They are all sociopaths

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

Warratah wrote:

My ex spent some time gradually introducing the concept of suicide into my head.
She almost convinced me that I’d be doing the right thing for the children and her. My death would have afforded her (ahem – THE CHILDREN) a mortgage-free property plus other cash benefits.
She almost had me convinced!

That’s f~~~ing sick. I’ve read few articles about this happening and I believe its a lot more common than people might think. Glad you survived this ordeal, brother.

On the flip side of that I had my ex call me a few weeks after I ended the relationship (from a withheld number) drunk as f~~~, hysterical and threatening to kill herself unless I went and saw her.

I’d done my research and actually expected this might happen (threatening suicide is another classic BPD move). I informed her that I wasn’t a pyschiatrist or mental health professional and that i’d get her the number for a suicide hotline -all I got back was untintelligable drunken shouting. I also messaged her father, informing him of her intentions. I knew that was the most I could do and you absolutely cannot give in to these morbid demands. Its totally disgusting to do that to someone and you’re not responsible for someone’s life in this scenario.

I never heard back from her father or her but I know she didn’t go through with it, as I completely expected she wouldnt.

Man ! You handled that really well. Didn’t let her blackmail you,notifed her family and have her suicide hot line # Perfect!!

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Anonymous wrote:

@warratah – I’ve often described it as a “demon” look myself. I’ll tell you what really freaked me out – That cold, lifeless, vacant look in their eyes, it literally looks like they’ve just been possessed by a demon. A lot of people have described it as looking at a sharks eyes – completely empty and predatory.

I will not forget the first time I saw it – I actually took a step back.

Had one of those in my life for too long. Didn’t know at the time what I am dealing with and I can only relate to this in retrospect. But i could not describe the look in the eyes i saw any better than above. Empty, completely empty void in the eyes and i was literally lost there for a long time.

There is a good article about female psychopaths on Illimitable man called Lucifers daughters. This one I was dealing with was a perfect Machiavellian manipulator displaying sociopathic tendencies. I was relatively red pill when we met but she sold me the blue pill comfortable dreams with perfection. I have left and she is still initiating contacts though internet and texts. My mental state is a direct inverse function of how close i am to her so i have no intention whatsoever to stay in touch.

I was completely unprepared for her but will for sure keep my guard up in future.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[TuneoutParticipant]

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2015/02/12/differences-between-a-psychopath-vs-sociopath/

One is genetic ,the other is learned

Psychos are methodical,Socios are impulsive

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 54]

Freeman_K wrote:

joller984 wrote:

@warratah – I’ve often described it as a “demon” look myself. I’ll tell you what really freaked me out – That cold, lifeless, vacant look in their eyes, it literally looks like they’ve just been possessed by a demon. A lot of people have described it as looking at a sharks eyes – completely empty and predatory.

I will not forget the first time I saw it – I actually took a step back.

But i could not describe the look in the eyes i saw any better than above. Empty, completely empty void in the eyes

I can’t believe I am getting to hear other Men describe this. I was not exzargerating it in my mind. I see the devil in there eyes now. When they smile for there selfies,I see sharks wanting to eat me.

[joetechParticipant]

Now how do you feel about calling that tip hotline?

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

joetech wrote:

I’m in a mess right now with my GF. I’ve never seen that look from her, but I have from her daughter. I’m not going down without a fight.

Why get involved in a fight that drags you down? Just dump her sorry ass and get yourself free.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Tuneout wrote:

http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2015/02/12/differences-between-a-psychopath-vs-sociopath/

One is genetic ,the other is learned

Psychos are methodical,Socios are impulsive

Regularly breaks or flouts the law
Constantly lies and deceives others
Is impulsive and doesn’t plan ahead
Can be prone to fighting and aggressiveness
Has little regard for the safety of others
Irresponsible, can’t meet financial obligations
Doesn’t feel remorse or guilt

Problem i have with definition is that for example my past experience with this women i am talking about she ticks the no remorse and no regard for safety of others boxes. She is also aggressive but in such a clever way that her army of white knighs and manginas do the fighting. Think Lucy Liu in Kill Bill. So she ticks the three boxes but is on the other hand methodical in thinking, there are no impulses within her, only occasional cracks which i was not able to read. High IQ psychopaths are the worst.

