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One thing that has always frustrated me throughout my life is: my attempts to entice a woman to have sex with me. I’ve had more failure than success in this quest. Because of this, I read a lot of books about dating and relationships. And I spent money on PUA ebooks. In spite of this superior knowledge, I still get confused about a woman’s thinking process when it comes to sex.
Basically, the PUAs will tell you to be assertive, act confident, and try not to appear nervous or needy when you strike a conversation with a woman. They say women don’t want to have sex with a desperate, needy man. They’d rather have sex with a dominant, take charge kind of guy who has experience f~~~ing a lot of women.
Some women will have sex with a very wealthy man (not because they’re in the mood to have sex) so they can have the chance to upgrade their standard of living.
Some women will go to a house party, have a few drinks, and then become convinced that having sex is a great idea. The usual critique of a man not being good enough for her (while sober) seems to fade away with every drink (or puff).
If you’re just a regular guy, without an exciting personality, popularity, or lots of money, she has to be “in the mood” to have sex with you. You, the average guy, must properly seduce her so she can be ready to have sex, whereas a rock star only has to step out of a tour bus for her pussy to instantly get wet.
Some women will have sex with a guy who already has a girlfriend in order to make that other woman jealous—or maybe she just hates that woman and wants to brag about “stealing” her boyfriend or husband with the members of her knitting group.
Some women will date an abusive man who has no sense of responsibility, no job, no money, and constantly uses street drugs. They will have sex with this man and do all sorts of favors for him. They will give him “the best years” of their lives until they get sick of him. If you ask these women if they’ll date a nice guy who is employed and will treat them with respect, they’ll decline the offer. Why? Because he’s not exciting. They can’t have sex with him because the relationship will be too boring and he’d never slap them around and show his dominance. He won’t give them stuff to complain about.
Some women will answer an ad for a porn acting gig and do all sorts of wild stuff in front of a camera. I’ll bet these same women wouldn’t have sex with me on the first date—because they don’t want me to think they’re “easy.” When I look at porn sites on the internet, and webcams, I’m amazed to see thousands upon thousands of women willing to take their clothes off and do the nastiest s~~~ one could ever imagine for one reason: MONEY.
Some women, with low self-esteems and a sexy bodies, will allow a pimp to totally exploit them for profit. They could easily hop on a bus with the money they made f~~~ing strangers and move to another city if they wanted to. No one is stopping them, yet they keep going back to their pimps and giving him the profits. Why do they do that?
I wish I could live in a world where women had sex with men for humanitarian reasons—for there are many poor souls out there (like me) who won’t get laid because of their character traits, appearance, and low social status. Since the real world sucks, I’ll continue with situations that give me the best odds for “sexcess:” casual dating, and an occasional trip to a foreign country for legal prostitution.
As far as I can tell: money and high social status seem to be the most powerful aphrodisiacs for women.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
I still get confused about a woman’s thinking process when it comes to sex.
Why are you so concerned with what it takes to have sex with whimyn?
I wish I could live in a world where women had sex with men for humanitarian reasons
Well, if you consider whimyn human, they do. But for their needs not the men’s.
Other than that, no f~~~s given.
Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.
1) To get attention.
2) To receive cash and prizes.
3) To exercise power and control over another person.
4) Self hatred and loathing.
5) Consequenceless hedonism.Believe me, they’re not in it to exchange pleasure and experience meaningful personal connection… not any more, at least. For a young woman to “catch feels” for someone is a failure and an embarrassment.
As long as a man has something that the woman wants/needs, the man is a candidate to have sex with her. Otherwise, you are invisible to her.
Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.
Anonymous43I don’t understand the need for sex. Didn’t like it when I could have it, didn’t miss it when I don’t have it.
I thought sex was necessary to keep my ex. She was just all over me all the time. OMG I was stupid.
Its nasty, gross, icky. Have you seen what she wants you to poke? Why would anyone put anything in there? Have you seen what comes out of there? Nothing good ever comes out of there, down there.yuk.
I had an interesting conversation with the owner of a mens
massage parlour one day.
She was a beautiful Cuban lady who took great pride in her business and employees,making customer service #!.
