Tired

[Our Endless WarParticipant 113]

I’m feeling worn down by Blue Pill Society. It seems like I have nothing besides work or school. I don’t even have any energy to do anything once I get home, and it’s harder and harder to resist relapsing in my addiction. I think I’m depressed. There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next. I feel so vulnerable.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

What is your addiction ?

What’s depressing/stressing you out ?

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 54]

I find wacthing Mgtow utube channels helps.

You dont have to focus on reading.
Find guys you like.

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Our Endless War wrote:

There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next.

99% of the things I worry about NEVER happen. Don’t stress about the things you have no control over. I have been in your place and it is hard. Work and school? Never again for me. Just work. It was hard as hell to do, but I made it and YOU will too.

[HermitParticipant]

Our Endless War wrote:

I’m feeling worn down by Blue Pill Society. It seems like I have nothing besides work or school. I don’t even have any energy to do anything once I get home, and it’s harder and harder to resist relapsing in my addiction. I think I’m depressed. There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next. I feel so vulnerable.

Don’t focus on society so much. It can only wear you down if you let it. We may have to live in this world, but we don’t have to be of this world.

When I get home from work, the store, where ever…..I’m no longer part of the outside world. The only time I am involved in society is when I have to be at work to earn a living. Other than that, I don’t have to be around people and society doesn’t effect me. My home is my sanctuary.

I sometimes visit friends who feel the same. Go fishing. Walk in the woods. Stay away from society as much as possible.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[BoBParticipant 823]

Hey! It is tiring to wage an Endless War!

Did you see my addiction advice on your other thread? IMHO, The addiction isn’t fapping, it is PORN. I say, go ahead and rub one out. Just use your spank bank… if you must.

If you spend all your emotional and spiritual energy trying not to FAP, you’ll give up. Just avoiding porn may be less draining. Give your mind and psyche time to heal.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

I’d need to know more about the particulars of your individual situation before I can potentially offer any helpful counsel.

I’m unclear as to the connection you are making between blue pill and school and work?

What were you addicted to and how long have you been sober?

Is there a woman in your life?

Why do you feel vulnerable? Being tired or stressed is different then vulnerable, so I am unclear as to how you got from tired/stressed to feeling vulnerable.

I don’t mean to be rude, but the last line kind of stands out. Its an usual choice of words, even more so given the previous text which is about being tired.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[Anonymous 38]

Our Endless War wrote:

I’m feeling worn down by Blue Pill Society. It seems like I have nothing besides work or school. I don’t even have any energy to do anything once I get home, and it’s harder and harder to resist relapsing in my addiction. I think I’m depressed. There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next. I feel so vulnerable.

Bro I know this feeling. A while back I got nothing done for months and months cos all I wanted to do was crack open a tin and watch movies in bed.

This is a tough time of year. But have faith, it will get better. Also, sometimes just tell yourself you cannot chill until you’ve done what you need to do (tidy, study, whatever). You will see that you feel a sense of pride and peace for having done it.

You don’t have to be strong all the time, but don’t always give into your emotions mate.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

Don’t ever allow anything external worry you, upset you, or have any effect on you emotionally.

You must understand, you CANNOT control anything/anyone beyond yourself. If you let anything/anyone you cannot control to control you, you are setting up yourself for frustration.

We all experience these things. But the key is: you need to learn to REFUSE to allow anything/anyone to affect you negatively. Yes, it can be done. It is also known as NO F~~~ GIVEN.

Also try to look at what you have, not what you don’t have. You will be surprised you are already much better off than many. When you are being grateful, you tend to be more content and at peace.

Just my 2 cents. Hope all is well.

[Anonymous 42]

MarketWatcher wrote:

99% of the things I worry about NEVER happen.

DAy-AM, Market~~~cher!

I was gonna give some advise but instead found some!

[Nomad82Participant 612]

Eat more for more energy, find a hobby you like, join a gym and lift s~~~, go ride a bike?

I know how you feel, trust me I do. MGTOW is what freed me from these feelings. The first step is the hardest… everything after that is consistency.

Achieve Individual Greatness!

[DocParticipant]

Endless War – your post is too vague and cryptic for any meaningful advice or response to be given.

You need to be a bit more specific.

But I’m guessing if you are feeling as low as your post suggests it’s understandable why you are a little vague and cryptic.