Now i also have in life someone who ticks all the boxes above apart from first two and that is now “chilled” but in his years full blown abusive alcoholic father. I am pretty sure that what i had to endure made me vulnerable to female psychopaths but also then i was able to process the situation with said woman. Really feel i should study about psychopaths/sociopaths more. Anyone with any good book ideas ?

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

There’s a great show on the Investigative Discovery Channel called “Deadly Women” with real life cases that debunks the myth of women being so kind and gentle. So many women bump off their husbands to be with their lovers or get the husband’s money. They never run out of cases.

[Anonymous 1]

Damn, I wish no man has to suffer this s~~~ like so many of us have.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Anonymous wrote:

bobphilo wrote:

Yes they are all personality disorders. However only those anti-social personality disorder and some with narcissistic personality disorders are considered sociopaths.

ahh yes I see what you’re saying. I do consider NPD and BDP traits to be very similar, and commonly the diagnosis overlap. Many are often diagnosed with both disorders.

“The main feature of borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a pervasive pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image and emotions. People with borderline personality disorder are also usually very impulsive, oftentimes demonstrating self-injurious behaviors (risky sexual behaviors, cutting, suicide attempts).”
People with BPD do not exhibit the characteristics of those with Antisocial PD such as lack of empathy or manipulative behavior.
Those with BPD are more much likely to be dangerous to themselves than to others, unlike sociopaths.
While dual diagnosis is technically possible, they are separate conditions with no correlation between the 2. There is a strong correlation with antisocials and narcissists

[Anonymous 1]

Anonymous wrote:

I can’t believe I am getting to hear other Men describe this. I was not exzargerating it in my mind. I see the devil in there eyes now. When they smile for there selfies,I see sharks wanting to eat me

Another word I would use to describe that look is pure chaos.

Like looking into a non entity.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Excellent replies everyone. I would like to mention the succubus too, which I think is what these demon women really are.

Succubus
1. One who leeches on and eventually completely consumes the very essence of man’s soul, leaving an empty and shattered shell of what once was a free and ultimately superior human being destined for greatness.
2. Also known as ‘bitch’, ‘heartless whore’, ‘evil slut’, or ‘lying c~~~’. The evil spirit of these heartless creature is almost invisible at first sight; however, after a few months, one could find himself with: no money and no friends, lack of hobbies, little or no sense of reality, and/or self respect. These evil demons begin their hunt at age 14 and continue until they have successfully stripped one man of all his pride.

Succubus

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[Anonymous 54]

bobphilo wrote:

There’s a great show on the Investigative Discovery Channel called “Deadly Women” with real life cases that debunks the myth of women being so kind and gentle. So many women bump off their husbands to be with their lovers or get the husband’s money. They never run out of cases.

Susan Smith. I called her out the first time I saw her on the news. Crying with no tears.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

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If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 1]

Keymaster wrote:

joller984 wrote:

I’m not sure what the difference is between a sociopath and cluster B personality disorder. “Sociopath” just seems to be a blanket term for most personality disorders.

Histrionic / Narcissistic personality disorder is not as harmful to OTHERS. Mostly self-centered, they include attention seekers, dominate the conversation, use grandiose language, seek constant praise, dress provocatively, exaggerate illnesses, believe that everyone loves them, seek praise, fantasize about success and power, expect favorable treatment, exaggerate achievements, have difficulty maintaining long-lasting relationships, expect others to recognize them as being superior. They twist and distort reality to infinity in order to place themselves at the earth’s center. No amount of objectivity shall be allowed to intefere with this. This is their prime objective, and they will talk any amount of nonsense to achieve it. They don’t care. There is only them, and their prison is a familiar, comfortable zone. It has walls padded with velvety self-deception.

A sociopath feeds off others. Control freaks. Treats others like objects. Has no feeling, empathy or remorse. Toys with other people’s emotions. Lives to provoke reactions. Befriends you and then starts insulting, criticizing and belittling you. Uses forms of manipulation like “gas lighting”… and when you call them out, they can get EXTREMELY hostile.

