The depth of the Betrayal

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

That is awful what she put you through.

Instincts, something we have very well developed but we must learn the hard way to trust them.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[JakeParticipant 908]

I must have dated her clone all I can say is when dealing with women you should be triggered by the first lie just treat them like a bloke if the lie pull them up tell them to fuk of

[StealthParticipant 5327]

The betrayal goes even deeper than this. Much deeper.

Transferring her sexual attentions is just the first level.

Carousing and acting on those feelings is the next step.

But what about when she supports or pushes you to work hard, so she can leech off of you. When she sees you investing your health, watching as you pull 100 hour weeks so the two of you will be all right, at the cost of your chronic health . . . And then that moment you hit your goal, she calls a lawyer and comes after the money (in addition to the extra c~~~).

She betrays your mutual friends and extended family, lying to them, manipulation them in attempt to make them say what she wants to hear, in attempt to mask and compensate for her own evildoing. Surveying for easy targets she can take out in her suicide bomber mission that is aimed at you–the only person who really knows her and cares for her deeply.

Then your own family joins in. Married siblings and cousins coming on to her sexually right in front of you during the separation. The blue pilled cucks listen to her made-up accusations invented to smear your good name, and mirror her anger in the hopes of nailing your wife and becoming your kids’ back door baby daddy. Your parents listen to your plain explanation of what is going on, but side with her because she “was crying.”

Then she admits that she was just after the money all along, but what she REALLY wanted is what taking that money represents–your personal death and harm. That she wants you to die, and the more destruction she causes and the more you bleed, the more years of your life she can kill, the more it “boosts (her) self-esteem.” (Actual words).

And for all this, you get called selfish. Then she hooks up with a guy she barely knows, they get engaged and your own parents/siblings/cousins get invited to and attend their public celebration of adultery, which you likely paid for.

Your wife being dead makes it easier on you to process her betrayal & move on with your own life too.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Fr JackParticipant 926]

Gerald wrote:

Another is the text messages and the depth of the ‘sexting’, even on days she was with me and statements such as ‘don’t call me, he is here’.

The s~~~ I discovered in her texts was disgusting, bdsm, anal, group sex,FFS. I saw some of the dates on the texts, and knew that she had sex with me that evening, even allowing me to go down on her after she had been with him, and then telling me she loved me. But what floored me even more than that, was the things she and him said about me, how totally worthless I was to her. He made comments that I will not forget, he probably thinks he’s got away with it, but I can assure him he hasn’t, his day is coming. 32 years of my life, all for nothing. Forgive and forget? like f~~~ I will.
Btw, I got checked for std’s and I am clear.

[Beast05Participant 46]

Fr Jack wrote:

how totally worthless I was to her. He made comments that I will not forget, he probably thinks he’s got away with it, but I can assure him he hasn’t, his day is coming. 32 years of my life, all for nothing. Forgive and forget? like f~~~ I will.
Btw, I got checked for std’s and I am clear.

First off, I’m glad you’re clear of any STDs. However, I want to give you something to think about. This woman you married (I’m not using wife on purpose) said you were “worthless” to her. Get in counseling and get to the point where you feel indifferent to all of her bulls~~~. You deserve to be in that frame of mind.

Second, nobody is worth your freedom. If I did things to everyone that ever porked my ex-wive, I’d be in jail for life. It p~~~ed me off in the beginning, but now I’m indifferent toward it because it is her fault and society’s fault as well. You are luck she passed away, because even if a judge read these texts, they would still likely award her alimony and child support if there are children.

Best of luck to you.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Fr Jack wrote:

Gerald wrote:

Another is the text messages and the depth of the ‘sexting’, even on days she was with me and statements such as ‘don’t call me, he is here’.

The s~~~ I discovered in her texts was disgusting, bdsm, anal, group sex,FFS. I saw some of the dates on the texts, and knew that she had sex with me that evening, even allowing me to go down on her after she had been with him, and then telling me she loved me. But what floored me even more than that, was the things she and him said about me, how totally worthless I was to her. He made comments that I will not forget, he probably thinks he’s got away with it, but I can assure him he hasn’t, his day is coming. 32 years of my life, all for nothing. Forgive and forget? like f~~~ I will.
Btw, I got checked for std’s and I am clear.

Received my test results late last week… I’m in the clear as well… 6 month checkup to verify but so far so good. Thank god.

I can’t imagine what I’d do if I had received a death sentence out of this in the form of HIV or Hepatitis… would be seeing me on the news I’d fear.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[HermitParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

Gerald wrote:

She passed away a month ago during this process, remote from me and her boyfriend found her on the floor.