Any way – look forward to more specifics.
Don’t despair.
Inner strength is a deep well.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22508]

No s~~~, here are some things to do.

Make sure you up vitamin d (d3) in the winter. Lack of this can make you depressed.

Make sure you take vitamin b supplements. most people are low on them anyway. b12 especially for energy and a better mood/deal with depression.

Watch some stuff, or listen to some stuff, that makes you feel good.

Get enough sleep. lack of sleep causes negative mood changes and tiredness.

Avoid watching mainstream media news.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Our Endless WarParticipant 113]

Awakened wrote:

What is your addiction ?

What’s depressing/stressing you out ?

It may seem weird to you but I am a porn addict, work and school constantly is stressing me out. I have no time for myself, and when I get home from that I have no energy to focus on my dream of playing guitar around the world.

Anonymous wrote:

I find wacthing Mgtow utube channels helps.

You dont have to focus on reading.
Find guys you like.

Hell yeah I listen to those youtube videos. I don’t like reading and I have lots of friends but I guess nothing is enough for me.

MarketWatcher wrote:

Our Endless War wrote:

There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next.

99% of the things I worry about NEVER happen. Don’t stress about the things you have no control over. I have been in your place and it is hard. Work and school? Never again for me. Just work. It was hard as hell to do, but I made it and YOU will too.

Hell yeah only a couple more months and I never need to set foot in a school again, and money is money.

Hermit wrote:

Our Endless War wrote:

I’m feeling worn down by Blue Pill Society. It seems like I have nothing besides work or school. I don’t even have any energy to do anything once I get home, and it’s harder and harder to resist relapsing in my addiction. I think I’m depressed. There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next. I feel so vulnerable.

Don’t focus on society so much. It can only wear you down if you let it. We may have to live in this world, but we don’t have to be of this world.

When I get home from work, the store, where ever…..I’m no longer part of the outside world. The only time I am involved in society is when I have to be at work to earn a living. Other than that, I don’t have to be around people and society doesn’t effect me. My home is my sanctuary.

I sometimes visit friends who feel the same. Go fishing. Walk in the woods. Stay away from society as much as possible.

That’s why I want to move out of the city when I have enough money, less blue pill cucks and c~~~s to deal with.

BoB wrote:

Hey! It is tiring to wage an Endless War!

Did you see my addiction advice on your other thread? IMHO, The addiction isn’t fapping, it is PORN. I say, go ahead and rub one out. Just use your spank bank… if you must.

If you spend all your emotional and spiritual energy trying not to FAP, you’ll give up. Just avoiding porn may be less draining. Give your mind and psyche time to heal.

If I fap it will eventually lead to porn, it happened every single time. And I don’t even want to fap because I’ll be fantasizing about women therefore giving them power my goal is to give them as least thought as possible it will be a while but one day I’ll be normal again.

Anonymous wrote:

Our Endless War wrote:

I’m feeling worn down by Blue Pill Society. It seems like I have nothing besides work or school. I don’t even have any energy to do anything once I get home, and it’s harder and harder to resist relapsing in my addiction. I think I’m depressed. There’s lots of s~~~ stressing me out and I don’t know what’s next. I feel so vulnerable.

Bro I know this feeling. A while back I got nothing done for months and months cos all I wanted to do was crack open a tin and watch movies in bed.

This is a tough time of year. But have faith, it will get better. Also, sometimes just tell yourself you cannot chill until you’ve done what you need to do (tidy, study, whatever). You will see that you feel a sense of pride and peace for having done it.

You don’t have to be strong all the time, but don’t always give into your emotions mate.

It is the worst time of the year for me, a few months it will be nice and warm out and then I can be less depressed.

Murinees wrote:

Don’t ever allow anything external worry you, upset you, or have any effect on you emotionally.

You must understand, you CANNOT control anything/anyone beyond yourself. If you let anything/anyone you cannot control to control you, you are setting up yourself for frustration.

We all experience these things. But the key is: you need to learn to REFUSE to allow anything/anyone to affect you negatively. Yes, it can be done. It is also known as NO F~~~ GIVEN.

Also try to look at what you have, not what you don’t have. You will be surprised you are already much better off than many. When you are being grateful, you tend to be more content and at peace.

