The hamster was running double time last night…

[BeerParticipant 11832]

So I met a buddy out for some food and a beer last night, and he dragged along his wife and daughter as they hadn’t eaten dinner yet and the place we went to has really good food…so all is cool so far. Turns out, his wife knows one of the waitresses at the place we were at…26 year old single mom, and she decides to try to play match maker. The girl was coming over and being flirty and chatty quite a bit as it wasn’t exactly super busy on a weeknight, and of course the wife is talking her up like she’s the best thing since sliced bread…so I’m just doing the usual…just kind of nodding my head and agreeing with her…I really didn’t want to just lay the hammer down about f~~~ single moms and have her all p~~~y and spoil the good time my buddy and I were having since he doesn’t get out much these days.

So dinner ends…we’re walking out to our cars, and she has an excuse to go back to the table for a minute soon as we get around the corner, aka, ask the girl what she thought of me. She then comes back with the “that would be a great girl for you…she’s 26, she’s a lot of fun, great personality…” all the generic s~~~ as obviously the girl had just expressed interest. She then proceeds to say “She’s the perfect age too, what are you, like 25?” So at this point…she views me and the girl as an ideal match…

So this is where I start thinking f~~~…I was hoping to avoid this…but then it got really good! His daughter pipes in and says “Mom, he’s not that old, I think he’s like 22.” So then I say “Actually, I’m 32, I’m just hiding my crappy hair line with this hat.” His daughter and wife both thought I was full of s~~~, and my buddy was just chuckling at my comment like yeah…he is, and this is where the hamster starting picking up the pace. His wife, starting to sense I wasn’t interested at this point because I hadn’t enthusiastically agreed with her changes her story to “Well, your not too old for her, that’s still a good age.” As she sensed my lack of interest it instantly went from being a perfect match, to I’m not too old to be disqualified.

I’ve talked to my buddy about marriage and dating and stuff before, he knows where I stand, and he’s one of those married guys that loves his kid and never bitches about he’s wife being c~~~y or nuts so I think he got about as good of a find as you could expect these days, but has taken the stance that had he known now what he did 15 years ago, he’d have never married, and if something happens to his wife he’ll never remarry. So while he can sense the hamster kicking up the pace a bit…he just says “She’s got a kid, he’s not interested in women with kids,” obviously knowing I didn’t want to get into it with his wife so he just threw it out there for me lol. So now at this point…she knows I have zero interest.

This sent the hamster into hyper drive. Instead of just letting it be and dropping it, the shaming starts. “You are 32…you won’t find a woman in her 30s with no kids. If you don’t find someone soon there won’t be anyone left.” I’m just smiling thinking wait a minute…you just said you thought I was in my mid 20s trying to hook me up with your mid 20s friend…why would I date a girl in her 30s when her younger and interested friend just made it very obvious I could attract a woman in that age range easily lol. The hamster was in hyper drive at this point…she could not believe I wouldn’t jump on a hot, younger piece of ass and that I actually had enough common sense and self control to say no thanks…single mom definitely isn’t what I’m looking for.

It was like you could see the hamster progressively picking up the pace as she lost control of the situation. When she thought I’d jump at the chance to date an attractive single mom…it was all friendly we’d be a good match type stuff and she kept it very positive. As she sensed I wasn’t as interested as she expected me to be, it more into I’m lucky I’m not disqualified yet so I should take the opportunity. When she realized there was zero interest at all…the shaming began. It was so text book…if I had an audio recording you could literally pinpoint the exact sentences where the hamster went from 1st gear, to 2nd gear, to 3rd gear.

Ahh women, they just don’t get it. Over the course of the dinner I had told her I love having a drama/stress free life with very little responsibility, and now that I have the money and time to do so I plan on doing some traveling in the next few years, which given my baggage free life and work schedule I will be able to do on short notice and get great deals booking last minute trips. On what level is any of that compatible with adding a single mom into my lifestyle? When the golden vagina was offered up to me and I declined…it just sent the hamster into over drive lol. Sorry lady…at this point in the game I’m not risking everything I’ve worked for in the past, wrecking the life I’ve been building for myself, and risking future resources just to get a little pussy from a single mom who on average will probably have about 4 years left of being hot before the wall hits fast and hard, and considering she already has a kid the chances she’d try to secure more resources with another kid are increased exponentially.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

You such a selfish prick LOL.
Expect his wife now start putting wedges between you and your friend
Well played sir!

