The horrors of divorce court

[Silver FoxParticipant 2766]

This should be enough to scare any man away from marriage.

"Are you loosed from a wife? Do not seek a wife." --Apostle Paul

[Ain’t No RomeoParticipant 119]

It’s very true.

I watched Divorce Corp, and I’ve been divorced, twice.

It’s accurate, and frankly my story is worse than the typical.

Never again.

I’ve seen countless auto accidents, watched several people die, even seen a guy blow his brains out in front of me… and it’s my time in family court is what gives me night sweats and terror attacks.

I have off-the-chart PTSD from having my children ripped away, moved to another state and renamed, selling all my assets, being falsely proclaimed a child abuser, and losing my whole identity.

Never again.

No marriage, no children, no corrupt Goddamn Family Court.

[Elric GreenstoneParticipant 1637]

My ex-girlfriend (of seven years) is a divorce / Schultzstaffel “family law” attorney. She works for a very small firm – all women – who almost entirely represent women. A more misandric group of shrews I have never, ever met. Awful, terrible human beings who took great delight in screwing over the men they were fighting in court; cheerfully counselled and encouraged false domestic abuse allegations to win custody and other battles; plied every dirty trick and nasty gambit possible to win these fights against fairly normal guys mostly blindsided by the process and by their wives going feral.

In the last two years of my relationship with my ex-, she would come home, pop off a few drinks, and tell me about her day. I would listen, transfixed. I listened to these stories for perhaps two years, because I was an idiot.

She broke up with me shortly before I was about to break up with her, as I had become quite convinced that she was either demonically possessed or had literally sold her soul. Needless to say, of course, she took me for every cent I had. We weren’t married. My attorney was familiar with her law firm if not with her, and counselled just signing everything over so that she wouldn’t get the clever notion of pursuing alimony.

I continued to pay off her credit cards and random idiot expenditures of hers after our breakup and my relocation to a small studio apartment until the day she was married (to a poor schmuck not me), which my attorney said was ‘touching base’ in terms of being able to cut all ties.

She had been cheating on me with poor-schmuck-not-me, and I held quite a grudge for a rather long time, until she called me one day because she had driven him to a nervous breakdown. At that point I realized how close my escape had been.

I then continued dating another twelve years after this, because I could not break myself of the belief, inculcated since childhood, that I had some soulmateprincessunicorn somewhere and just had bad luck.

No, divorce courts are terrible, and female divorce lawyers are f~~~ing evil. I’ve known a few good family law attorneys, but very few. One is a chum of mine whose specialty is mediation for ultra-rich clients. He’s a reasonably good fellow.

The other. who I know less well, was f~~~ed in his own divorce, lost his kids, and was so p~~~ed off he went to law school just to become a men-only divorce attorney. Once he passed the bar, he made f~~~ing his wife over with legal actions his hobby. I don’t know him well, really just a passing acquaintance, but his eyes burn like few men I have known. I hope to one day have a vocation where I am so completely committed to what I do. I don’t even know this bloke’s last name (a bare acquaintance), but he left an impression on me that remains to this day. Now, everything he said makes sense. At the time, when I was living in blue pill land, I thought he was slightly nuts.

"You can either love women, or understand women. You can't do both. Because once you understand women, you realize that there is really nothing to love."

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