After the session we talked a bit and I asked her if she had a boyfriend now to which she replied ‘Your my boyfriend right now’.
It was then I realized here is a woman going her own way! Not being bound by societies expectations or standards.
I’ve seen this attitude a lot with the different service providers I’ve had.
Women who enjoy sex or just being with different guys and making money while doing it.
It’s something the ordinary man or woman can’t understand unless they’ve had experience in this industry.
Sure at the lower levels you have the street hookers feeding addictions often under the control of pimps and human traffickers but the overlooked area most anti-prostitution groups don’t even talk about is the high end side.
Some of the best agencies are owned and run by women.
You have Independents that advertise and get reviews on
companion sites just like a regular business.Theres a reason why this is the oldest profession.
Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!
Anonymous0Its the same idea as the first taste of meth being free.
I’m 23 and sex lost its glamour for me years ago. Too many horror stories about what it does to men and how women exploit it. I can be bothered anymore.
I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.
Anonymous3I wish I could live in a world where women had sex with men for humanitarian reasons—for there are many poor souls out there (like me) who won’t get laid because of their character traits, appearance, and low social status.
Would you sleep with a woman with poor character, below average appearance and begs in the street?
Why should she sleep with you?
1) To get attention.
2) To receive cash and prizes.
3) To exercise power and control over another person.
4) Self hatred and loathing.
5) Consequenceless hedonism.I grew up thinking that women did it for LOVE.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
Would you sleep with a woman with poor character, below average appearance and begs in the street?
She’d have to come up with a really good sales pitch.
Why should she sleep with you?
Because she’s sleeping with men who are degenerates. So she’s got nothing to lose with me.
"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)
I grew up thinking that women did it for LOVE.
Now you know better.
Don’t fret about being unable to “entice” women into having sex. Contrary to all the comforting lies the PUA pussy beggars sell, women make up their minds about having sex with you within seconds of meeting you. No “negs”, “pick up lines”, or other tricks can change that.
Women control sex, men control commitment. Remember that.
As for the act itself, you’ll soon learn that sex is a wildly overrated activity with disgusting group of people. Women are sewers and, if you aren’t faintly nauseous after rolling off one, you’ve a stronger stomach than most men.
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Anonymous11Women are sewers and, if you aren’t faintly nauseous after rolling off one,
Yet again, I thought only I had those symptoms.
I don’t really care why women have sex. It’s either to trap a guy with a baby, or they are just outright sluts. The ones I’ve been with the past decade are way more self-absorbed than about 20 and 30 years ago. That says a lot.
I’ve never had sex myself but I find the idea of it to be a f~~~ing chore. Women just laying their in bed while you do all the f~~~ing. Sex is more like trying to supersets of pushups while pounding away at a cavern. Why the f~~~ would I want to go through all that trouble? Jerking off seems easy in the end. Especially if you have a fleshlight.
Sex is one of the most overrated activities there are. Jerking off takes less effort and you don’t have to worry about “performing” or getting the c~~~ in the first place.
Anonymous1Control
One thing that has always frustrated me throughout my life is: my attempts to entice a woman to have sex with me. I’ve had more failure than success in this quest.
OK, I’m going to stop you right there. No offense, but what you just said shows your mental framework about the whole thing is entirely backwards. Women don’t need to be enticed, and sex is not a prize to be won by men and granted by women.
On the contrary, it is you, your labor, your wealth, your resources that are the real prize here, and sex is the only coin most women have to pay for it. Why else do you think it’s women who are so much more enthusiastic about marriage than men? Marriage means she has his wealth and labor locked down and no longer has to earn it with sex. Some men try to pretend that it is he who no longer has to pay for sex from her, but deep down we all know the truth.
Basically, the PUAs will tell you to be assertive, act confident, and try not to appear nervous or needy when you strike a conversation with a woman.
PUAs are full of s~~~. Indifference is the key, not silly show-off acts of confidence etc. And you don’t need to approach women. They will approach you.
Some women will have sex with a very wealthy man (not because they’re in the mood to have sex) so they can have the chance to upgrade their standard of living.