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[chirParticipant]

Careful. She sees you as a threat. Unmarried men being friends with married men is a “no no” with their wives. They are terrified their domesticated hubby will see freedom so they try to arrange dates for the unmarried friend to make sure they are enslaved as well.

If that doesn’t work they will manipulate their hubby to isolate him from you (bad influence).
Typically they will use language like:
There must be something wrong with him.
He might be gay.
A man who doesn’t want children must have psychological problems.
I don’t feel safe around him.

They will wear husbands down with limitless nagging.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Russky wrote:

You such a selfish prick LOL.

I know…I know…how dare I not be interested in a woman who is obviously a lot worse off financially than I am and is towing around a trailer full of baggage. Its just not right of me to expect women to meet any standard other than they have a vagina 🙁

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Next time ask her why her single mom friend wasn’t married. Suggest that there must be something wrong with her. Divert all the shaming moves right back at her – her head will explode. Women jaws just drop when you start using their own weaponry back at them.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Remember – when a woman tries to play matchmaker it is NEVER about you – it’s about them (the women that is). I’ve had ugly, post wall single moms shoved at me, snotty landwhales along with a host of other crap. Not once were any of these so called ladies worth a minute of my time. Get yourself a ring and stick it on your left ring finger when you go out. If any of these t~~~s come on to you( a little thing like a man being married won’t stop most of the skanks out there) – tell them your 24 year old super hot lingerie model spouse is waiting for you at home. But if you split up, you’ll let her know.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

+1 for MGTOW

[PacifistParticipant 143]

No, the “if she’s so great why isn’t she married?” has a well rehearsed answer. It’s the boyfriends fault. For any of a multitude of reasons. 2 people make a child the man gets the blame for everything.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Pacifist wrote:

No, the “if she’s so great why isn’t she married?” has a well rehearsed answer. It’s the boyfriends fault. For any of a multitude of reasons. 2 people make a child the man gets the blame for everything.

Then the next response is: “Then why is her taste in men so bad? She must have really low self esteem to have a child with such a prick. She sounds emotionally unstable. Pass.”

Here’s a question for your friend though. Why didn’t the wife and daughter have a little one on one time and leave you and your friend on your own? Every person you add to a conversation subtracts from the subjects. What was she afraid you and her husband would talk about?

Order the good wine

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Beer wrote:

the shaming starts. “You are 32…you won’t find a woman in her 30s with no kids.

You know, you just want to respond, “I didn’t knock her up. Not my fault.” But, the resulting s~~~fest would not be worth it.

The interesting part is there is some truth to the claim finding a woman in her 30’s without children is a rarity. But, that is not the shame for responsible, single “good men” such as us.

Having almost all women looking for dates in their late 20s and 30s being single mothers is the shame of the irresponsible mothers and the irresponsible “bad boys” these women rode the c~~~ carousel on to get impregnated.

This is in no way the shame of single “good men” such as us.

If society does not want single mothers, then society should not hold men legally responsible for other people’s bastard children. It is as simple as that.

But, women and society want their cake and eat it too, at the expense of the “good men” keeping civilization together.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

TaxGuy wrote:

Here’s a question for your friend though. Why didn’t the wife and daughter have a little one on one time and leave you and your friend on your own? Every person you add to a conversation subtracts from the subjects. What was she afraid you and her husband would talk about?

Nothing…he’s actually allowed to go out on his own. His wife isn’t as bad as most other wives turn out to be…it just worked out that they had a busy day and none of them had eaten dinner yet so they tagged along. I see the guy quite often at work anyhow and he’s been married a hell of a lot longer than I’ve been friends with him…I seriously doubt she came along because she viewed me as a threat to her in some way.

TaxGuy wrote:

Then the next response is: “Then why is her taste in men so bad? She must have really low self esteem to have a child with such a prick. She sounds emotionally unstable. Pass.”

Haha yeah…its true though. If she popped a kid out before marriage AND obviously as she’s single she’s not with the baby daddy…either she is such an unbearable c~~~ once she thinks she has you trapped she made a good guy go running despite the fact he was breaking up his family, or she is an idiot that is an extremely poor choice of mate and the baby daddy actually is a loser…either way none of the possible scenarios lead me to believe she has a head on her shoulders or had/has any long term plans for her life or she wouldn’t be in her current situation.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Hahaha. This is perfect. Women, especially single moms will definitely try to get hooked up with any sucker they can so they can leech off them for 18+ years or even for life.

The hamster probably ran so fast it broke the wheel and burned her brain out for the night!