I envy you.

Well, while I understand it, I caution you not too. At least with a divorce, though I would have likely been raped by the courts, I could have something to blame, something to be mad at and yet now, I just am hurt and empty. I want to rage at something, especially since the legal s~~~ is a mess with this whole process, but all I do is hurt.

Not that it’s any of my business, but what legal s~~~? Now that she has past away, I would think there would be no more legal s~~~ to deal with.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Hermit wrote:

Gerald wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

Gerald wrote:

She passed away a month ago during this process, remote from me and her boyfriend found her on the floor.

I envy you.

Well, while I understand it, I caution you not too. At least with a divorce, though I would have likely been raped by the courts, I could have something to blame, something to be mad at and yet now, I just am hurt and empty. I want to rage at something, especially since the legal s~~~ is a mess with this whole process, but all I do is hurt.

Not that it’s any of my business, but what legal s~~~? Now that she has past away, I would think there would be no more legal s~~~ to deal with.

She owned property in the state she was living in, and all of the bills, estate, life insurance crap…

The property is the biggest pain. Without a will, things are a mess.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

I know betrayal first hand. And man does it hit you like a train of bricks. I mean all these people I use to know in Highschool I was freinds with were all willing to f~~~ around with my relationship.

While I was in jail, I thought of something. Her car kept getting stolen by the same guy, and she never pursued it. This was when I first moved in with her. I wonder now if it was just a jealous ex that was taking it out on her. I was the better provider at the time, and I wonder if this was just another one of her flings.

Man. To think she was being loyal while the 3.5 months I was underway was a stretch I guess.

But you just don’t see it when its happening.

I mean damn. It’s always like this.

Even the phone call that I got one morning from some random number that said, WE FOUND OUR STUFF on the side of the road, here and your car..

I mean geez. Everything was thrown out. Looking back, it does seem more like a person who was angry trying to get revenge on her.

Now I wonder, man. THis was going on the whole time.

Before MGTOW. I was mad. Now, I look at this, and I am just feel sorry for this person.

She never could be honest. Sad thing is to, I would have understood like many guys if she was just upfront. But the truth is, it’s just one of those things.

I remember having my suspicions, but I just could not believe she could be like that.

One time at our latest apartment, this random guy shows up, and he is a hispanic guy, now it seems she was doing this at the house when I was not there. Like when I was traveling for work.

It’s hard to imagine how 18 years of betrayal really is like. But that just how women are guys.

I mean My BEST FREIND I have known since 8th grade, and others I have known all knew and had their go. And this is what they left me with.

I know the anger grows. But then after a while, you just say.. Wait.. It’s not me.

I did everything I could. And she f~~~ed it up. I am NOT responsible for HER f~~~ up.

In the meanwhile, I have 3 boys who are going to grow up without a father, and one grandchild who is dead at 3 months old. And that’s just how it goes.

You can’t do anything about these people. They are just who they are. All you can do is make your life the one you want to live, and make the best of your life.

Sure, you have just lost out on the best time of your life with your kids, or even your significant other. BUT WAS IT REALLY ALL THAT GREAT? If you look, it was not.

There was always so much bulls~~~. But as long as they were there, you were happy.

Love is not real for women. They are soulless and enjoy your misery. One day my youngest son will grow older, and we will just want to get the f~~~ out of there.

In the meantime, I will have to hide my resources, Save my cash, and make the best of life, so when it’s time to party and play with my older sons, work on cars, and enjoy the rest of our lives and what comes down that pipe, we will be smiling.

Sand dunes, Boating, and nothing but fun stuff.

Their road whatever they choose is an illusion. Now with crypto, we have financial power. it’s only a matter of time before we have legal power. Men leave the their lands to better places, or we make starve out the machine.

As men, our possibilities may seem far off, but they are not unreachable.

You may feel like that, but that’s just the negativity around you.

Hell, I just got a guy a pizza, he was in front of me, and said for me to go ahead, and the guy took him at the other register at the 7 eleven while I was getting smokes.

If I can pay for $7.00 for smokes, I can get a guy who I know is homeless and his worthless pussy sack a pizza for 5.55. Why not.

It’s the hands man that always give these guys away. THey are so tuff and dry. I know I should not have, but I hate seeing a guy paying with a few dirty dollars, and change. I know how that feels like.

I made sure to warn him to be careful, of the skank. He nodded. Most men know what they are getting into. But young guys, they don’t see the danger signs. F~~~ing whore was looking at me. Christ sake. Tells you something.

Women no matter how pretty they are to us in our eyes are nothing but a mask of fake smiles and fake emotions.