Not just some. All. And their brains are wired so that desire is all connected to them, be it desire for food or desire for wealth or desire for sex. So that wealth actually does “put them in the mood”, though it’s not actually the wealth itself that does it. It’s the knowledge that other women out there are also after that wealth, because women desire most what they think other women desire… or already have.
The usual critique of a man not being good enough for her (while sober) seems to fade away with every drink (or puff).
Because she’s already decided she wants to have sex with him. She made that decision in the first three seconds after meeting him. All the drugs have done is turned off the whorish part of her brain that was angling for material benefits as well.
If you’re just a regular guy, without an exciting personality, popularity, or lots of money, she has to be “in the mood” to have sex with you. You, the average guy, must properly seduce her so she can be ready to have sex, whereas a rock star only has to step out of a tour bus for her pussy to instantly get wet.
You’re still thinking of sex as a prize for men to win, be it through effort or through the rock star lottery ticket.
It still isn’t.
Some women will answer an ad for a porn acting gig and do all sorts of wild stuff in front of a camera. I’ll bet these same women wouldn’t have sex with me on the first date—because they don’t want me to think they’re “easy.”
That’s the other side of hypergamy. Just as hypergamy floats, it also sinks. When you attend upon a whore, you are voluntarily subjecting yourself to the “buying sex for money” business paradigm. And porn stars are whores like any other. When a porn producer is casting for a film, doubtless he is up front from the beginning about the fixed payment for various acts, and so the porn star whore readily agrees to those fees and does those acts. She does this without hesitation because she knows there are dozens of other porn star whores who will take the job, and the money, if she doesn’t.
But when you date the same woman, you are not up front with what you will pay, because you foolishly have put yourself into the position of trying to earn her love. And since she is the only women present you are courting, she doesn’t see any immediate competition for your wealth. So she withholds on you. Not because she doesn’t want to have sex with you, but because she wants to maximize the material benefits she might also stand to gain. She wants you to start bidding against yourself to gain the dubious “benefit” of sex with her. So she withholds.
They could easily hop on a bus with the money they made f~~~ing strangers and move to another city if they wanted to. No one is stopping them, yet they keep going back to their pimps and giving him the profits. Why do they do that?
Fear of abandonment. Fear of rejection.
It’s hard to overestimate just how powerful this fear is in women. Deep inside their brains is a little half evolved ape-woman who knows implicitly that without males to protect it on the expanding grasslands it’s saber tooth cat food walking. So they go back to the brutal protector they know rather than face the saber tooths they don’t. Yes, we’ve moved beyond the savannas, and the saber tooths are all long extinct, but the ape woman within doesn’t know that yet. It will take it a long time to learn it too, because behaviors that primitive learn the hard way, by evolution, and these days humanity has found it easier to change its environment than evolve itself.
I wish I could live in a world where women had sex with men for humanitarian reasons—for there are many poor souls out there (like me) who won’t get laid because of their character traits, appearance, and low social status.
And there again is another case of you thinking of sex as a gift granted to men from women. I really can’t stress enough how much that particular mental framework is f~~~ing with you.
As far as I can tell: money and high social status seem to be the most powerful aphrodisiacs for women.
Fear of rejection and the perceived desires of other women are far, far more powerful.
One thing that has always frustrated me throughout my life is: my attempts to entice a woman to have sex with me. I’ve had more failure than success in this quest.
OK, I’m going to stop you right there. No offense, but what you just said shows your mental framework about the whole thing is entirely backwards. Women don’t need to be enticed, and sex is not a prize to be won by men and granted by women.
On the contrary, it is you, your labor, your wealth, your resources that are the real prize here, and sex is the only coin most women have to pay for it. Why else do you think it’s women who are so much more enthusiastic about marriage than men? Marriage means she has his wealth and labor locked down and no longer has to earn it with sex. Some men try to pretend that it is he who no longer has to pay for sex from her, but deep down we all know the truth.
Basically, the PUAs will tell you to be assertive, act confident, and try not to appear nervous or needy when you strike a conversation with a woman.
PUAs are full of s~~~. Indifference is the key, not silly show-off acts of confidence etc. And you don’t need to approach women. They will approach you.
