Too old to learn?

[Anonymous 0]

Feral wrote:

As you are 60ish, it must be much tougher to look at the future knowing that you might not have close companionship (close woman, lovely kids).
I mean: one day your strength, attractiveness and independence might begin to abandon you: how are coming to terms with that?

Just Jim wrote:

It’s tough. I thought I had it with this one…for a while. I just wasted 2.5 years of extremely valuable time.

F~~~ that noise. 60 years old is when you need to get rid of the hangers-on and start hitting the gym. I’m 60 and I’m in the gym pretty much every day. Age 60 is when you have to start making those hard choices: Keep giving your life away to others, or start looking out for No. 1.

Nothing wrong with being around women. In fact I would say it’s pretty unavoidable once you get older. Women run EVERYTHING in the seniors communities. Once you get old, they’re f~~~ing everywhere. And they’re man-hungry. But you keep them on a short leash. You tell them: “From now on, my best efforts go toward keeping me in top shape.”

[Anonymous 0]

Just Jim wrote:

Oops. Screwed up the quote feature above.

For 30 minutes after posting, you have an “Edit” button at the top of your post. Just hit that and scroll down to edit the post and resubmit. (Just remove the [/quote/] marks.) But after 30 minutes, the “Edit” button disappears.

[Added later:] I see you got it. Nice. 🙂

[Just JimParticipant 35]

I’m not much of a gym rat, although I keep myself in decent shape. I have other interests including my guns, motorcycle, and boat. Just have to get used to doing those things alone again.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Just Jim wrote:

Hi guys. I will turn 60 next week. I’m twice divorced, my last wife walking out on Thanksgiving Day of 2013 to take up with a guy she had been banging on the side for over 4 years.

Just Jim wrote:

During the divorce, I met a 45 year old woman at a party who had the same divorce lawyer as me. We started texting and talking on the phone. One day at work she just came out and said she wanted to go to bed with me, so I invited her over. We had an amazing night. She immediately started saying “I’m in trouble” over and over. When I asked what that meant, she replied that she could get emotionally attached to me very easily. We continued to have sex almost every day for months. She was very adventurous, and we had a great time going on trips.

Just Jim wrote:

A few months into it, I gave her a key to my house.

Just Jim wrote:

She has chronic car problems, so I figured that if she stayed at my place, it would save wear and tear on her car. Many, many times I rode my motorcycle in the cold or the rain while she used my (new) truck to run around and do her business.

Just Jim wrote:

Early on she had brought her two granddaughters (age 4 & 6)into the picture, making me their surrogate grandfather, to the point where they each had their own rooms in my house (something they don’t have at home). Everything seemed great.

Just Jim wrote:

A few months ago, she started to s~~~ test me on everything. She wanted me to drop some friends- I did. She wanted many other things which I did (I didn’t know what a s~~~ test was then). Finally, she started to demand that I either give up Facebook (it’s how I stay in touch with extended family), or post her as a Relationship Status. I recognized that as some very controlling behavior, and refused. She brought it up constantly. Then, she started hanging out with this fat bitch who constantly told her how she doesn’t have to put up with my s~~~. She started calling me at all hours after her and fat bitch would hang out and bitch at me on the phone. Finally, she blew things up right after I had to put my beloved dog down, and right before Christmas. She refuses to talk with me about anything.

THEY ALWAYS DO THIS!!

Just Jim wrote:

I really miss those little girls that she brought into my life. I would probably take her back just for them (stupid-I know). But the man in me says “F~~~ her. She brought nothing to the table except health problems, financial problems, f~~~ed up kids (hers, not the little ones), car problems, and great sex.

BITCHES AINT S~~~!

Just Jim wrote:

I’ve been lurking on the Relations~~~s Forum to get strength and tips. It’s doing me good. I have gone no contact even though she owes me money (just a couple of hundred) and still has my house key. She has mentioned “talking about things” and “trying to work things out”, but never found the time to do it. She was always “too busy” when the time came.

I’m done. I’m just here to make sure you guys help me STAY done.

Thanks.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Just JimParticipant 35]

That was hilarious! Thanks for the grin! I needed it.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Fermat, your pastiche of videos has had me laughing to myself like a loon. Thanks for cheering me up. 10/10

[IceBankMiceElfParticipant 124]

Fermat, that’s some funny s~~~!

