Great article explaining female infidelity

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

— 06.30 updated for Bob with PDF now included —

PDF Great article explaining female infidelity

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

I didn’t know Bobphilo worked for the UN 😉

(Gamergate joke for anyone who doesn’t get it).

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Thanks KM. Will do.

Just letting you know it hasn’t arrived yet. Please attach to an email Thank you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 11]

Must read! Thx…

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I thought it was a bit thin on content ?

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

The post gave me an oldskool chuckle 😀 “hey guys, check this picture!” C:/Users/Owner/Documents/Picture.jpg”

“Why can’t you see it?” Hehehehe!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Sorry guys. Didn’t know that PDFs don’t post. I’ve emailed the file to Keymaster and he will take care of it. Trust me, it’s worth waiting for.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Keymaster wrote:

bobphilo wrote:

Thanks KM. Will do.

Just letting you know it hasn’t arrived yet. Please attach to an email Thank you.

I’ve e-mailed it with the PDF attached. Let me know if it went through OK.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

ILiveAgain wrote:

I thought it was a bit thin on content

Also seems my PC doesn’t support the file type lol

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Until Keymaster and I can coordinate on posting the PDF file on women’s infidelity, here’s a website that summarizes the article.
I’m sure many of the brothers here can identify with being cheated on and divorced and see the truth of the author’s observations.

http://womensinfidelity.com/

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

bobphilo wrote:

Until Keymaster and I can coordinate on posting the PDF file on women’s infidelity, here’s a website that summarizes the article.
I’m sure many of the brothers here can identify with being cheated on and divorced and see the truth of the author’s observations.
http://womensinfidelity.com/

Good article bobphilo.

Her book still does not address the why’s of why women do it. Unlike MGTOW men who have
gone in depth studying female nature she conveniently skirting the issue as well as maintaining a false
premise/insinuation that men have been cheating more than women and only now women have started to catch
up in that department. In the meantime if we go back only three or four decades, there was enough evidence
showing that as many as 20 to 25% of women cheated on their husbands.
Still, maybe it may make some of the blue piller’s think more deeply about female nature rather than
except the current feminist narrative.

Zero Tolerance

[GrumpyParticipant]

Nice find Bobphilo

The title, preface, plot, and summary. All in one concise sentence.
Everything else was just filler IMHO
<from the article>
My Story:

Shortly after my 27th birthday, I began to feel very different. I had been happily married for 4 years and then, suddenly out of nowhere, I began feeling bored and unhappy. In an attempt to figure out what was causing my unhappiness, I looked for answers in books, tried to talk to my Mother and eventually went to see a psychologist. All of the information I received attributed the way I was feeling to my husband, and similar to the majority of women, I began to view my husband as the culprit too.

How about we address the extent of the infidelity?
Or are we just limited to the “sexual” aspect?
What about the the emotional, spiritual, psychological, and financial damages and costs of her/his betrayal of an intimate trust between supposed “partners”?

It may be a moot point however, as the author clearly identified the root of the problem. It was HER, and her “feeling bored and unhappy”. So the blame and punishments were awarded to her husband of course.
Again, no bloody agency or consequence on her behalf. Therein is the exact problem.

I can count on exactly ZERO fingers how many times I cheated, in any respect, on any intimate partner I have been involved with over the last 35 years.
Aside from my first wife who cheated on my like she was playing a curbside game of craps with loaded dice, I really didn’t care if they cheated because they would be ejected faster than a used condom at the first indicator of any level of infidelity.

I don’t “have” to live with, or tolerate a woman’s s~~~, however I DO “have” to live with myself, and the consequences of my choices and actions.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[ModeratorParticipant 187]

Gentlemen here it is. Thank you Bob for sending.

PDF Great article explaining female infidelity

Will change the publish date of your post to make it more recent.
Thank you.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Dr. Sable wrote:

bobphilo wrote:

Until Keymaster and I can coordinate on posting the PDF file on women’s infidelity, here’s a website that summarizes the article.
I’m sure many of the brothers here can identify with being cheated on and divorced and see the truth of the author’s observations.
http://womensinfidelity.com/

Good article bobphilo.

Her book still does not address the why’s of why women do it. Unlike MGTOW men who have
gone in depth studying female nature she conveniently skirting the issue as well as maintaining a false
premise/insinuation that men have been cheating more than women and only now women have started to catch
up in that department. In the meantime if we go back only three or four decades, there was enough evidence
showing that as many as 20 to 25% of women cheated on their husbands.
Still, maybe it may make some of the blue piller’s think more deeply about female nature rather than
except the current feminist narrative.

