This is clearly a test right?

[porky ryanParticipant 18]

well i’m in no place to dispute AWALT. maybe i should go over to introductions and reveal myself as the fool who should have learned it after the first burn but instead decided to be a glutton for punishment for not having learned better.  i love my son and daughter though and would never regret the events that led to their lives. i’m not sure what happens from this point on but i’m just going to play it cool and keep my options open

[BytenParticipant 0]

1st post to the forum, I can not help but to comment on this due to living a very similar experience.

I have to point out, you are f~~~ed. Except it now and life will be easier for you.

She isn’t sexually attracted to you because you are now framed beta/blue pill. If you want the sexual relationship with her to resume, immediately begin reading Married Man Sex Primer 2011 and take your dominance back. PUA material will be useful in that as well.

If you take the “deal” of having an open relationship, f~~~ing one opens the flood gates btw don’t fool yourself it’s an open relationship deal, she WILL use that as further leverage to get more s~~~ from you. Sure she’s “feeling guilty” now for not meeting your needs(total BS) but once someone else does she will expect MORE from you for ALLOWING it. Example, “I give you other women, I deserve a new van”

I lived for 6 years in that kinda scenario and looking back, I should have worked the angles to get her back inline and f~~~able but then again I did get some pretty crazy ass sex out of the deal. Not exactly Going My Own Way statements but it was a different time in my life.

[TheGouliatParticipant 20]

In the least offensive Way, she now shifted her feelings towards the Kid. Her Brain is not in “Woman” mode anymore, its “Mother” mode. Mothers Care about their kids more then the Man. Normally still accepting the man ( for whatever reason) but this could be a total Shift. Like “preserving” her Breasts to the child, not you and so on.

 

Still, the others can still be true and are more likely to be the case.

 

 

[TRUBLU22Participant 8]

try taking a vacation together, bet it will suck. Try doing anything together bet the result is the same. As soon as you sleep with another woman she has a pay check for the rest of her life. Forget sex for awhile, here’s how – turn off the tv – your bombarded by images meant to create arousal. Turn off the radio its the same. Get to work, find something that interests you and work at it, get better at making money, put more effort into your job, find a hobby that lets you create with your hands, et al., go to youtube and search “On the Shortness of Life” Lucius Seneca, it will be the best hour you can spend today. I am actually listening to it right now, again.

If you continue to ignore the signs, a good women would never tell you to go have sex with someone else, you will threaten your identity, find your memories are vague, and will never come to yourself and will live exhausted and stressed. Over the coming years she will seek the attention of other men, waste money and time, undermine your best efforts, and nothing you do, gift, or achieve will be good enough. Be a good father, find something to do and go do it, she will be the same regardless of your efforts.

 

Best of luck

[TRUBLU22Participant 8]

As a side note, I have spent the last year laughing at how foolish I have been in my relationship – now I realize that the behaviors are all the same regardless of the specific circumstances, this is a social phenomena not an individual, these women aren’t individuals they have subscribed to the common culture. Not special, not unique, not new, all the same. Look at begood4000 I have found James very helpful, he also has a similar site thats has been up for quite awhile.

[Anonymous 42]

Bravo TRUBLU22, your advice is razor sharp to the point! +2, Welcome to MGTOW, Your posts were real MGTOW, thanks!

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