Count ourselves lucky my brothers, at least we know the truth. We can now accept that harsh truth, and now live a better happier life because of it.

Kind of sucks. Some of those bodies out there are MARVELOUS. Kind of sucks, men need a little more than just a pretty face.

Like the saying goes, no matter how hot the girl, somewhere in the world is a man that’s tired of putting up with her.

F~~~ing her? Come on.. Not if she’s good sucking dick.

As soon as they make a blowjob machine that better then the girl that makes your junk tingle for a week…

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

OH f~~~ing CHRIST. ANOTHER GIRL just HAPPENS to COME UP TO ME AT 1AM in the MORNING GEEXIZ F~~~IEN GCHRIST!!!!!!

Hey (she waves,, Won’t go away keep ignoring her even with music on..)

Oh no, You are not asking me for money are you.. Please leave me alone..

“Can I have a cigarette? ”

oH S~~~…. Yes Sure just promise you will leave me alone.

She smiles, and goes What and just stands there. (right where the cop was yesterday) . .

Love your computer never seen that before.. (OF F~~~INGKKN CHRIST… PICK UP LINES. )

(When you go MGTOW you just see RIGHT through this s~~~. So many college girls from the college up the street. GET THE F~~~ AWAY!. )

Your A woman, YOU ARE DANGEROUS here is cigarette now please go away. I’m not going to jail for you. No go away please. ”

finally walks off after I give her one.

Yup. GAY VOICE, and Fingers finging in the air to get the hint.

WOMEN.. F~~~ they pop out everywhere..

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[HermitParticipant]

Gerald wrote:

Hermit wrote:

Gerald wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

Gerald wrote:

She passed away a month ago during this process, remote from me and her boyfriend found her on the floor.

I envy you.

Well, while I understand it, I caution you not too. At least with a divorce, though I would have likely been raped by the courts, I could have something to blame, something to be mad at and yet now, I just am hurt and empty. I want to rage at something, especially since the legal s~~~ is a mess with this whole process, but all I do is hurt.

Not that it’s any of my business, but what legal s~~~? Now that she has past away, I would think there would be no more legal s~~~ to deal with.

She owned property in the state she was living in, and all of the bills, estate, life insurance crap…

The property is the biggest pain. Without a will, things are a mess.

Oh, that does sound like a mess. I hope you can get it all worked out quickly.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Hermit wrote:

Gerald wrote:

Hermit wrote:

Gerald wrote:

Ranger One wrote:

Gerald wrote:

She passed away a month ago during this process, remote from me and her boyfriend found her on the floor.

I envy you.

Well, while I understand it, I caution you not too. At least with a divorce, though I would have likely been raped by the courts, I could have something to blame, something to be mad at and yet now, I just am hurt and empty. I want to rage at something, especially since the legal s~~~ is a mess with this whole process, but all I do is hurt.

Not that it’s any of my business, but what legal s~~~? Now that she has past away, I would think there would be no more legal s~~~ to deal with.

She owned property in the state she was living in, and all of the bills, estate, life insurance crap…

The property is the biggest pain. Without a will, things are a mess.

Oh, that does sound like a mess. I hope you can get it all worked out quickly.

Appreciate it, but it won’t be. Mortgage hadn’t been paid in months, taxes are a year+ past due, insurance may or may not exist, finding new credit cards nearly weekly…

So it is a huge mess. Lawyer hasn’t been paid because life insurance isn’t willing to pay me, some technical bulls~~~…

I give it till the end of February and if I don’t have it mostly resolved, will walk away and let it all foreclose, whatever happens happens. I don’t need this s~~~.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

They’re ONLY loyal to their need of you.

And they can shove that where the sun don’t shine.

You know what, scrub that.

Even when they have a need for you,

They’re STILL DISLOYAL.

That’s why I “cut the rope” instead of “tying the knot”.

Stealth wrote:

The betrayal goes even deeper than this. Much deeper.

Transferring her sexual attentions is just the first level.

Carousing and acting on those feelings is the next step.

But what about when she supports or pushes you to work hard, so she can leech off of you. When she sees you investing your health, watching as you pull 100 hour weeks so the two of you will be all right, at the cost of your chronic health . . . And then that moment you hit your goal, she calls a lawyer and comes after the money (in addition to the extra c~~~).

She betrays your mutual friends and extended family, lying to them, manipulation them in attempt to make them say what she wants to hear, in attempt to mask and compensate for her own evildoing. Surveying for easy targets she can take out in her suicide bomber mission that is aimed at you–the only person who really knows her and cares for her deeply.

