This man could use some MGTOW

[BryantParticipant 229]

this should be considered criminal, if not a felony. this disgusts me

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@xgreenlanternox

xgreenlanternox wrote:

Wait, wait just a second… I need to see if I am processing this correctly. This co-worker, he married a woman with THREE kids from THREE different dads, got a divorce and now pays alimony judging from that fact he has to write a monthly check to her. He then got re-married and had a kid with another single mother who has TWO other kids? What… the… f~~~… is wrong with him????

Ding! Ding! Ding! Yes you got it.

What… the… f~~~… is wrong with him

I don’t know. But if “captain save a ho” needed a passport picture, he could use his.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[xgreenlanternoxParticipant 253]

Keymaster wrote:

Ding! Ding! Ding! Yes you got it.

Keymaster wrote:

I don’t know. But if “captain save a ho” needed a passport picture, he could use his.

I am at a loss for words… Holy…. S~~~…..

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Voidraithe wrote:

Found this here: http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/35a9y3/my_31m_wife_30f_of_five_years_tricked_me_into/

I am here for advice and perspective. Thank you in advance. My wife and I have been married for five years. We have a three year old son. She has made it clear that she would like a second child. I have made it clear that I wasn’t ready until we got our relationship and finances in order, and then planned properly. We planned properly for our first, why not our second? She informed me this week that she was pregnant – at most six weeks. She told me she stopped taking birth control in March because she “ran out”. We have insurance and disposable income – “running out” is no excuse. She also never initiates sex. She initiated sex in April…

He has absolutely every right to not want another child. In all things being equal, his body, his decision, right?  I do think it could of been handled a little more cautiously (i.e. spermicidal condoms, or optionally being vasectomy) but I understand.  We never do expect to be betrayed by the one we think we love. Then again, that is exactly what they count on.

I think Keymaster is right is stating that He should find the Testicular fortitude to walk. Never said it would be easy, just that it would be worth it. At this point, it IS absolutely NOT about the child and more about control. If she doesn’t even respect his wish to not want another child, then clearly his emotional well being, rationale, and dreams for the future all come secondary to her needs. Respect for him both as a man, husband, and head of the family is strongly diminished and will only continue to corrode as time goes on.  If he can’t find the gonads to walk away now, then she will ultimately take that as a weakness, and try to exploit it. This I know first hand… learn from our mistakes, and please, for the love of all things wonderous, don’t repeat them.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[revistaParticipant 232]

Smacktalk73 your bang on there.i stayed with the mother of my boys for longer than i should have done.its soul destroying,but because id been part time dad to my daughter i didnt want to do that again.it was tough when we first split up and she moved on very quickly.i was bitter and twisted for a while but ok now.got good relationship with my boys and suprisingly im better off.you spend alot less on stuff you dont need when your single.if i was the brother id split up now,try and keep it amicable and concentrate on his 3 yr old and his upcoming arrival.take the red pill and enjoy freedom.all the best.

[nerowolfeParticipant 13]

You are already f~~~ed! You marry it, you pay for it. Unless you want to move to another country and disappear, then you must decide: stay in the marriage and live with it, or divorce and pay, pay, pay while this wife of yours denies your right to your children.

Legally you have nothing.  Damage is done.  She has already won.  You want your son and she know’s it.  Unless you can set her up for illegal activity that will result in her going to prison, you must understand the reality is that you have lost the game.

Now, what do you do?  Can you live without being in your son’s life? No? Then you must compromise yourself because that’s the game today.  stay with the bitch and play nice. Who knows, you might have a decent life when she realizes you arent leaving. At least you’ll be there, and can control what happens to a certain extent. You might even be able to find sex with someone else.

Or, take off. Hide assets so she cant find them, then pick your moment. File papers and disappear. Or just divorce in the usual way, but make it hard to find you. Say goodbye to your son.  If you divorce, and want to be the part-time emascualted dad, go ahead. But you will grovel to her for everything. And everytime you get promoted, or get a raise, she’ll get more of your wallet.  Everytime you p~~~ her off, she’ll withhold the kids from you.

Sorry, man. So sorry for what you are about to go through. Teach your son.  Thats your revenge.

[GreatDaneParticipant 7]

You made the mistake of changing your plans about the vacation. Too late now. That was her test to see if she had the final say in the decisions effecting the household. She knew she was testing those waters by getting pregnant against your will. Their mode of thinking becomes like a child pushing to see how far they can go each time. That same mode will get you cucked with a 3rd child if you stick around. With the vacation flip, she established herself as “the boots wearer” in the relationship. Long gone is the dream of a relationship based on compromise and mutual respect. You have a potential monster on your hands, bro. Do what you can to minimize the damage she will inevitably inflict on your dream . Get a lawyer.

[VicParticipant 6]

I think that’s the point where you learn how to hack a car.
You get to keep the 3 year old kid and all the stuff your sweat and headache bought you.

"There's nothing more dangerous than a man who wants to make the world a better place" - Banksy.

[MrBurnsParticipant 83]

Well that sucks. Whether malice or negligence caused it, you’re boned.

I’ve never met a girl who took her pill 100% on time every time without ever missing a day. Even if they do, the pill isn’t 100% effective and neither are condoms. So I don’t have sex unless there is a combination of condom + pill (or IUD). Besides, it won’t protect you from getting an STI when she cheats on you, and most people do eventually. Oh and don’t ever leave them alone in the same room as the condoms lest they poke a needle through them.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Keith wrote:

His first error, allowing birth control to be HER responsibility.

Amen. If you want something done right, you do it yourself!

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

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