The more I go my own way the more people bother me.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Tic wrote:

You rule your own domain without interference…your domain is your life. It’s very difficult for those who can’t live that life for whatever reason, to grasp that…In fact, I believe it brings out feelings of jealousy in others.

You owe them nothing.

Keep picturing all the men in history who were just like that and contributed to science, technology, mathematics, the arts, etc. You go your own way, and find excellence.

F~~~ them.

You’re right Tic just sometimes with a bad week I blow a gasket because I want to left alone to live my life. I guess I have to continue on like a quote said on this site before “treat them like trashcans on the street, avoid them, walk around them.”

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RennieParticipant]

A man by himself and minding his own business, seems to get noticed.

Almost like he’s considered suspicious, or questionable, because he’s not being escorted by a c~~~.

[TicParticipant 4329]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

You’re right Tic just sometimes with a bad week I blow a gasket because I want to left alone to live my life. I guess I have to continue on like a quote said on this site before “treat them like trashcans on the street, avoid them, walk around them.”

believe me, I understand. I’ve experienced this MANY times. I tell you, there’s no real solution to this unless you go and live alone in the mountains and avoid people all together. So, for most of us, we just have to deal with it the best we can.

God bless peace and freedom.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

A psychologist asked me to describe myself in one word.

I told her sardonic. Misanthrope.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Big BossParticipant 4496]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

For example I went into a shoe store to look for a pair to match a outfit for an outing this weekend when some c~~~ clerk ask me if I need some help, I said i’m fine and proceeded to search for some shoes. Three minutes later same c~~~ comes to ask the same question like my first response was not excepting which forced me to be rude to her so I can shop in peace.

That’s employee training and customer service policy. They don’t do that s~~~ and it seems like they don’t f~~~ing care. Imagine you sitting in a restaurant and you get yourself served a plate and the waitress doesn’t come back. Because you got your s~~~, what the hell man? Is she supposed to bug you for a refill or check what else you need?

YES. YES, THAT’S THEIR JOB.

*facepalm*

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Big Boss wrote:

That’s employee training and customer service policy. They don’t do that s~~~ and it seems like they don’t f~~~ing care. Imagine you sitting in a restaurant and you get yourself served a plate and the waitress doesn’t come back. Because you got your s~~~, what the hell man? Is she supposed to bug you for a refill or check what else you need?

YES. YES, THAT’S THEIR JOB.

*facepalm*

If read the post the first time she asked I said I was fine, now using your example how would you feel if a waiter came to you after your order every 5 minutes asking you if you need anything? Polite becomes annoying when done continuously. Also by the way I was at a shoe store so helping me with a personal taste in shoes is like a man helping a women shop for purses. Their job is to greet customers (understood), but to ask the same questions 5 minutes later is annoying. You have your opinions and I have mine.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 5]

For me I don’t look people in the eyes I’m always looking down at the ground . They think it’s strange but I’m shy I’ve always have a frown on my face walking around stores I also like being left alone I’m down in my basement playing games .I love solitude nobody gets it they think I’m weird .

[KeymasterKeymaster]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Sorry for the rant but do any of you guys have this same problem or maybe its just the city I live in.

It’s not geography.

This topic is perfect timing. I just came from a lunch and some post-wall “actress” with a tight white top and enormous cans let her “script” accidentally blow in our direction. The guy I was with knows me WELL and he was trying not to laugh…. while I was trying not to hurl at the sight of botched lip liner that was painted on like a clown. She just wouldn’t SHUT THE F~~~ UP.

“So what do you guys do?”

Oh no you dzi-ent.

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

small talk

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

The more I go my own way the more people bother me.

They like to fill the air around them with small talk, because unless they do, peace and quiet feels empty. This hits you like a bulldozer when the red-pill digests, and I am also VERY sensitive to “filler noise”. It’s like your senses are more acute and you can hear a mouse fart from a mile away . . . . while they are deaf mutes who can’t even hear themselves.

Just like learning a new word.
All of a sudden, it’s EVERYWHERE.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[bladeParticipant]

Look at it as free humor/entertainment picture them with humor

The world has become a joke

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MGTOW MonkParticipant 117]

You have to learn to wear the “mask of conformity”. Smile, talk like them and don’t show you’re true feelings or it may impact your work relationships. It sounds like work but run the circuit with the normal talk: movies, TV shows and news that isn’t political or religion and you’ll be fine. View yourself as a wolf wearing sheeps’ clothing, because voicing MGGTOW views will be looked upon with disdain at workplaces right now.

