The red pill I never saw coming

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

Hello gents. I have become quite content with my life, after learning many red pill lessons and getting through the red pill rage. I browse the forums less frequently, and often skip over posts about female nature and the typical blue pill stuff.

While this knowledge is still valuable, particularly to new members, I have come to terms with it. That being said I recently had a red pill dosage I was not seeking out nor ever expected.

My sister has been with her husband for 15 years. They dated for over 8 and only got married as a formality. The wedding was small, they had a simple party get-together for close friends and family.

While I find the mythical NAWALT to be a thing of legend I always considered my sister to be the closest candidate. She is not at all materialistic, and has always been understanding when discussing subjects most women would be appalled by.

Suddenly, just last Thursday, she tells her husband that she has “fallen out of love” with him and wants to leave him. He had absolutely no idea that this was coming nor did me and my family (she has always been close to me and open to talking about things she would not with others).

This has not only shattered her husband, but my/her parents are absolutely devastated by this. My sister and her husband have been living with my parents for over a decade in a multi-family home setup (each have half the house with separate kitchens etc.)

Since he has been living with them for so long, my parents are even more attached to her husband and see him as another son.

While I never expected this from her, my red pill knowledge has made this much less shocking for me. I am also much more easily accepting the situation than my parents are (they are typical blue pill).

Just goes to show when all is said and done…AWALT

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Dude. Rough. Be prepared to find out she’s been seeing someone else — probably for a while. Also, be there to support your brother-in-law. He’s going to need it.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

I’m sure this was not out of the blue. With your knowledge, you can look back and you will realize the signs were there. Maybe you just missed them because you were not directly involved(as a husband would) or simply because of familiarity (where you drop your guard when it comes to familiar surroundings and people).
But look back, analyze and you shall see.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Sorry to hear this but sadly this is no surprise. Check out the article on the thread on female infidelity.

Great article explaining female infidelity

As the author says, “When she says she is unhappy in the marriage she is already looking for the next guy.”

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Even the near Unicorns cannot be trusted – their ability complete a full metamorphosis into AWALT lies deep within every single one of them.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

probably another man involved somewhere. Maybe a chad thunderc~~~, maybe some joe blow. If life is going well then women aren’t happy. They have to stir up some more bulls~~~.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Thanks for sharing. AWALT, they just have different fuse lengths.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

bobphilo wrote:

Sorry to hear this but sadly this is no surprise. Check out the article on the thread on female infidelity.

Great article explaining female infidelity

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As the author says, “When she says she is unhappy in the marriage she is already looking for the next guy.”

Somehow the last part of my post got covered by the link. As the author of the article said, “When she says she is unhappy in the marriage she is already looking for the next guy”.
Women mistake the early feelings of attraction with love and and fall back on the wedding fantasy with the man being just a prop to their fantasy. When the flame of lust fades they “fall out of love’ and start looking for another guy to get back the enthusiasm.

[experiencedParticipant]

She’s already f~~~ing someone else.
But she’ll be the victim.
Everyone just doesn’t understand.
The poor dear.
She needs to discover herself…and integrity and honor while she’s at it.

Why get married?
You mean the ceremony wherein two take vows and the wife breaks them?

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 5]

My little princess did the same to me in 1997. I thought it was just her or something I did or didn’t do or something I didn’t do well enough, etc, etc, etc
After an in depth conversation with another princess in about 2000-01, who now felt some remorse for doing the same thing to her husband who she acknowledged was a good man and a great father, I realised that women were legally and morally entitled to terminate their marriage vows and commitments if they changed their feelings or they felt they deserved more.
I realised that this could happen at any time, for any reason or no reason what so ever. The law would still allow her to financially rape me and distance me from any children even though it was legally clear I’d done nothing wrong.
I realised I’d never be in any type of legally binding relationship with a woman ever again.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Your brother-in-law IS your parents’ son. That’s how marriage works. Now your sister has torn your family apart for love of money or dick or both.

It sucks but all women are indeed like that. We feel your pain. Please continue to share the story with us as it develops.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

My ex wife did exactly the same to me, I guarantee there will be some new guy waiting in the wings. A safe life in the burbs with a decent, reliable guy is actually the worst punishment any woman can have. They crave excitement, they crave getting f~~~ed in the back of a car by some Alpha bad boy.

Trust me, she has been planning this for months if not years, it just didn’t happen overnight. The problem is, by the time women decide to leave they have already mentally left the marriage, so are always cold and calculating when it comes to leaving the husband.