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Other mens wives and girlfriends are a hazard too.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Nice story bro! I have personally experienced similar s~~~ numerous times and I have walked away from many of my friends because they go along with their partner’s c~~~y behavior.

I remember this bitch one of my friends is married to. She’s a control freak, not only does she want to control my friend, his money, his time and his job, but also his friends. It got to the point, that I told her to shut up when we were having dinner together while my friend was looking at me helplessly. She wanted to control the way I eat, the thing I eat and the life I live. She always tried to shame me by saying s~~~ like if you don’t hurry up you will never find a girl to which I reply, fine. She then proceeded to say that I am selfish and I should think about my parents, because they want grandchildren.

I have had enough this s~~~, that’s why my lowest standard for a new friend is purple pill.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Beer wrote:

Over the course of the dinner I had told her I love having a drama/stress free life with very little responsibility, and now that I have the money and time to do so I plan on doing some traveling

You know that women hate the idea of a man using his money to enrich his own life. That money should be going to a woman and her child!

Be prepared to have your relationship with your guy friend severed. Married women can’t have confirmed bachelors floating around their husbands. In fact, I wouldn’t be surprised if she made a pass at you herself so she could tell her husband you’re trying to f~~~ her or, worse, made up a story about you leering at the daughter.

When it comes to women and marriage, there are no rules against dirty pool.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Faust For Science wrote:

You know, you just want to respond, “I didn’t knock her up. Not my fault.” But, the resulting s~~~fest would not be worth it.

Yeah my normal response would to a situation like that is not my fault not my problem…I just didn’t want to cause drama for my buddy or get anyone fired up in public and make a scene, and since my buddy cut her off a bit it seemed in everyone’s best interest to just hold my tongue a bit lol.

Faust For Science wrote:

The interesting part is there is some truth to the claim finding a woman in her 30’s without children is a rarity. But, that is not the shame for responsible, single “good men” such as us.

I really don’t think it is a rarity anymore…and from my experience the childless ones at this point are actually more likely to be have a decent job…which is why many of them haven’t popped a kid out yet. A girl with below average income, no education/a worthless education, and is a financial wreck has a lot to gain by getting knocked up by a guy with an above average income…a girl with an above average income does not unless the guys income is significantly higher than hers…but then you run in to the statistical problem of there not being a 1%er for every girl with an above average income.

Then again…I’m being biased basing my observations off of women in their early 30s…I’m sure over the next few years the number of single and childless will dwindle as the baby rabies becomes too powerful to resist before their ovaries expire.

In the end though its really irrelevant, because before his wife backtracked, she already confirmed for me I had an interested 26 year old and she thought I was a bit younger than I am…so the reality of the situation is if I was looking…I’m sure I’d find plenty of other interested younger women who think I look good for my age…not that 32 is exactly old or that a 5-6 year gap is all that large anyhow.

Faust For Science wrote:

This is in no way the shame of single “good men” such as us.

Yup. Society can glorify single mothers and bash on guys like us who do not approve all they want, but at the end of the day we’ll be perfectly happy going our own way since its better than any of our alternatives. Where does that leave all the single mothers? Broke, bitter, lonely, desperate, and despising not being able to keep a man around wondering why we will have nothing to do with them after a lifetime of them telling guys like us if we don’t like how they act we better enjoy being single and never getting laid. Meanwhile we get our pick of the litter if we want some ass from a single mom that actually kept herself looking good chances are good she’ll an easy lay for any halfway decent guy with his s~~~ together(just be extra careful and bring your own condoms) and we are free to chase after younger girls who are more than interested in dating established guys. Karma is a bitch(just like you), aint it ladies?

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Great story, man!

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Women definitely don’t want men hanging out with their single buddies. I’ve seen it before and it’s happened to me as well. It’s a direct threat to their control and they know that if their men have the scent of freedom around them, they may be more likely to escape the plantation.

If they can’t block men from the scent of freedom then it makes them have to be nice and work harder to keep the men around (which most won’t actually do, they’ll just attack the man instead since it is less work).

#MANOUT

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Beer wrote:

Yup. Society can glorify single mothers and bash on guys like us who do not approve all they want, but at the end of the day we’ll be perfectly happy going our own way since its better than any of our alternatives.

The women blame us for them f~~~ing up the world. We didn’t make this mess. We didn’t start this fire (great song by the way). And we not going to add to this horrible situation.

[chirParticipant]

ENGAGE HAMSTER REASONING!!!

Sorry, couldn’t resist…

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

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