Some women will have sex with a very wealthy man (not because they’re in the mood to have sex) so they can have the chance to upgrade their standard of living.
Not just some. All. And their brains are wired so that desire is all connected to them, be it desire for food or desire for wealth or desire for sex. So that wealth actually does “put them in the mood”, though it’s not actually the wealth itself that does it. It’s the knowledge that other women out there are also after that wealth, because women desire most what they think other women desire… or already have.
The usual critique of a man not being good enough for her (while sober) seems to fade away with every drink (or puff).
Because she’s already decided she wants to have sex with him. She made that decision in the first three seconds after meeting him. All the drugs have done is turned off the whorish part of her brain that was angling for material benefits as well.
If you’re just a regular guy, without an exciting personality, popularity, or lots of money, she has to be “in the mood” to have sex with you. You, the average guy, must properly seduce her so she can be ready to have sex, whereas a rock star only has to step out of a tour bus for her pussy to instantly get wet.
You’re still thinking of sex as a prize for men to win, be it through effort or through the rock star lottery ticket.
It still isn’t.
Some women will answer an ad for a porn acting gig and do all sorts of wild stuff in front of a camera. I’ll bet these same women wouldn’t have sex with me on the first date—because they don’t want me to think they’re “easy.”
That’s the other side of hypergamy. Just as hypergamy floats, it also sinks. When you attend upon a whore, you are voluntarily subjecting yourself to the “buying sex for money” business paradigm. And porn stars are whores like any other. When a porn producer is casting for a film, doubtless he is up front from the beginning about the fixed payment for various acts, and so the porn star whore readily agrees to those fees and does those acts. She does this without hesitation because she knows there are dozens of other porn star whores who will take the job, and the money, if she doesn’t.
But when you date the same woman, you are not up front with what you will pay, because you foolishly have put yourself into the position of trying to earn her love. And since she is the only women present you are courting, she doesn’t see any immediate competition for your wealth. So she withholds on you. Not because she doesn’t want to have sex with you, but because she wants to maximize the material benefits she might also stand to gain. She wants you to start bidding against yourself to gain the dubious “benefit” of sex with her. So she withholds.
They could easily hop on a bus with the money they made f~~~ing strangers and move to another city if they wanted to. No one is stopping them, yet they keep going back to their pimps and giving him the profits. Why do they do that?
Fear of abandonment. Fear of rejection.
It’s hard to overestimate just how powerful this fear is in women. Deep inside their brains is a little half evolved ape-woman who knows implicitly that without males to protect it on the expanding grasslands it’s saber tooth cat food walking. So they go back to the brutal protector they know rather than face the saber tooths they don’t. Yes, we’ve moved beyond the savannas and the saber tooths are all extinct, but the ape woman within doesn’t know that yet. It will take it a long time to learn it too, because behaviors that primitive learn the hard way, by evolution, and these days humanity has found it easier to change its environment than evolve itself.
I wish I could live in a world where women had sex with men for humanitarian reasons—for there are many poor souls out there (like me) who won’t get laid because of their character traits, appearance, and low social status.
And there again is another case of you thinking of sex as a gift granted to men from women. I really can’t stress enough how much that particular mental framework is f~~~ing with you.
As far as I can tell: money and high social status seem to be the most powerful aphrodisiacs for women.
Fear of rejection and the perceived desires of other women are far, far more powerful.
Sidecar, I use to think you were a prick. Now I think your a genius. I don’t fee like reverse engineering Kentucky fried chicken right now though.
Nice
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
The most common reason trollops have sex is so they have the means to destroy men!
Don’t play in the sewers. ..
There is an excellent book based on a study as to why women have sex called, “Why Do Women Have Sex”.
The idea that they do it out of reflection of love is debunked. The idea that they do it out of a desire for men’s bodies is also way down on their list. Most women actually find women more sexually desire. The main reasons listed is that it is a way to gain some advantage over men and get what they want. The main reason they list is, “To keep peace in the household” also high on the list is a way to get back at a male partner (revenge sex) or a way to show superiority over another woman by stealing her man.- AuthorPosts
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