The joy of being alone

[Anonymous 54]

FuckMe wrote:

Great thread…Key Master said it well…temporary pleasures only. Here is the thing about me and I know many of you can relate. The Blue Pill World is like being in a psych ward or something…society, Hollywood, your family, your co workers, your friends, everyone tells you that in order to be happy you need a woman, then you start believing them, then it gets dangerous. So, you do what any good man does, you pursue them, you go out and “get them” to be with you and if your an ignorant, spineless, brainwashed, SIMP, White Knight, Beta Male, Mangina, Coward you bow down to them and then they MAY stay with you for a while. If you get out of step then the Blue Pill Hell comes on in full force and you start to realize you are in another dimension, the world of the female mind where logic, reason, and sanity cease to exist. What happens next is just pure pain and suffering, you realize your bored and the Magic Golden Vagina Pussy Smell starts to smell the same every time and doesn’t quite get your rocks off like it did initially. You wake up one day and realize YOU are in what you want to call a RUT but is actually the beginning of the end, the end of your clear thinking, freedom, and life. One day you go to the mirror as you comb your hair for work and you realize THIS is it, THIS is my life, THIS is all of my life, THIS is a prison, THIS is painful, THIS is where I should think about shooting myself in the head, or throwing myself off a bridge, or overdosing. You start to wonder if there is a way out, legally, morally, physically, spiritually, financially…and you come up with a plan. The ones who make it out alive are strong, brave, courageous men…worthy of the MGTOW name, the ones who stay in Blue Pill Hell, well their lives are essentially over and they have signed their own death certificate. I have never married a Caucasian American woman and you men who did and lived to tell the story…quite frankly I do NOT know how you did it at all…you got big old b~~~~ full of grit and sand, and you are truly an inspiration. I owe MGTOW so much, now when I walk down the street, like I did today, people move out of my way, I hold my head high and am proud to be alone, and I see prisoners who are depressed, lonely, disconnected, scared, disenfranchised, in debt, confused, and more lonely than I am all around me. I am no idiot, I know happy people when I see them and I know when people are acting and putting on a good show…most of them are just mimicking Hollywood and what they see there. Have a great day and thank you!!! Bubba Zanetti & The Toe Cutter

Yes Bubba Zanetti !!!! Young dudes read his post. Save yourself from living thru this hell.

[Anonymous 54]

Uintatherium wrote:

Spending time alone is okay but you will eventually desire brotherhood.

I’m an introvert for the most part but I still have nerdbroz who I visit twice a week.

Oh yea! I was just refering to not being atatched to a female.I dig hanging with my biker buddys and the young dudes i work with. Its all about the laughter and havin each others backs. The Brotherhood i have found here is extraordinary!!!! Mgtow Brothers from all walks of life!!!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

@Keymaster, one foul word or one dirty look and you walk? A zero tolerance policy?

From women in a relationship or living with me? You better believe it.

Any kind of abrasive, competitive, un-loving , bitchy attitude (like that Campbell’s soup commercial c~~~) — or what you see in TV commercials and sitcom wives — absolutely not…. where she’s not even “friendly”. That’s what I’m talking about.

In every day life, scouls, sparring , jabs, & cutting remarks … I don’t even take women seriously enough to bother with that, and jousting can be fun! But women are for f~~~ing, not competing with in a personal relationship.

I just have NO interest in that.

“I’m a quiet living man…….
Who prefers to spend the evening in the silence of his room.
With an atmosphere as restful as an undiscovered tomb.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MoonlightParticipant 223]

I’ve grown up in the boonies and was raised by a single mother who worked overtime, so being alone is natural for me. I’m so used to it that I wouldn’t have it any other way.

Both men and women I know who identify me as single think that I get lonely but they just don’t understand that it’s an emotion that I almost never feel. I’ve personally met men who are married and yet feel really lonely because their wives neglect them and won’t allow them to hang out with their guy friends.

The only time I’ve felt lonely was when my high school friends all got into serious relationships. They completely lost interest in hanging out with me and spent almost all of their time with their girlfriends. They’re all married now and we still don’t get to hang out but I’ve adapted over the years so it doesn’t phase me anymore.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Anonymous wrote:

Im am just so happy to be free. To be myself. For myself.

