The joy of being alone

[Anonymous 54]

When i read on hear about womens evil,lack of accountability,manipultive nature,disrespect for Men,there lack of gratitude,there over inflated value of them selves,or remembering my own damn past,i allways come back to one place…Well at least i am alone. I dont have one of thoses damn things in my personal life. I come and go as i please. Drive what i want. Wear what i want. Do what pleases ME.I dont have to listen to endless bable. No empowerment to have to admire. No stupid feminst tv crap. Im am just so happy to be free. To be myself. For myself. I can just block the f~~~ing c~~~s out. Happyness. Joy. Peace. Fullfilment.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

what women don’t understand is that you don’t have to feel lonely when you’re alone.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[WallyParticipant]

What you described is true freedom.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[WallstreetParticipant 63]

It is with women where I don’t feel authentic. Its the demands and expectations they and society place upon me. Without those things, you can be an authentic man.

[hmskl’dParticipant 6409]

The funny thing is that when I’m sitting directly across the table from a woman listening to her talk .. I sometimes still feel very much alone. I prefer quiet.

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

I have finally found true happiness through loneliness and freedom. However, I’m still not happy due to financial reasons. Literally the ONLY thing missing from my life is money, but I’m pretty sure I have everything else figured out and know how to live a happy and satisfying life from this point on. All I need is the money and then everything else will fall into place.

So many others have money but are still miserable as s~~~ because they work 70 hour weeks, then go home to a fat nagging wife and screaming children. They don’t even have time to sit down and play a video game or watch a movie because someone is relying on them for something. Makes me cringe.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Never forget Robin Williams’ words on being alone.
They are 100% how relations~~~s will make you feel …

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[Anonymous 0]

+1
Couldn’t have said it better, Old Sage

[BrujahParticipant 579]

It’s an innate weakness. I have seen my share of women who cannot be unattached for even a day. They always have a backup waiting. Joy for all of us, to never ever be in that position, or in danger of being there.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

I admit, sometimes it would be nice having a FWB around, but I’m starting to love my fleshlight more than even the idea of that. I get to control the situation without even having to go out of my place.

Having solitude in my life is one of the most amazing things I could ever bring to myself in this f~~~ed up world.

I hate being around people most people. Most are just mindless drones that are programmed to worship the blue pill world.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

This is a great response, MOWsince95.

[UintatheriumParticipant 1861]

Spending time alone is okay but you will eventually desire brotherhood.

I’m an introvert for the most part but I still have nerdbroz who I visit twice a week.

MGTOW: because you can (and should) say anything about a woman as long as she isn't within earshot

[KeymasterKeymaster]

When I was 32, I remember saying “f~~~ this s~~~, I’m done”. I remember the weather in that moment (overcast), what direction I was facing (North), and even what I was wearing (a dark grey coat).

Then, curiously over the next few years, my options started opening, and women seemed to be more interested in me than ever before! I dated and had sex (a few one night stands, plenty short flings which were very enjoyable in most cases) but only 2 real “girlfriends” that lasted more than a year.

When I was 35, I gave it a real shot.

I blamed myself for it not working with others before her, and pretended to have amnesia about everything I learned, and approached it with ALL MY CONVICTION “for better or worse”… and I put up with s~~~ I would have never previously, because I thought – maybe – it was me, and I didn’t put enough effort in.

Hoy boy was I wrong. It wasn’t “me” after all.

I remember finishing work and driving home and feeling like I had to go and work another shift now. After 9 hours of making my boss happy, I was going home again to to the job of making someone else “happy”… who actually refused to BE happy. She couldn’t even be content. I could have pulled stunts out of my ass like Johnny Magic and the Wicked Awesome, and she preferred to complain all the time.

Moved far away for work on my own, and when the transition was complete, I came home to an empty place and PUNCHED THE AIR AROUND ME – I was so glad. It felt great!

I still dated, had sex and short term girlfriends, and mostly because I still thought there was something missing. But within 2 weeks, I couldn’t wait to be rid of them again. I decided women were annoying as hell, and I didn’t want them living with me under any circumstances.

Temporary pleasures only.

Living alone is awesome. And I often reflect on that Robbin Williams quote (above).

“For better or worse?”
F~~~ “WORSE”. For better or even better… or GET OUT.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

I’m kinda split down the middle.
On one hand there’s the utter misery of being together, and on the other hand there’s the peace and joy of being alone. I really cant decide which one motivates me more????

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

I’m kinda split down the middle. On one hand there’s the utter misery of being together, and on the other hand there’s the peace and joy of being alone. I really cant decide which one motivates me more????

Perhaps I can suggest something which will make it easy….

Chris Rock once said “Married and bored, or single and lonely”.
He also said “If you haven’t contemplated murder, you ain’t been in love”.

I often wrestle with your thought as well, but I also know we are socialized to think that. Enough experience gave me the answer. But that’s only “my” answer. I imagine it’s different for everyone. I didn’t have many bad experiences either. I can’t even imagine tolerating a nightmare or some “abusive” relationships we hear tell about. I just don’t have any tolerance for any fragment of hostility.

If she’s not a warm blanket with feminine radiance, I’m out.

