The easy answer is the wrong answer

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Many people have issues to deal with. The psychological torment these issues can bring can be unbearable, or seemingly unbearable. Lack of sleep, anxiety over things that never bothered you before, reluctance to engage with other people, a desire to withdraw from any social interaction.

I live a double life of corporate sober respectability, and private desire for anything that will make the evening pass quicker. The end goal is always to induce sleep. When asleep no pain is felt no memories torment. I am free.

But sleep doesn’t last. With me 5 hours is the average. So what do I do? I drink away the evenings. Not so much that I’m drunk and incapable of going to work the next day, but enough to pass the time before I sleep again.

Sometimes I get pleasantly high and browse comedy and Music online. Sometimes I browse other sites for short term entertainment. I often wonder if my life would improve significantly if I didn’t do this. I know it would, but, it would take time for the effects to work through. And the evening or weekend stretches out before me like a man standing at the edge of a desert.

I have made unhealthy pastimes my answer to short term boredom and psychological unease.

I know I’m not the only one who does this. Take a walk around my “respectable” middle class neighbourhood on Recyling day and all my neighbours have bins overflowing with bottles and cans they consumed during the week.

Alcohol is the easy answer to my problems, but I know it’s not the right answer. Trouble is, the more you do it, the more excuses you make to yourself to keep doing it. And yeah. Money isn’t a problem as I’m MGTOW so have spendable cash.

Recently I decided that I wasn’t allowed to surrvive the many near death episodes in my life, just to spend my days sedated. I therefore made the decision to travel and meet other brothers as a way of allowing Life to happen to me, rather than hide away in my comfortable home numbing out experience.

I had to make myself do it, Leave the House and travel, but it was worth it. Whatever is meant to happen to me will happen anyway and by sedating myself and sitting at home I’m just prolonging the boredom. I don’t know where life will take me, but I do know that it’s supposed to take me somewhere. Getting Drunk or Stoned is only delaying my journey.

It was always the easy answer, but I now realise it was the wrong answer.

It's Time to get Wise

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

That’s not even an answer, that’s total evasion of reality to not get an answer.

Sorry buddy, but you ain’t doing s~~~, just hidding behind the bottle.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

Carnage wrote:

That’s not even an answer, that’s total evasion of reality to not get an answer.

Sorry buddy, but you ain’t doing s~~~, just hidding behind the bottle.

Harsh, but possibly true.

It's Time to get Wise

[RemovedParticipant 4676]

If you ever get the itch, get a multiplayer game that I have, and we can duke it out, or coop it. Also, if you get a guitar or some other instrument, we can do jam sessions with you on zoom or the like. Never alone, friend.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Nonsense! Booze the cause of most problems BUT also the solution to most problems. If I had ever had a kid I would have named him Evan Williams!

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Greg, I got a boomerang golf cart back this morning for FREE! Put air in the tires and a fresh battery and runs like champ! I had several of these Harley Davidson golf carts and this one I put a racing stripe on it because it was the fastest one of them all!

I’ll show you how to drive it on two wheels! (cornering).

[joetechParticipant]

Some call it a problem, some call it a solution. I prefer hanging out with other people and riding my bike on swamp rabbit trail. Yeah, that’s some name, huh? I like Uly’s idea of picking up that guitar of yours and trying to get proficient at it. Don’t believe the song “In Heaven there is no beer”, of course there’s beer in heaven. Otherwise they wouldn’t call it heaven. What do song writers know anyway? My point is, you can drink all you want when you’re dead. In the meantime, live it up! Travel, go to comedy clubs, learn to play that awesome electric guitar of yours and just generally, party like a college kid. You’ve got a lot of life left to live. Embrace it.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Much as I love Booze and Guns I DO MAKE absolutely sure NEVER to mix the two!

[The man in the mountainParticipant 4102]

Vitamin b-6 a.k.a Melatonin will take you right out brother, just take 3-4 mg of that, you can also drink green tea that has L-Theanine that naturally helps you relax your nerves and brain waves..

Your choice, i choose to do it naturally if i feel i can’t sleep that night, meditation is also something you should explore since it has helped me move into sleep mode (and staying asleep) much more quicker.

[Anonymous 42]

PistolPete wrote:

Much as I love Booze and Guns I DO MAKE absolutely sure NEVER to mix the two!

Never mix booze and guns

booze and motorcycles

booze and torches

booze and table saws

booze and roofing

BOOZE AND WOMEN!

I can’t think of anything past booze and women, that one’s a real SHOW STOPPER!

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

I actually need booze to be around women. Otherwise it’s absolutely unbearable

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[ghostParticipant]

Everyone should do what works for them. It goes back to the spirit of MGTOW.

[narrow road travelerParticipant 1680]

Greg Honda wrote:

Many people have issues to deal with. The psychological torment these issues can bring can be unbearable, or seemingly unbearable. Lack of sleep, anxiety over things that never bothered you before, reluctance to engage with other people, a desire to withdraw from any social interaction.

I live a double life of corporate sober respectability, and private desire for anything that will make the evening pass quicker. The end goal is always to induce sleep. When asleep no pain is felt no memories torment. I am free.

But sleep doesn’t last. With me 5 hours is the average. So what do I do? I drink away the evenings. Not so much that I’m drunk and incapable of going to work the next day, but enough to pass the time before I sleep again.

Sometimes I get pleasantly high and browse comedy and Music online. Sometimes I browse other sites for short term entertainment. I often wonder if my life would improve significantly if I didn’t do this. I know it would, but, it would take time for the effects to work through. And the evening or weekend stretches out before me like a man standing at the edge of a desert.