Thanks Dr.Sable as well as Grumpy.
If you read the complete article, recently posted, you will find that the author does give an excellent evolutionary and hormonal explanation for female nature and infidelity.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Great post, op. Amazing that this type of knowledge is now available because of internet. NO ONE talks about this stuff in main stream media. But, slowly we’re learning, aren’t we.

Women respond to men’s indifference. As soon as you care, you start to fade in her eyes. Perfectly demonstrates why many relationships fail, because men begin to care deeply and women lose the euphoria. So, what’s the solution? In this day and age where social media makes it so easy for women to cheat, how do we save this civilization?

I think the only way is to bring back SHAME and PUNISHMENT for infedility. Don’t see that happening anytime soon, so I guess society is f~~~ed. Fine with me. Let it burn.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Anonymous 11]

Disturbing reading. Now I know why I’m getting mid-30s women with children wanting me to assist them in cheating.

A man can’t win. Let it f~~~ing burn.

[narwhalParticipant]

There really isn’t a need to limit this to infidelity. Women cheat and seek divorce for the same reasons in most cases.

And it honestly isn’t too surprising that this isn’t commonly talked about in the media. It would be absolutely devastating to the established narrative. Not only would it hurt the feminist cause, but millions of women would have to a seriously unpleasant look at themselves and all that they believe.

Ok. Then do it.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

After reading the complete article it seems that while Langley makes some great points, her statement that, since this is just part of female nature, women should not feel guilty or shamed for their unfaithful desires.
The reviewer, F. Roger Devlin, says quite rightly that women should be shamed more and not less. Unlike Langley whose concern seems to be with saving marriages, he feels that there is no rational reason why men should get married in today’s society.
I look forward to reading more of Devlin, a true MGTOW.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

World class spot on. Especially this portio, “Some of the husbands learned to look down in restaurants and other public places, because they feared their wife would accuse them of looking at another woman. Some claimed that their wife didn’t want them to watch certain television programs.” Psychologists call this projection: the automatic attribution of one’s own thoughts and motivations to others. Thus, dishonorable women tend to be suspicious; faithful husbands are trusting. In the author’s experience, however, men do not get much credit with their wives for placing so much trust in them: Some of the women resented their husbands’ lack of suspicion…. Although females never give males any indication that they are anything less than 100 percent faithful, [they] seem to think men are stupid for believing them. Females just think males should know that when they say “I would never cheat on you,” what they really mean is “I would never cheat on you…as long as you make me happy and I don’t get bored.” Of course, if men did know this it is unlikely many of them would want to get married.”

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

More excellent points. This author hits bullseye on every paragraph:

Men have an inherent reluctance about joining together to defend their interests in the manner of feminists. One reason, I believe, is they fear it would seem unmanly. While feminists blather about “uncomfortable environments” like princesses fussing over peas, men learn early to swallow large amounts of pain and disappointment: this is simply part of what it means to be a man. The toughening they receive from their fathers and peer groups usually stands them in good stead. They must, after all, learn to make their own way in an unfair world that does not care about their feelings. But all men have their limits. I do not see how any society can expect men to endure from their women the abhorrent behavior Michelle Langley describes. Reports of suicides and other violent behavior on the part of abandoned husbands denied access to their children are getting onto the internet. Despite the powerful presence of feminist gatekeepers, even the “old” news media will not be able to maintain a complete blackout forever. The “backlash” feminists have long talked about is just beginning. The reader has probably gathered by now that Women’s Infidelity is not the sort of book that would inspire a young man to go out and fall in love. Concerned as all of us must be about declining birthrates, I could not in good conscience urge any young man coming of age in America today to marry, or even to date. There is simply no point in continuing to play by the old rules with women who openly despise those rules. Instead, I would recommend working hard, saving money, refusing to socialize with spoiled women, and reading Michelle Langley if you want to learn what kinds of things you are missing out on. If you still cannot rid yourself of the desire to marry, learning an Eastern European language might not be a bad investment. The reality of marriage in any age is indeed such that it has never been easy to make it a sensible choice for a man from a purely self-interested point of view. The sexual instinct and romantic illusions can only do so much. This is why it has often been necessary to exhort contented bachelors that it would be “immature and irresponsible” of them not to take a wife. Above and beyond this, dowries often used to be offered with brides to sweeten the deal. Our author’s description of this ancient custom is delightful: “females are considered a worthless burden so families pay men to marry them.” Sounds reasonable to me

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

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