They are all sociopaths

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Twist wrote:

And – follow my link on the prior page to see how your Spath is going to make your kids fear and hate you… Sorry. Been there, and still there.

Nice one Twist. One phrase in that article encapsulates the whole thing perfectly when describing todays understanding, recognition and response to Personality disorders by the medical community; quote- ‘profound professional ignorance and incompetence.’
I feel my children MAY be lucky (if one can consider having a Spath for a mother ‘lucky’).
My children have been in my arms since the day they were born and we have a very tactile and emotionally close relationship. For example they always make their way into my bed before morning which they don’t do at their mothers as she has her next victim in bed with her. They regard my house as their home.
Their mother, though seemingly very intelligent (can name every Latin botanical name for every plant and weed), she is also very, lets say, like a retard in many other ways.
Her house is full of shouting, threats and swearing. MY house is a no-swear, no shouting calm zone and the kids actively help enforce this rule (self regulation).
I have had to say to the children ‘Mummy sometimes says silly things’. Now this at face value, is programming the kids, but its actually skilling them up to learn to assess some of the crazy s~~~ their mother says, for example- putting milk in daddy’s microwave will make you sick and you will die etc. (guys Ive got reams of this s~~~) Anyway Ive noticed that this has relieved the anxiety in the children.
The children also see their mother being aggressive, whilst I have a calm nature. I am hoping the kids will ‘work it out’. But at the ages of 4 and (nearly) 6, its a big thing for two little girls.
Sometimes when my oldest says something odd, I will say ‘give me an example’. This gets her thinking. For example, when she says that mummy says that I always never return the (mothers) children’s clothes to their mothers house (the fact being the spath has bags of my clothes, all my childrens lunch-box ice packs, swimming towels and bathers for school swimming-never returned even though I ask. Some Clothes were brand new and for soiling emergencies at pre-school- never worn, and I have none of hers) (projection). So she gets to be the black hole and I get accused of it all.
But hopefully the children will see. They are not stupid. I just have to be really careful and let them slowly work it out. I cant be seen to be trashing her character to the kids too much. Another rant sorry.

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Anonymous wrote:

raindog wrote:

I recently discovered that I have BPD

How was it discovered?

I find it incredibly hard to believe someone with BPD would find MGTOW – it just isn’t in their interest or nature. You’d have to be over it to be here, and the chances of that are incredibly slim.

If you are truly BPD, then you won’t be here long, by your own accord

I mean no offense by that.

There is no contradiction there. In fact, someone with BPD would be more likely to have been used by women who exploited their fear of abandonment and find comfort in a MGTOW forum and be in the company of like minded men.
On the other hand, someone with APD or NPD would be less likely to be here since he has nothing to gain here.

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My search of information on borderline personality disorder let me to Paul Elam and eventually to mgtow. Psychopathy and many of the other cluster B disorders default behavior for women. Something like 75% about personality disorders defined as cluster B are women. I was around that craziness for so long that I honestly thought I was borderline my own self. The thing is most borderline personality disorders don’t question their own behavior it’s everybody else. That’s how you can tell the difference

I can see their heads have been twisted and fed with worthless foam from the mouth. Bob d

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