Here’s how I look at it…..

I’m “available”. Am I interested? Not usually, but perhaps I could be. It would really depend on HER. So I have set 3 basic and minimal things that I expect from every woman (and friend) in my life – which ask virtually nothing from them:

1. Respect my time and my property. You don’t have to respect “me” (I will earn that myself) but don’t toy with my time, scratch my car, criticize my clothes or taste in music … and if you break something, replace it at once.

2. I gotta be having FUN – ALL the time. I can be a good friend when times are tough, but I gotta be having fun. Don’t be a drag to spend time with.

3. Be direct. You want something or have a problem? Come out with it directly. I’m not interested in being a mind reader.

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These terms and conditions don’t ask anything from her. They take NO effort. And when I present them to a female, they actually agree and welcome the deal! But very quickly, a woman will break all 3 each and every f~~~ing time.

So I don’t need to make up my mind about it.
They make it up for me.

I live alone to maintain these basic minimum in standards in my domicile and personal life. NO woman will EVER have permission to lower them under any circumstances. No matter how low you lower the floor of expectation for women….. you can ALWAYS count on her to fall BELOW it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Living alone is so wonderful that sometimes I’m afraid that it’ll end, without a rational reason.
Then I realize it’s impossible it’ll end, because it depends from me, just only from me, and I relax 🙂

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[FuckMeSpectator 215]

Great thread…Key Master said it well…temporary pleasures only. Here is the thing about me and I know many of you can relate. The Blue Pill World is like being in a psych ward or something…society, Hollywood, your family, your co workers, your friends, everyone tells you that in order to be happy you need a woman, then you start believing them, then it gets dangerous. So, you do what any good man does, you pursue them, you go out and “get them” to be with you and if your an ignorant, spineless, brainwashed, SIMP, White Knight, Beta Male, Mangina, Coward you bow down to them and then they MAY stay with you for a while. If you get out of step then the Blue Pill Hell comes on in full force and you start to realize you are in another dimension, the world of the female mind where logic, reason, and sanity cease to exist. What happens next is just pure pain and suffering, you realize your bored and the Magic Golden Vagina Pussy Smell starts to smell the same every time and doesn’t quite get your rocks off like it did initially. You wake up one day and realize YOU are in what you want to call a RUT but is actually the beginning of the end, the end of your clear thinking, freedom, and life. One day you go to the mirror as you comb your hair for work and you realize THIS is it, THIS is my life, THIS is all of my life, THIS is a prison, THIS is painful, THIS is where I should think about shooting myself in the head, or throwing myself off a bridge, or overdosing. You start to wonder if there is a way out, legally, morally, physically, spiritually, financially…and you come up with a plan. The ones who make it out alive are strong, brave, courageous men…worthy of the MGTOW name, the ones who stay in Blue Pill Hell, well their lives are essentially over and they have signed their own death certificate. I have never married a Caucasian American woman and you men who did and lived to tell the story…quite frankly I do NOT know how you did it at all…you got big old b~~~~ full of grit and sand, and you are truly an inspiration. I owe MGTOW so much, now when I walk down the street, like I did today, people move out of my way, I hold my head high and am proud to be alone, and I see prisoners who are depressed, lonely, disconnected, scared, disenfranchised, in debt, confused, and more lonely than I am all around me. I am no idiot, I know happy people when I see them and I know when people are acting and putting on a good show…most of them are just mimicking Hollywood and what they see there. Have a great day and thank you!!! Bubba Zanetti & The Toe Cutter

You think Chernobyl was bad? Wait until the ink drys on that marriage contract you just signed...we know, you just wanted sex and fun...you could have gotten that for $100.00 a couple times a month instead of DESTROYING your life!!!

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Up until three years ago, I had been in a relationship of one sort or another since I was 13 years old (I’m 53 now). I thought I had to be with a woman to be happy. And yet, here I am, three years without dating and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I mean, truly happy.

That’s not to say it did not take time to relax into the solitude, to be completely content with it, because it took at least two years for that to happen. Unlearning a lifetime of programming does not happen overnight.

I still have all of my friends for company, both male and a few distant females. But every time a new woman approaches me and starts getting flirty, I shut her down quickly and without remorse.

Because a quiet, stress-free home is a gift in this otherwise noisy world. Give yourself time to acclimate to it. The rewards will be worth it.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9553]

I may have to live with my dad until I get back on track, but I’m like 95% alone anyway, and I like it. I get to do and say whatever I want, and not always having to answer to anyone. Some day when I get my own home filled with my Man Cave décor and electronic games and pinball machines, I get to enjoy it all, and maybe even invite the guys over for some Friday night fun.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

tolerance for any fragment of hostility.

@Keymaster, one foul word or one dirty look and you walk? A zero tolerance policy?

I have no tolerance for a person with spiritual distemper. I carry several positive charges, I s~~~ double ++, fastest way to loose a positive charge is to a negative psychological disorder, and that covers just about all modern women…

FuckMe wrote:

You wake up one day and realize YOU are in what you want to call a RUT but is actually the beginning of the end, the end of your clear thinking, freedom, and life.

@Bubba, EVERY girlfriend I ever had gave me those vibes! and WORSE!

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