I have made unhealthy pastimes my answer to short term boredom and psychological unease.

I know I’m not the only one who does this. Take a walk around my “respectable” middle class neighbourhood on Recyling day and all my neighbours have bins overflowing with bottles and cans they consumed during the week.

Alcohol is the easy answer to my problems, but I know it’s not the right answer. Trouble is, the more you do it, the more excuses you make to yourself to keep doing it. And yeah. Money isn’t a problem as I’m MGTOW so have spendable cash.

Recently I decided that I wasn’t allowed to surrvive the many near death episodes in my life, just to spend my days sedated. I therefore made the decision to travel and meet other brothers as a way of allowing Life to happen to me, rather than hide away in my comfortable home numbing out experience.

I had to make myself do it, Leave the House and travel, but it was worth it. Whatever is meant to happen to me will happen anyway and by sedating myself and sitting at home I’m just prolonging the boredom. I don’t know where life will take me, but I do know that it’s supposed to take me somewhere. Getting Drunk or Stoned is only delaying my journey.

It was always the easy answer, but I now realise it was the wrong answer.

I, like you am in a similar boat. Liberty to say inside “f~~~ it, I don’t need that house anyway.” I don’t need anything the matrix demands I desire.

Sometimes it’s hard with the waiting. From being oppressed,to then savoring the richness of unlimited sufficiency.

Keep going, I’ll get there. I know you will too.

The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting. --Sun Tsu

[Anonymous 14]

Greg, when I was young booze, weed, and cigarettes were my thing for several years. I have now gotten it down to just weed, exercise, and mini-adventures. Get a bike or a kayak, get out there on the weekends and go for a ride or find water and paddle around and fish… Men were not meant to live as we do today at work five days a week, and certainly not in a chair all the time if you have an office job… We are far more feral than that, and will get restless and dissatisfied without adventure/exploration.

A sandwich, soda, chips, fishing pole, kayak, lake, and a joint is all any man needs for a great day in my opinion. And if you are lucky enough to catch a fish you get to go home, gut it, clean it, and make fish tacos, not only feeding your body but your feral soul at the same time.

[HitmanParticipant]

I recommend cutting the amount you drink in half.
Do that again next week.
Skip a day once a week, then twice a week etc…
Then if you want to eliminate it completely it will be easier.

[PrincekieParticipant 1042]

I live somewhere fairly rural, with mainly middle class neighbours.

On recycling day, I hear the same sounds and witness the plethora of wine and spirit bottles being thrown into the sides of the truck. Truth is that there are a lot of people out there that are just hanging on to life. Behind the smiles, there are a lot of tormented souls, bitter marriages, and soulless lives. People who can only bare the company of their spouse (or themselves in some cases) through an intoxicating mix of booze and television. As for that addicting idiot box that allows you to put up with a woman’s company for years without having to communicate…well that’s for another thread.

I remember going back to a friends house when I was in my teens, just after we’d finished school. He lived in a nice place; all nicely cut privet hedge and roses in the garden type area. Anyway he opens the door and the first thing I saw walking into the kitchen was literally hundreds of empty gin bottles scattered all over every surface. The second thing I saw was his mum slumped on the sofa, with a half-finished bottle tipped on its side, covered in vomit. F~~~ing awful sight, and I felt bad for him.
Poor lad’s dead now, after getting into hard drugs, but seeing that made an impression on me. I always thought that they were the nicest, happiest and most upstanding family around: just shows you that everyone has an Achilles heel.

[Joe RiderParticipant 51]

Try to find a hobby that requires some time and dedication to excel at. You will be too busy to drink to excess.

For me that is motorcycles – if I’m not gone on a trip (frequently am), I am planning my next trip, doing upgrades and maintenance, or reading up on anything motorcycle related.

I am obsessed, but it keeps the drinking to a healthy level. There are much worse things to be obsessed to…

And I never drink and drive/ride.

Motorcycles saved my life (tried to take it a time or to as well).

[ShineParticipant 1696]

Greg Honda wrote:

Recently I decided that I wasn’t allowed to surrvive the many near death episodes in my life, just to spend my days sedated. I therefore made the decision to travel and meet other brothers as a way of allowing Life to happen to me, rather than hide away in my comfortable home numbing out experience.

Honda I noticed you breaking some awesome ground for MGTOW. Inspiring stuff travelling to meet new mates. The zoom chats took off soon after, and I’m sure to join some day.

Keep moving, form your own habits, don’t submit!

"Society is to blame" Denton

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Shine wrote:

Greg Honda wrote:

Recently I decided that I wasn’t allowed to surrvive the many near death episodes in my life, just to spend my days sedated. I therefore made the decision to travel and meet other brothers as a way of allowing Life to happen to me, rather than hide away in my comfortable home numbing out experience.

Honda I noticed you breaking some awesome ground for MGTOW. Inspiring stuff travelling to meet new mates. The zoom chats took off soon after, and I’m sure to join some day.

Keep moving, form your own habits, don’t submit!

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Eminem always gets me going! Great Video

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To Give wrote:

Shin wrote:

Greg Honda wrote:

Recently I decided that I wasn’t allowed to surrvive the many near death episodes in my life, just to spend my days sedated. I therefore made the decision to travel and meet other brothers as a way of allowing Life to happen to me, rather than hide away in my comfortable home numbing out experience.

Honda I noticed you breaking some awesome ground for MGTOW. Inspiring stuff travelling to meet new mates. The zoom chats took off soon after, and I’m sure to join some day.

Keep moving, form your own habits, don’t submit!

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Eminem always gets me going! Great Video

Too bad he’s towing the libtard rope screaming f~~~ Trump at concerts now

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

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