Tips for helping with red pill rage

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

I honestly struggle with red pill rage. Gawd, I used to be so blue pill it’s sickening. Spent over 18 years in my first marriage trying to make my crazy wife happy. Only to have it end with her having an affair and then waging a year-long scorched earth divorce against me.

Even with that no-lube, red pill suppository, I reasoned that Not All Women Are Like That and jumped into my second marriage. After a year of her raging bitchiness and blowing through what was left of my assets, I divorced again. This time I vowed to never marry again.

But this feminist, gynocentric, politically correct, man hating bulls~~~ is all around me. And it really p~~~es me off. My news feed is filled with articles from VOX, Huffington Post, Salon, xoJane, etc. which spew feminist headlines. Politicians pander to this crap. Courts and Congress legislate to this new world order.

Television has become unwatchable. I can’t even enjoy my childhood memories and go to the new Star Wars or Mad Max movie without being lectured on how strong girls are, but how men must stoically protect them. Ten years in the military and a trip to Afghanistan removed any illusions of “girl power” for me. Their only power was to distract soldiers with their vagina and erode our combat effectiveness. The majority of our training and disciplinary actions dealt with inappropriate relations and sexual assault accusations.

Worse is watching and listening to my friends. Just seeing how women emasculate men makes my blood boil. I see women browbeat their husbands while riding the c~~~ carousel behind their back. I stood by as several of my good friends got absolutely destroyed in divorce court. I saw fellow soldiers who came home from deployment with their house foreclosed and their bank account cleaned out; the wife having run off with another man.

Listening to the stupid s~~~ that women talk, gossip and complain about makes me want to gouge my ears out. Watching them with their vapid faces glued to their phones makes me want to grab the phone and stomp it into the ground.

When I lost my job last year (well, not exactly lost…I know where it is: In Ohio with an H1B1 visa worker doing it now), I seriously contemplated selling everything, moving to a remote wilderness spot and living out my days in a camper.

Came very close, but I decided to give living a “normal” life another shot. But these feelings are churning in me like a case of bad Mexican food.

I know some of you will say the key is to not give a f~~~. But that is hard for me. My brain is like a steel trap — catching everything and analyzing it.

I also worry that the end game for the no-f~~~s-given approach might be what fellow MGTOW member Smitty the Great One was talking about in his last post: What Do You Do? Eventually you reach a point where you care about nothing. [Side note: I miss reading Smitty’s and Brainpilot’s posts].

I could continue to vent, but I think you get the gist….

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CaliParticipant 753]

CPT Obvious wrote:

I know some of you will say the key is to not give a f~~~. But that is hard for me. My brain is like a steel trap — catching everything and analyzing it.

I also worry that the end game for the no-f~~~s-given approach might be what fellow MGTOW member Smitty the Great One was talking about in his last post: What Do You Do? Eventually you reach a point where you care about nothing. [Side note: I miss reading Smitty’s and Brainpilot’s posts].

I could continue to vent, but I think you get the gist….

I get what you’re saying, man. Here’s what I think: You can’t change any of this crap. You can’t make your friends see how they are destroying themselves, you can’t make people stop believing in girl power (they don’t want to stop), you can’t change how women act.

Take your analytical brain and analyze that for a little while. Don’t let any emotions into your logical process. You will likely come to the conclusion that because your rage, like everyone else’s, will be completely ineffective at changing society, it serves no purpose. All your rage does is increase your stress levels and bring excess negativity into your life.

Believe me, if we thought we could make a difference, we would go out and spread the rage around. But it doesn’t work, just like MRAs are having no effect on the world, neither would we.

It all comes down to Going Your Own Way. What do YOU want to do? Not caring about the entire world is not the solution. The only way to find meaning in life is to care about something. But YOU get to choose what you care about.

Rage is just another way of basing yourself on other people. You are allowing others to dictate how you feel. Ever watch the show “Psych”? Why is Shawn Spencer always so annoying to people? Because he doesn’t care about what they expect from him, he is determined to be happy whenever reasonably possible, and people HATE that.

Just a misogynist virgin hiding away in his mother's basement. Nothing to see here...

