The more I go my own way the more people bother me.

[Anonymous 54]

I need very little human contact.I love, need lots of solitude.
I need small talk with no one.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Ghosting is both a blessing and a curse and you have to find a balance to properly pull it off. If you completely cut yourself off people are going to notice the drastic change and try to poke their nose into your life. You have to do it gradually over time so they don’t notice that it is happening to them. Continue to make small talk with co workers and slowly close the tap until it is only dripping droplets of water.

Eventually they will get the hint and start leaving you alone for the most part but as you continue to do good work it will get noticed and people will become jealous of you while your boss will appreciate you more. Be very careful of those around you they will try to screw with you because they will start to see you as a threat. That is when you close the tap completely and give them nothing just one word answers if possible. They will push your buttons on purpose you just tell them you are here to work and be professional and you refuse to further get into it with them.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

Virgil wrote:

Cataphract wrote:

Nothing quite like being perceived as having a low SMV to keep the women from bugging you.

Can attest to this one. I have to occasionally wear a yellow reflective vest for work. I don’t always take it off when I leave, but noticed something interesting about it. It makes you invisible to the female population. Believe I have heard it said before as “the best place to hide is in plain sight”. You want to be left alone, wear one of them. Best I can figure is that it has some property… that makes it both visible and invisible at once….

Unless they are seeking some ‘rough trade’ or they are unusually handsome, women will ignore the working-class guys since as far as they are concerned, fluro-collar guys are beneath them.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Cataphract wrote:

women will ignore the working-class guys since as far as they are concerned, fluro-collar guys are beneath them.

They have film from the 50’s and 60’s of women lusting over men who work construction as well as admiration, wow have times changed.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

This is an interesting topic.

I personally approach interactions with women a little differently.

I am around feminists and manginas constantly.
I have to listen to them and interact with them in a way that shows empathy, kindness, and respect.
It’s like walking on eggshells. Most people would never guess I’m MGTOW.

Away from work, I value highly time alone.
Away from work, I still interact with women on occasion, but the interactions are light-hearted and superficial. I don’t seek women out, but I don’t go out of my way to avoid them. They simply don’t exist in my world. Indifference.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Rhino wrote:

They will push your buttons on purpose you just tell them you are here to work and be professional and you refuse to further get into it with them.

this is absolutely true and that’s what I was trying to say but you said it better.

“pushing of buttons” is the hallmark of jealousy…it’s like a s~~~ test. It’s best to be strong, steadfast, and only become aggressive if the other party becomes aggressive. Let them know you want to be left alone but will call their bluff if they charge.

God bless peace and freedom.

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