The histrionic/narcissist lives in their OWN heads.
The sociopath wants to live in YOURS.

Think of a sociopath like a parasite who needs a host. When you dump a sociopath (or cut them out of your life) they literally go ballistic, because they don’t have their claws in you.

You haven’t spoken much on this subject before (to my knowledge) so I was a tad surprised to see how accurate that is. Honestly didn’t know that was an area you had looked at or experienced.

its taken me a while to respond because it made me think.

Have you had experience in personality disorders? It reads like you’ve done a fair amount of research, or had some experience.

I mean that aside from that fact that most women aren’t exactly playing with a full deck 🙂

[raindogParticipant 313]

bobphilo wrote:

joller984 wrote:

bobphilo wrote:

Yes they are all personality disorders. However only those anti-social personality disorder and some with narcissistic personality disorders are considered sociopaths.

ahh yes I see what you’re saying. I do consider NPD and BDP traits to be very similar, and commonly the diagnosis overlap. Many are often diagnosed with both disorders.

“The main feature of borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a pervasive pattern of instability in interpersonal relationships, self-image and emotions. People with borderline personality disorder are also usually very impulsive, oftentimes demonstrating self-injurious behaviors (risky sexual behaviors, cutting, suicide attempts).”
People with BPD do not exhibit the characteristics of those with Antisocial PD such as lack of empathy or manipulative behavior.
Those with BPD are more much likely to be dangerous to themselves than to others, unlike sociopaths.
While dual diagnosis is technically possible, they are separate conditions with no correlation between the 2. There is a strong correlation with antisocials and narcissists

I recently discovered that I have BPD, but I don’t have any symptoms of NPD. I agree that there’s no correlation between the two. To me they’re not at all similar, but I certainly wouldn’t recommend being in a relationship with either!

"Free your mind and your ass will follow. The kingdom of heaven is within." -Funkadelic

[Anonymous 0]

Yep they are nasty c~~~s. Some of you may have read a thread of mine on thins site where I am explaining how my ‘parasitic tumour’ is telling my young children that my food is going to give them cancer, the hair spray I’m using on their hair is going to give them cancer, the milk (just the milk at your house daddy) is going to give them cancer, sun screen is going to give them cancer, and telling the kids Daddy’s going to give them big painful needles-‘mummy showed me a movie on the computer of a little girl getting a really big needle and she was really scared’. My spath refuses to immunise the children and the courts have taken my primary care status away and the last nurse I went to se refused to do it. In any case, having a little girl begging not to be stabbed with a big needle by daddy is enough to back off.
Oh, and then have the kids screaming in her car not wanting to get out to come into my care with spath saying ‘why don’t the kids want to come to your house? they’ve been saying this a bit lately? (Maybe because they don’t want to get cancer and DIE you f~~~ing C~~~!!) In this case, my oldest in fact had a double infection- a throat infection and a bladder infection. THATS why she was in the car crying. And it was ME who took her to the doctors. The psychopath making sure her daughter remained sick so as to make it seem the kids didn’t want to be with me. And then when I get the kids back a week later, the spath had not continued to give my daughter the antibiotics. I was goin into the f~~~ing school to make sure she got it. I could go on folks. Wanna know about a f~~~ing psychopath? I’ve got one hook line and f~~~ing sinker. To all of you here who have one, I know what you are going through. But for f~~~s sake RUN AWAY if you have not got children to protect.

[Anonymous 1]

raindog wrote:

I recently discovered that I have BPD

How was it discovered?

I find it incredibly hard to believe someone with BPD would find MGTOW – it just isn’t in their interest or nature. You’d have to be over it to be here, and the chances of that are incredibly slim.

If you are truly BPD, then you won’t be here long, by your own accord

I mean no offense by that.

[TwistParticipant]

PFree,

what is a “Spath”? thanks

And – follow my link on the prior page to see how your Spath is going to make your kids fear and hate you… Sorry. Been there, and still there.

[Anonymous 0]

Twist wrote:

PFree,
what is a “Spath”? thanks

Its a lazy way of saying sociopath- …s…..path…spath.

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