Then your own family joins in. Married siblings and cousins coming on to her sexually right in front of you during the separation. The blue pilled cucks listen to her made-up accusations invented to smear your good name, and mirror her anger in the hopes of nailing your wife and becoming your kids’ back door baby daddy. Your parents listen to your plain explanation of what is going on, but side with her because she “was crying.”

Then she admits that she was just after the money all along, but what she REALLY wanted is what taking that money represents–your personal death and harm. That she wants you to die, and the more destruction she causes and the more you bleed, the more years of your life she can kill, the more it “boosts (her) self-esteem.” (Actual words).

And for all this, you get called selfish. Then she hooks up with a guy she barely knows, they get engaged and your own parents/siblings/cousins get invited to and attend their public celebration of adultery, which you likely paid for.

Your wife being dead makes it easier on you to process her betrayal & move on with your own life too.

Awesome post Stealth! BRAVO! The nectar of truth squirted in my eye while consuming your well written post!

Fr Jack wrote:

he probably thinks he’s got away with it, but I can assure him he hasn’t, his day is coming. 32 years of my life, all for nothing. Forgive and forget? like f~~~ I will

Hey Fr Jack, you need to let go of that! It does more harm to you than it could ever do to him, or her for that matter! Don’t get me wrong, I know what it’s like to want to kill a motherf~~~er that altered my life’s path and destiny, I wanted to kill the motherf~~~ers (more than one at different occasions) I had to not even entertain the thought or even think it, that’s how close I was to SNAPPING!

Perhaps your talking about it is actual healthy venting at this time, I hope so, for your sake! But anyway, forgiveness can only be granted by request, until then simply FORGET THEM! They have the morals of an ape and live like animals in their own feces! Clean your spirit of the stain by letting go of the dirty animals, you didn’t know that other’s didn’t think and behave like you and your superior standards!

To hell with the apes and monkeys, we’re men! Ebola will wipe them out as they continue their life of perdition!

iMickey503 wrote:

Before MGTOW. I was mad. Now, I look at this, and I am just feel sorry for this person.

That’s what I’m talking about! You see the animal beast for what it is, not for what it should be thereby creating conflict in your mind! Throw out the trash and stay away from the dumpster!

This thread has TOP-GUN written allover it! That’s why I read it twice!

[GeraldParticipant 3620]

Men,

Again as I read through this, which I was prompted to sitting in an airport again… Brings me comfort that the site is here, that men still care to help other men, and that maybe, just maybe, I helped open someone’s eyes.

Thank you all for your help, support and advice.

Gerald.

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[JakeParticipant 908]

my ex at a party of a mutual friend confronts me saying I am hearing you called me a slut behind my back ,I said yep a big slut you were not there so ill say it again .say it as I see it, lie and cheat what do you expect her new bow was quit incensed , I was free later she tried to monkey branch I told her I knew her nature and would never date her but only fuk her so we did waste of time like tina turner said whats love got to do with it.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Jake wrote:

my ex at a party of a mutual friend confronts me saying I am hearing you called me a slut behind my back ,I said yep a big slut you were not there so ill say it again .say it as I see it, lie and cheat what do you expect her new bow was quit incensed , I was free later she tried to monkey branch I told her I knew her nature and would never date her but only fuk her so we did waste of time like tina turner said whats love got to do with it.

F~~~in her but not dating her still leaves you open to a false accusation.

Watch your six, or you’ll go down in flames.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[JakeParticipant 908]

ranger I went through this a long time ago I was young and trusting .she was the love of my life an older woman with two kids the other man had money was taller ,a big man who was always at the gym but had no personality I was looking for a fight funny in the end I was selected but it didn’t matter winning isn’t always in your best interest I thank you for your advice

[L. EulerParticipant 343]

Dear Gerald,
You’re a rank amateur compared to the “s~~~” that L. Euler’s been through.
The real reason I never wrote an introduction is it’s so F’n unbelievable, you couldn’t make this stuff up for a movie. It wouldn’t be a believable story line.
Add to the infidelities you describe, add a personal bankruptcy, a Mafia based manager forced upon me as a manager in my business.
Add, that all I had to do to finish her off was nod my head.. like Godfather Micheal Corleone, and it would be done. I actually had to order the Mafia to NOT kill her.( they would have done it for free)
How f~~~ed up is that!!….I mean really, you couldn’t even make this s~~~ up, even if you tried. Truth is far stranger than fiction.

Really really sick.

Better off to “monk” it … it’s healthier.

When I feel the urge, I go to call girl and pay her well. It’s far cheaper in the end.
MGTOW is safety.. maybe even life-preserving.

L. Euler

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