She will manipulate this so she becomes the victim and the husband gets all of the blame for working too hard, not paying her attention or some other bulls~~~ excuse while she rides the c~~~ carousel to cries of “You go girl!” from her jealous married friends who have not yet pulled the pin on their marriages.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Anonymous wrote:

My little princess did the same to me in 1997. I thought it was just her or something I did or didn’t do or something I didn’t do well enough, etc, etc, etc
After an in depth conversation with another princess in about 2000-01, who now felt some remorse for doing the same thing to her husband who she acknowledged was a good man and a great father, I realised that women were legally and morally entitled to terminate their marriage vows and commitments if they changed their feelings or they felt they deserved more.
I realised that this could happen at any time, for any reason or no reason what so ever. The law would still allow her to financially rape me and distance me from any children even though it was legally clear I’d done nothing wrong.
I realised I’d never be in any type of legally binding relationship with a woman ever again.

Exact same experience and conclusions I came to and I would never get financially involved with a woman ever again. Marriage gives her the power to totally destroy your life and finances because she is bored, thinks she can do better or just fancies a bit of c~~~ carousel excitement before it is too late.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

She has certainly complained to me about minor aspects of her husband (petty s~~~) but I never thought much of it, after all who doesn’t complain once and a while. They have been together so long it never even crossed my mind that this might happen.

As many of our wise brothers have pointed out, there is in fact another guy at work who she is involved with at some level (can’t say to what extent).

Luckily my brother-in-law is actually quite red pill knowledgeable in regards to divorce laws and is already looking at his options, despite the pain he is going through.

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3293]

Honorable_Juice_Box wrote:

She has certainly complained to me about minor aspects of her husband (petty s~~~) but I never thought much of it, after all who doesn’t complain once and a while. They have been together so long it never even crossed my mind that this might happen.

Basically she is scared about her diminishing SMV so wants one last ride on the c~~~ carousel before it is too late. The reason she is complaining about petty s~~~ is because she is trying to justify it to herself by making it all seem his fault.

Honorable_Juice_Box wrote:

As many of our wise brothers have pointed out, there is in fact another guy at work who she is involved with at some level (can’t say to what extent).

There always is, when a woman decides to jump ship from a marriage there is always another man involved. Trust me, she has been messaging him for months and sneaking off to sleep with him behind her husbands back. This gives her such an addictive buzz that she cannot stop doing it and makes her think her current life is boring in comparison. She currently thinks this buzz will be there forever, but trust me once they can see each other whenever they want she will get bored of him and will soon start becoming pump and dump carousel fodder. Give it a few years of this and she will settle for another blue pill wallet.

Honorable_Juice_Box wrote:

Luckily my brother-in-law is actually quite red pill knowledgeable in regards to divorce laws and is already looking at his options, despite the pain he is going through.

Unfortunately his is going to get bent over the table and screwed no matter what he does. She will keep the house, move her boyfriend in and the ex husband will have to pay for everything.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Get your mgtow microscope and zoom to the ground real closely and pick up all the red flags missed. A women doesn’t just wake up one day and push the red button. Leave it up to a women to nag you for the american dream just so she could destroy it and the lives that came with it. Good luck and slide him a mgtow.com napkin because he’s gonna need it.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Honorable_Juice_BoxParticipant 591]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Get your mgtow microscope and zoom to the ground real closely and pick up all the red flags missed.

You sir are absolutely right, it can be difficult when looking at a close family member, but upon further thought the red flags are glaringly obvious.

Throughout her life she has always had the entitled princess mentality; what she wants and “feels” matter most and to hell with everyone else. She never even considers how her actions will affect others 99% of the time.

My parents and specifically my mother have always been there to help her. My mother would frequently help her with tasks around the house like dishes and laundry. Hell for as long as I can remember she will start laundry and leave it unfinished for days, never caring that there are other people in the house who need to use the same machines.

Despite all she has taken from her immediate family, she almost never shows appreciation for it.

Won'tGetFooledAgain wrote:

Unfortunately his is going to get bent over the table and screwed no matter what he does. She will keep the house

You are right, thankfully the house they live in is owned by my parents, they simply rent out the second half of it to my sister and her husband. Of course her car is bought and paid for by her husband. At first she said he could take it but then said “we’ll discuss it.”

His biggest worry is his 401k that he has been building up for a long time which if she chose to bring him court she could pillage. Thank god they do not have any kids.

[Red_Pill_SouljaParticipant 221]

I hope your brother in law gets through this ok. Like you said its a good thing the house is owned by your parents and they didn’t have any kids.

Are they both working full time?

[FreedomParticipant 295]

“Because I am in love” is the most common (stated) reason for getting married. And it is a terrible reason to get married. Eventually, invariably, love fades. When it does, suddenly it doesn’t make sense to be married anymore. This is probably what happened to your sister.

Pretty much every reason that people get married has a duration. “To raise kids” is long-lasting and noble, but once the kids move out the divorce papers fly.

From stats I read, the most enduring marriages are religious marriages. Their marriage is a service to a higher power, and their divorce is seen as a failure to that higher power, and there is no expiration date on that. The catch, of course, is that you both have to be true believers…if either one isn’t, the marriage is at high risk of divorce.

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

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