap.

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