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

I have to agree with the above poster one day you will simply be able to see past the lies and not give a s~~~ anymore. As for the media just don’t support the company’s anymore, don’t pay to see hollywood movies, if you are into gaming just stick to the old games, use adblock to avoid giving them advertising revenue, etc.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[OrlandoParticipant 833]

There is nothing you can do to change society, so any anger and frustration is wasted emotion.

CPT Obvious wrote:

But this feminist, gynocentric, politically correct, man hating bulls~~~ is all around me.

It too shall pass. Gynocracy is an end phase. Watch it die with the knowledge that the modern female is the ultimate victim of her own jungle behavior.

Stay busy building your life with your focus being you, and live well. What’s coming for them is not pretty.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

I feel the same way. I got over most of my red pill rage by reading posts on this site for about 6 months before joining. Now, I couldn’t give a f~~~ about society or women.

Sure, there are still moments where I get angry as hell, but most of the rage is gone.

My Advice:

1. Avoid TV and modern movies

2. If your blue pill friends are too much to handle, dump them.

3. Avoid going to any kind of bars/restaurants where they pander to couples/women.

4. If you need to catch up on a certain topic in the news, research it yourself from multiple sources.

5. Get a fleshlight.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Anonymous 1]

CPT Obvious – I’m struggling with red pill rage for exactly the same reasons (although I was never married, the same s~~~ applies)

For me it’s very up and down, it’s a bizarre feeling to describe, as I can be relishing in tranquility for an hour then boil within moments. For me its not constant, I’m not sure if anyone can relate to that?

Your post was very well written. Slightly in awe of your writing skills.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Anonymous wrote:

For me it’s very up and down, it’s a bizarre feeling to describe, as I can be relishing in tranquility for an hour then boil within moments. For me its not constant, I’m not sure if anyone can relate to that?

That’s how I was when I first became MGTOW and why I waited to post on these forums.

One minute, I was fine. The next, if I saw something or heard something, I was boiling inside.

I remember one day I was driving home from school and I was listening to this rock station. They have day time news on that channel as well.

They were telling a story of where two teens got caught having sex and the boy was put in jail for rape because he was having sex with a minor WHILE BEING A MINOR!!

I was at a stop light at the time as well and ended up kicking my radio out of a fit of rage…

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I replaced rage and hate with pity. I look at people as victims of the circumstance. They might have been good on the inside when they were born, but unfortunately overtime they’ve been dehumanized and turned into a bunch of brainwashed zombies. The devil took advantage of this situation and turned some of them outright evil. But that’s only because they’ve never seen the light. So I don’t hate them. I pray the God to reveal himself to them so they could start seeing clearly. That’s how I deal with it

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

Cali wrote:

CPT Obvious wrote:

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I get what you’re saying, man. Here’s what I think: You can’t change any of this crap. You can’t make your friends see how they are destroying themselves, you can’t make people stop believing in girl power (they don’t want to stop), you can’t change how women act.

Take your analytical brain and analyze that for a little while. Don’t let any emotions into your logical process. You will likely come to the conclusion that because your rage, like everyone else’s, will be completely ineffective at changing society, it serves no purpose. All your rage does is increase your stress levels and bring excess negativity into your life….

Rage is just another way of basing yourself on other people. You are allowing others to dictate how you feel.

Great suggestion, thanks. Redirecting my analytical brain on what I can/cannot control and the results of my anger might be helpful.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

anonymousyam wrote:

…if you are into gaming just stick to the old games, use adblock to avoid giving them advertising revenue, etc.

It’s funny that you mention “old games.” I am very old school: I have an Atari 2600, 5200 and 7800 collection and game room with a full-sized, stand-up Joust arcade game. It is a great hobby for me. Maybe need to spend more time with it.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[anonymousyamParticipant 4605]

CPT Obvious wrote:

anonymousyam wrote:

…if you are into gaming just stick to the old games, use adblock to avoid giving them advertising revenue, etc.

It’s funny that you mention “old games.” I am very old school: I have an Atari 2600, 5200 and 7800 collection and game room with a full-sized, stand-up Joust arcade game. It is a great hobby for me. Maybe need to spend more time with it.