I couldn’t have said it better brother..I am in the same boat here…Learning to be free, Learning to do everything just for MYSELF is such an invigorating feeling, it truly is the only way to live…

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Keymaster wrote:

“I’m a quiet living man…….
Who prefers to spend the evening in the silence of his room.
With an atmosphere as restful as an undiscovered tomb.”

Not really a good example. The moral of that story was, as taxing as women could be, men are happier with them around.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

There have been a lot of times when i was in a relationship when i wished i werent.

Better to be single than wish you were.

Women have a real power to make you miserable.

What woman ever thinks
“I want him to be better off after we break up than before we met” ????

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

I have been living on my own, alone, since July 2015.

It was a few weeks after my separation that I joined this community and wrote that very cathartic introduction to the forum. What in the beginning was a long winding road full of doubts and second guessing what would become of me, eventually turned into a very peaceful existence. I go to work, come back home and play with my cat, work on my dissertation/other academic responsibilities, play video games all I want, sometimes exercise, etc…

When I was married, I still did pretty much whatever I wanted, and my ex-wife let me, but some things would bother her sometimes… and she would tell me. There were always things she wanted to change about me and would tell me that with other women I would not be able to get away with half of the things that she lets me get away with. And you know what? She was so right! As far as women go, she wasn’t that bad. But she had other issues that I have already shared here that made life with her tough.

I suffered without her. It was painful for the first few months. On Friday, two days ago, I was playing Dark Souls 3 until 1 AM in the morning with a six pack of this beauty:

And I said to myself: I feel the joy and energy of when I was twenty, but I am 31… and I’m not poor!

Life is beautiful these days gents. But it takes time to de-brain wash oneself and realize that life, in more than one way, its meant to be lived alone. Not all men are capable, though. Indoctrination is very powerful. But those of us that have chosen MGTOW certainly can. To me, living alone without seeking pussy or female companionship after the trauma of divorce is something that makes feel me proud of myself. Not all men are strong, sadly, and that’s nature. Some of us are more fit to lead a life like this; some are not.

Cheers to being alone!

And now, back to work on that goddamn dissertation!

[Anonymous 54]

Such eloquence Mgtow Brothers! This represents the postive aspects of going your own way. Happieness. Joy of life. The love of precious oh so very precious …FREEDOM !!

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Not really a good example. The moral of that story was, as taxing as women could be, men are happier with them around.

No it wasn’t. It’s “Taming of the Shrew” centuries after Shakespeare.

“Alone” is pretty great place to be when the alternative is to be with a shrew.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 22]

Blue Skies wrote:

what women don’t understand is that you don’t have to feel lonely when you’re alone.

Like de Niro in the movie “Heat” says to the young woman; ‘I’m alone, I am not.. lonely’

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

I enjoy peace and quiet too much. So many men I know go home to arguing, screaming, nagging and not a single second of peace.

I get to go home, enjoy my music collection, read, jump on the web or just go to sleep when I want.

I don’t need to ask permission, my parents are dead and I am an adult.

I don’t have a curfew. If that particular bar is having steak night, for example, I can go if I feel like it to enjoy a fine example of “rustic country fine dining”.

Other men have to watch the clock, if they are let out at all, and worry about her nagging them about “that old honkey-tonk bar”.

I stay as long as I want and can go home, relax and enjoy freedom.

If I have company with me to dine or over at my home, when and who is totally at my discretion.

A very civilized way to live. Part of why I resent comments from Tradcons and Tradcucks about the need for a woman to “civilize” me.

I don’t want the work of civilizing her.

Frank V.

PS: My comment about “country” bars and places like this are not mockery. These days I dislike terms like “hick”, “Redneck”. I don’t care if I grew up in a large city, if “county” people treat me right then I should return the favor. So many other urban dwellers look down their noses at others it really is embarrassing. “Country” and “peasant” stock invented fine dining by laying the basis for modern cuisine. If a “honky-tonk” accommodates me with a nice table, wifi and great food, why put on a suit and pay more for snob appeal ?

[Frank V.Participant 2445]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

“I’m a quiet living man…….
Who prefers to spend the evening in the silence of his room.
With an atmosphere as restful as an undiscovered tomb.”

Not really a good example. The moral of that story was, as taxing as women could be, men are happier with them around.

Even if I was fond of a particular woman’s company, I am happy to have her come over as I am happy for her to leave.

What you say is true for some men, that they are happier with them around.

But for me, it is in limited doses.

Frank V.

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