[Y_Participant 4591]

@ Fermat – you rock man. haha.

@ Just Jim – Welcome. Here you will find real MEN lining up to kick your butt.
Why? Like in school. No real reason. We have time and you are available. 🙂

Seriously – and I speak plainly – you have a problem. Females have a knack to spot guys who can be taken advantage of. Accept that you need to get this female s~~~ out of your system. Only them can you enjoy your life as a free man. Age is irrelevant – it does not matter and don’t use it as an excuse.

We are here to help. But only YOU can change your life.
Start by staying sway from all females until you get your act together.
if you want sex pay for it – don’t get attached.
Above all apply what you learn here. Remember the problem is in YOUR MIND – get out of the Matrix. See things as they really are.

Once you are better at this the progression to a full MGHOW comes instinctively and naturally. You do not have to teach a duckling to swim – just lead it to the water.

All the best.

[Just JimParticipant 35]

Yeah. Okay. Whatever.

[Just JimParticipant 35]

So. I got a text from her Tuesday night saying she wants to remain “friends”. Said I could call her if I want to talk. I simply replied “Put my the money you owe me and my house key in the mail if you are so inclined.”

She doesn’t know that I have already changed the locks. She simply replied “Okay”.

Did I do alright? Or should I have not replied at all?

[Anonymous 42]

Just Jim wrote:

Did I do alright? Or should I have not replied at all?

She’s locked out of your house and in your mental garbage disposer?

You did f~~~ing great! Like an NYC dog owner and his pooper scooper, and you didn’t even break stride!

[Just JimParticipant 35]

Thanks. It was the best I could come up with at the moment. I wanted badly to call her for some answers, but I knew anything she said would be bulls~~~, and even calling her would appear weak.

We’ll see what the mailman brings. I’m not holding my breath.

[BikermanParticipant 57]

I think you played a blinder. Short, to the point, and not an invitation to enter further discussion – that is exactly what was required. She wants to get back into your physical space. Women ALWAYS do that and there are people who will tell you that they have some chemical in their touch that makes men more likely to go along with them. I don’t quite buy that, but I do know that being in room with her is the last thing you want to be right now, and being on the phone is not ideal.

I’m not certain this is for real, but I think it is. It is a clip featuring a woman who hires a hitman to kill her husband, but get’s caught in a sting and is arrested.
This is apparently her ringing him from jail afterwards, and trying to get him into her space…..

Wife phones hubby she tried to kill

[Just JimParticipant 35]

That’s funny. She texted back and said she waited up for my call.

Silence.

[Anonymous 0]

Well done!

[FeralParticipant 98]

@TwoSteps:

Feral wrote:

As you are 60ish, it must be much tougher to look at the future knowing that you might not have close companionship (close woman, lovely kids).
I mean: one day your strength, attractiveness and independence might begin to abandon you: how are coming to terms with that?

F~~~ that noise. 60 years old is when you need to get rid of the hangers-on and start hitting the gym. I’m 60 and I’m in the gym pretty much every day. Age 60 is when you have to start making those hard choices: Keep giving your life away to others, or start looking out for No. 1.

Nothing wrong with being around women. In fact I would say it’s pretty unavoidable once you get older. Women run EVERYTHING in the seniors communities. Once you get old, they’re f~~~ing everywhere. And they’re man-hungry. But you keep them on a short leash. You tell them: “From now on, my best efforts go toward keeping me in top shape.”

Thanks TwoSteps. Great answer.

I think that many of us on here are/were alpha-males. In nature, it ends up very badly when when alpha males lose their independence and start losing all battles.

I think that most MGTOW who pass middle age are curios about what will happen to a MGTOW when he becomes old, because he has got no companionship.
I mean, I heard that gay people create small communities in which they support each other, but I think that we tend to be more lonely than them.

[FeralParticipant 98]

@fermat

Brilliant: your hilarious answer should be immortalized in the top-gun section because it represents the best answers a common problem.

humor and perspective might be the best answers to the the kind of pain that all of us experienced at some point in our lives: when a relationship ended but we still feel some pain from separation.

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