For me i just play ps2 and ps3 games mostly the new systems are just not worth it.

Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

Anonymous wrote:

CPT Obvious – I’m struggling with red pill rage for exactly the same reasons (although I was never married, the same s~~~ applies)

For me it’s very up and down, it’s a bizarre feeling to describe, as I can be relishing in tranquility for an hour then boil within moments. For me its not constant, I’m not sure if anyone can relate to that?

Your post was very well written. Slightly in awe of your writing skills.

Thanks joller. I do have my moments of tranquility, but the rage still seems to linger as background noise.

Then something will happen that will really turn up the rage volume. For example, last week my daughter texted me stating that her mother is kicking her out once the child support ends. Consequently, I start thinking about all the bulls~~~ she pulled during/after the divorce and how the courts allow it. These thoughts spin into the other subjects I touched on in the OP.

I have found a couple things that help such as exercise, reading non-fiction, and using a technique taught to help with PTSD called “Hunting the Good.” Every night I think of three things that happened today that either went well or I’m grateful for. This helps break the negative thought cycle.

I am hoping others can share techniques which have helped them. Yesterday I was in full rage mode, and I recognize it’s counterproductive.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You are now a god walking amongst fools.

They are on a lower plain than you.

Think not of their trivial lives as you walk through them. They are but ants.

They can no longer harm you …. you have transended.

Build your world. It will be fking amazing.

Transend my friend.

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

Russky wrote:

I replaced rage and hate with pity. I look at people as victims of the circumstance….

Looking at them with pity instead of anger. Thanks, Russky, I like that. It helps redirect a mostly negative emotion with something more neutral.

One of my best friends married an entitled, women-know-better bitch. After I had a big argument with her when she starting touting her vagina power, I stopped associating with both of them. I do feel pity for him.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[CPT ObviousParticipant 2726]

ILiveAgain wrote:

You are now a god walking amongst fools.

They are on a lower plain than you.

Think not of their trivial lives as you walk through them. They are but ants.

They can no longer harm you …. you have transended.

Build your world. It will be fking amazing.

Transend my friend.

Need to frame this and hang it next to my bed so it’s the first and last thing I see every day.

"You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

I’m still dealing with it too ….at least to a lesser degree now , I get aggravated by the time I lost , yeah the money too , but you can get that back. The loss of time in my life spent as blue pill is what p~~~es me off…. but I like all of the advice so far. Wasted emotion , letting others control you , etc etc. All are very true , but I will say that something that has also helped me is to learn to forgive yourself. The power of forgiveness is often thought of as a weakness , but I learned that it is the opposite – a great STRENGTH. This helps me dial it down a notch or 2.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

ILiveAgain wrote:

You are now a god walking amongst fools.

F~~~ing love this quote.

CPT Obvious wrote:

“Hunting the Good.” Every night I think of three things that happened today that either went well or I’m grateful for. This helps break the negative thought cycle.

And thanks for this. I’ve been doing a version of it, but not regularly like that. I think this’ll be a positive exercise. It’s also worth noting that, if you do your “Hunting the Good” homework and don’t have 3 answers, your homework *then* becomes thinking of concrete things you can do tomorrow morning to get to those 3 answers. Bonus points if you can share that with someone you know/trust so they can hold you accountable.

Take it easy brother. RP rage is a bitch, but it does subside, making room for s~~~ that’s way better. Cheers.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Emotions are something that your body’s glandular system does for you, whether you like it or not. It’s gonna happen, and it’s gonna happen in a thoroughly predictable cycle.

To the below: Yep!

ILiveAgain wrote:
You are now a god walking amongst fools.

They are on a lower plain than you.

Think not of their trivial lives as you walk through them. They are but ants.

They can no longer harm you …. you have transended.

Build your world. It will be fking amazing.

Transend my friend.
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That was beautiful.

EDIT: It thought that was supposed to be “plane.” OTH, the meaning is clear. Heed him!

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[RoyDalParticipant]

@Stealthy;

You brought tears to my eyes. Keep on truckin’ bro!

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[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

Seriously, stealthy needs to write a book or something that f~~~ing post was epic. Perhaps a stealthy’s gospel forum or something. You sir are legendary.

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