Just my 2 cents. Hope all is well.

Yeah at least I’ve taken the red pill and am moving to erase the blue pill influence on my mind and at least I’m taking steps to stop my porn and fapping addiction.

Nomad82 wrote:

Eat more for more energy, find a hobby you like, join a gym and lift s~~~, go ride a bike?

I know how you feel, trust me I do. MGTOW is what freed me from these feelings. The first step is the hardest… everything after that is consistency.

I can’t wait for the snow to melt so I can ride my bike.

Doc wrote:

Endless War – your post is too vague and cryptic for any meaningful advice or response to be given.

You need to be a bit more specific.

But I’m guessing if you are feeling as low as your post suggests it’s understandable why you are a little vague and cryptic.

Any way – look forward to more specifics.
Don’t despair.
Inner strength is a deep well.

I’m feeling a little better now. I have school and work, which takes up a ton of time so I’m tired, and I feel paranoid like everyone is out to get me or something, at home I have to worry about my fapping/porn addiction, I’m 8 days free of that filth. There’s just so much going on and sometimes I can’t take it.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

No s~~~, here are some things to do.

Make sure you up vitamin d (d3) in the winter. Lack of this can make you depressed.

Make sure you take vitamin b supplements. most people are low on them anyway. b12 especially for energy and a better mood/deal with depression.

Watch some stuff, or listen to some stuff, that makes you feel good.

Get enough sleep. lack of sleep causes negative mood changes and tiredness.

Avoid watching mainstream media news.

Yeah I ought to get those vitamins will check for them the next time I’m on break from work. The only thing that even keeps me going throughout the day is heavy metal, that is what I listen to. I hate the news I avoid it as much as possible and Im going to bed after this.

[Anonymous 54]

Road gigs arnt that hard to get.

But you wont get any chops by wanking.

[Anonymous 14]

Our Endless War wrote:

Awakened wrote:

What is your addiction ?

What’s depressing/stressing you out ?

It may seem weird to you but I am a porn addict

Jerking off too much can leave you depressed and tired, no s~~~. This could be part of your problem. You won’t know until you back off and give it a rest for an extended period of time to see if you mood and energy level improves.

[HermitParticipant]

Our Endless War wrote:

That’s why I want to move out of the city when I have enough money, less blue pill cucks and c~~~s to deal with.

Oh man, living in the city would stress me out also. I can’t even stand to live in a small town. When I’m home, I don’t want to see or hear people. I live on a dead end road and sometimes people will drive up my hill even though there’s a dead end sign down at the end. P~~~es me off and drives me crazy.

I hope you can save up enough money to move far, far away from people. I’d like to be able to buy at least 20 acres of land full of trees way out in the country and build a house right in the middle and have a locking gate at the end of the road.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[Our Endless WarParticipant 113]

Hermit wrote:

Our Endless War wrote:

That’s why I want to move out of the city when I have enough money, less blue pill cucks and c~~~s to deal with.

Oh man, living in the city would stress me out also. I can’t even stand to live in a small town. When I’m home, I don’t want to see or hear people. I live on a dead end road and sometimes people will drive up my hill even though there’s a dead end sign down at the end. P~~~es me off and drives me crazy.

I hope you can save up enough money to move far, far away from people. I’d like to be able to buy at least 20 acres of land full of trees way out in the country and build a house right in the middle and have a locking gate at the end of the road.

It makes me so depressed, I just feel like one sheep in the herd.

[BoBParticipant 823]

Hey Man, Consider this. See if you can find a 12 step program for sex or something. Just go to ONE meeting. Listen to the stories of the folks that attend. I think you’ll find that sex addiction gets worse and that yours (while difficult) is manageable.

I know that I can’t block out sexy images. The harder I try, the more I seem to notice them. You’re young and have hormones raging that you can’t control. It gets easier to control as you get older. There is hope. Do the best you can and maybe get some help.

I’m not a huge fan of 12-step, but it might be good for you. I’ve not been involved. Just don’t get to know anyone (as I imagine there are plenty of predatory people that are sexaholics).

Just a thought.

[Our Endless WarParticipant 113]

I’m feeling better. Haven’t stopped completely but I’ve reduced, and I’m gonna start doing it even less hopefully. I’m a bit more motivated now, am motivated to crush blue pill society.

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