The hive is tracking me down…

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

So, I ghosted my ex after we split. Wow, 8 Months have flown by.

Since we were together I’ve moved house and now work in a different place. Only my immediate family know where I am.

We ‘shared’ a similar peer group as we met at university…but over the past few weeks they’ve been probing deeper and deeper into my whereabouts and current situation.

I’ve refused to answer any direct questions but now have a mutual friend who wants to send me something in the post. She’s JUST got married and I’m ASSUMING it’s a thank you note for the generous monetary gift I sent instead of attending.

All well and good until you realise this friend is Cupcakes ‘partner in crime’… and has been for the last 8 years.

As you can understand, I’d rather NOT disclose my location.

Any advice?

Edit: I should add, she’s sent me plenty of stuff in the past. Traditional mail is kind of her thing. Invitations, freebies from her business etc.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

Get a po box

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Nags4Cash wrote:

Get a po box

Ah yes! Of Course!

Thanks mate. Simple!

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Verbal thanks are enough.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Verbal thanks are enough.

As is a hearty “Congratulations!” instead of cash.

Seriously, @arcturis, why would you send money to your ex’s “partner in crime”, especially for something like a wedding? She’ll have hubby’s cash (and house etc.) soon enough.

And if she’s your ex’s “partner in crime”, why haven’t you just cut her the f~~~ off?

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Verbal thanks are enough.

sidecar wrote:

And if she’s your ex’s “partner in crime”, why haven’t you just cut her the f~~~ off?

You’re right mate. I was trying to keep it civilised…

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[Anonymous 43]

You sent money to a wedding you did not attend? Why did you do that?!? Do not do that again. A $2.00 card with congratulations is spending $3 too much.

I might send a candy dish from goodwill if I was feeling generous.

[Anonymous 7]

Have her send it to a trusted family member, sibling, parent etc.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

So you haven’t had much if any contact with these people for the last 8 months. And during those 8 months your life has gotten infinitely better. Now that you are clearly on a better path these people want back into your life. You sent a heart-felt gift to someone that is now trying to use that generous gesture to extract information from you that your ex can somehow use against you to make your life miserable again. Did I miss anything?

S~~~ brother, is one IS a tough one.

Order the good wine

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Arcturis wrote:

I was trying to keep it civilised…

That’s not being civilized.

It’s being a chump.

There are civilized ways of telling a bitch, or a bitch’s best friend, you’re done with her.

: “Given your past and current relationship with my ex, I don’t think it’s appropriate for us to have any contact going forward. Good luck with the rest of your life. I wish you all the best. Goodbye.”

[ArcturisParticipant 2819]

TaxGuy wrote:

S~~~ brother, is one IS a tough one.

sidecar wrote:

That’s not being civilized.

It’s being a chump.

Anonymous wrote:

A $2.00 card with congratulations is spending $3 too much.

Cheers lads, think I needed this.

Protect Your Sovereignty. Women WILL TRY To Manipulate You. #NOCONTACT #ICETHEMOUT

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Nags4Cash wrote:

Get a po box

What he said. Also watch your mirrors when you pick it up. Resourceful or desperate cupcakes can easily figure out which post office you visit with the right numbered box. Then it’s just a matter of tailing you or doing some canvassing. I would get a PO box that you have to go out of your way to visit.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[Anonymous 11]

Ghost means ghost. The ones you ghost can’t stand it.

“It’s a trap!”

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

You also don’t usually have to rent Post Office boxes for long periods of time, and for even one time, the price is not likely to be too expensive. Sometimes the Post Office is open 24/7 so you can check the box in the wee hours of the morning when they would not likely be watching for you.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Being cheap is woman repellent. They’re sniffing around for a wallet, free dinners, free labor and your soul. Be cheap with all that. Dine dutch, 99 cent gifts, fubar everything you fix, and play your cards close to your vest.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Arcturis wrote:

the generous monetary gift I sent instead of attending.

Say what? You are kidding right? You f~~~ed up so just move on and ghost..

Get a vasectomy.

[MonkParticipant 17026]

Arcturis wrote:

We ‘shared’ a similar peer group as we met at university…but over the past few weeks they’ve been probing deeper and deeper into my whereabouts and current situation.

Setup.

Reverse monkey branch in progress.

I was trying to keep it civilised …

Dump them all.

No need to be nasty about it. Just fade away.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22543]

Arcturis wrote:

So, I ghosted my ex after we split. Wow, 8 Months have flown by.

Since we were together I’ve moved house and now work in a different place. Only my immediate family know where I am.

We ‘shared’ a similar peer group as we met at university…but over the past few weeks they’ve been probing deeper and deeper into my whereabouts and current situation.

I’ve refused to answer any direct questions but now have a mutual friend who wants to send me something in the post. She’s JUST got married and I’m ASSUMING it’s a thank you note for the generous monetary gift I sent instead of attending.

All well and good until you realise this friend is Cupcakes ‘partner in crime’… and has been for the last 8 years.

As you can understand, I’d rather NOT disclose my location.

Any advice?

Edit: I should add, she’s sent me plenty of stuff in the past. Traditional mail is kind of her thing. Invitations, freebies from her business etc.

Have her send it to your work address.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22543]

JustAnotherGuy wrote:

Nags4Cash wrote:

Get a po box

What he said. Also watch your mirrors when you pick it up. Resourceful or desperate cupcakes can easily figure out which post office you visit with the right numbered box. Then it’s just a matter of tailing you or doing some canvassing. I would get a PO box that you have to go out of your way to visit.

F~~~ he cant use the work address then either.

Yeah I guess trusted relative who wont blab your address.

Or just be honest and tell her you know what she really wants and to stop bothering you for info.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Knarley BobParticipant 2219]

Just don’t put a return address on the envelope. Drop it in a mail box where ever. A different town will give it a postage mark from the where you don’t live.

OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE

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