A Lion keeps no den. Becuase the Savanna, and all the space within it, all that walks and crawls upon it, belongs to him.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Well fellas my two pennies worth. I think stealth mode is very valuable; perhaps essential because women are vindictive and if they know you are on to their game you put a big target on your back.

That said. I try to be polite and friendly in public. I’ve always been shy by nature, but as humans we are social animals at our core. So I try to smile and be decent. I’m thinking down the line I may get involved in a service organization like my dad did in his later years. It will provide social interaction and allow me to give back to the community and contribute. Even as MGTOW I think we need to find a balance of social interaction to maintain good mental health. Complete isolation is destructive. Ideally MGTOW would be able to share our identities more freely and be able to meet up in person; but that’s not viable for most of us.

[CataphractParticipant 2656]

Nothing quite like being perceived as having a low SMV to keep the women from bugging you.

Marriage: About as appealing as wood-chipper diving.

[Heave-Ho MgtowParticipant 1797]

I’m a heartless mother to weemins at work. I analyze their speech and talk to them like I’m talking to an opposing attourney. Direct. Consise. NFG.

skip the cavernous vag and go your own way

[Anonymous 5]

Bro the same s~~~ is happening to me. It’s getting creepy. Ladies f~~~ off forever am serious. Am good with my money porn and video games. Oh and my cool brothers on mgtow. Point is that the ‘sense’ you found yourself and won’t bow down to b.s. I have no idea why am a rude dick to them even ruder to the pretty ones. At work am a stealth bomer.

[VirgilParticipant 970]

Cataphract wrote:

Nothing quite like being perceived as having a low SMV to keep the women from bugging you.

Can attest to this one. I have to occasionally wear a yellow reflective vest for work. I don’t always take it off when I leave, but noticed something interesting about it. It makes you invisible to the female population. Believe I have heard it said before as “the best place to hide is in plain sight”. You want to be left alone, wear one of them. Best I can figure is that it has some property… that makes it both visible and invisible at once….

Hope that someday I may lead others the path I have learned. As Virgil led Dante through Hell.

[Anonymous 1]

Great topic. I repaired a light fixture for a woman everyone would do anything for her attention. I was in and out in less then 7 minutes. 5 wire nuts 2 light bulbs, bang zoom I was gone. Or was I? Nope she asked who I was. Boss and coworkers asking about what I did. I failed at Ghosting. Life is dynamic, There is always more than one answer to each question.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22556]

I believe the feelings of most of those men on this thread can be summed up.

After becoming MGTOW you find you no longer have the tolerance to suffer for fools.

[FreedomParticipant 295]

Humans need conversation in order to maintain mental health. Solitary confinement is a punishment, widely considered to be torture, for a reason.

All humans are motivated to converse, and they expect that everyone they see is as well. And most of the time, they are right. So, when they see you, they will often converse with you, simply because that is part of the basic template of a human being.

I don’t see what the big deal is. I can be polite when I must, and go home to solitude as much as I need. When I feel inclined to talk, I have a few good friends. This isn’t working for you guys?

It is wise to fear dangerous commitments.

[Buff MinorcanParticipant 83]

It’s a double edged sword. I think my independence and ability to go my own way attracts people to me. They want what I have or are curious as to how I seem to be a happy person yet I don’t participate in the hive mind mentality of drudge thru 9-5 type jobs, have a wife, have kids, go to church, etc.

I’ve yet to meet a person I’ve attempted to explain it to that has understood and made a change.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Freedom wrote:

Humans need conversation in order to maintain mental health.

That’s very subjective, try telling that to Nikola Tesla or men like him. Ive heard saying’s that solitude is a mans best friend (before dogs) so if conversation achieves mental health where does that leave solitude? I think society has changed and people have other outlets to communicate, MGTOW.com for example as well as different social media’s so the need for person to person human interaction is not that necessary. When you see people with earbuds in their ears, yes they listen to music, but some use them as a buffer to eliminate human interaction. I just dont think the need to interact with strangers all the time is necessary anymore. Just my 2 cents.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

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