The correct thing to do is "not care" but I hate women

[WOTGMSpectator 749]

I absolutely hate them. I hate them for not seeing me as a human being because I’m not rich. I hate them for hating me because I’m “too nice”. I hate them for loving men of low character and then later on needing a “good guy” like myself to clean up their mess. I hate the way they walk past you looking into their phones, taking selfies of themselves, and constantly texting. Sometimes I’m angry at myelf for hating them. They’re not worth it. I understand this in my mind, yet I still hate them. It’s irrational but at least I recognize it’s irrational.

I am fast approaching my 40’s and at this point it’s finally sinking in that I’ll never have a family, a wife, or any of that stuff. The way things are now, that’s a good thing. I understand that. And yet I’m resentful. I don’t blame myself, but rather the age we live in. If my father and I switched places, he probably would never marry or have kids either, and I probably would have had a wife and children. I firmly believe this. Things are just different in today’s world. It’s not my fault, yet I feel like it is sometimes.

It’s weird though to me sometimes. I think to myself “I’m a good looking guy with a good heart, and I’m alone in this world”. It seems surreal sometimes, almost like I expect cameras to come out at any moment and tell me “Surprise! This has all been a huge psychological experiment!” but then it hits me that this is not the case. Things ACTUALLY ARE THIS F~~~ED UP. I just can’t fathom it. I’ve always been a person who relies very heavily on logic and there seems to be so little of it in this world.

There’s no particular point of this post. I’m just feeling down. I deal with depression and it gets hard sometimes. Thanks.

[Anonymous 7]

WOTGM wrote:

I am fast approaching my 40’s and at this point it’s finally sinking in that I’ll never have a family, a wife, or any of that stuff. The way things are now, that’s a good thing. I understand that. And yet I’m resentful.

Same realization hit me in my early 40s.
The resentment was brief though. My peers were being divorced raped and their kids taken away. Resentment turned to relief of not being destroyed.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9595]

WOTGM wrote:

I absolutely hate them. I hate them for not seeing me as a human being because I’m not rich. I hate them for hating me because I’m “too nice”. I hate them for loving men of low character and then later on needing a “good guy” like myself to clean up their mess. I hate the way they walk past you looking into their phones, taking selfies of themselves, and constantly texting.

That pretty much sums it up.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6254]

WOTGM wrote:

I absolutely hate them. I hate them for not seeing me as a human being because I’m not rich. I hate them for hating me because I’m “too nice”. I hate them for loving men of low character and then later on needing a “good guy” like myself to clean up their mess. I hate the way they walk past you looking into their phones, taking selfies of themselves, and constantly texting. Sometimes I’m angry at myelf for hating them.

I will not judge you based on your perception of women.

Think about this:
Hypothetically speaking, if women posses NONE of the above characteristics, you mentioned, would you go back to the “plantation”?

I myself would not go back, regardless if external conditions change to favor men, i.e. all women become unicorns and divorce courts disappear. My inner calmness and tranquility comes when I let go of clinging onto these external conditions.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Anonymous 42]

What about the kids you’ll never have to see go through hell by an empowered women?

What about the attorney fees and child support for your children that watch all the Chads cum and go?

Life’s too short to hate them, just live around them, over them, but not with them, they are too worldly and ruined by law to trust them.

You don’t know the meaning of hate until one ruins you!

Be glad your life isn’t a ball of crumpled wreckage!

[Anonymous 54]

Marrage is miserable.
Women are miserable.

You have been spared.

Sidestep them, and enjoy life.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6254]

Anonymous wrote:

What about the kids you’ll never have to see go through hell by an empowered women?

What about the attorney fees and child support for your children that watch all the Chads cum and go?

This is what I call, getting reamed in the ass:

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[ghostParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

I am fast approaching my 40’s and at this point it’s finally sinking in that I’ll never have a family, a wife, or any of that stuff.

I had been struggling with this myself. I am in my early 30s and doing quite well for myself. It is just not worth it. Once you understand female nature and how the game is rigged against you, you won’t care and just appreciate you’re not going to get put through the wringer.

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

My inner calmness and tranquility comes when I let go of clinging onto these external conditions.

This is the way to go.

Anonymous wrote:

Life’s too short to hate them, just live around them, over them, but not with them, they are too worldly and ruined by law to trust them.

Exactly!

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

WOTGM wrote:

It’s weird though to me sometimes. I think to myself “I’m a good looking guy with a good heart, and I’m alone in this world”. It seems surreal sometimes, almost like I expect cameras to come out at any moment and tell me “Surprise! This has all been a huge psychological experiment!” but then it hits me that this is not the case. Things ACTUALLY ARE THIS F~~~ED UP. I just can’t fathom it. I’ve always been a person who relies very heavily on logic and there seems to be so little of it in this world.

There’s no particular point of this post. I’m just feeling down. I deal with depression and it gets hard sometimes. Thanks.

Wow you summarized how I feel about all this. I feel like this is one huge experiment, and humanity is failing utterly.

I realized at 22 that the world doesn’t make sense, and the amount of unjustice that goes on is heart wrenching. At times it brings me to tears. It truly doesn’t make sense.

3 years later I still feel the same way.

Honestly having the knowledge of this, is enough to drive a man to hate.

I’m 25, but I learned one thing; forgiveness is necessary

You gotta let it go man, otherwise the hatred consumes you.

In the end hatred will only harm yourself.

Just understand and move on.

Look it sucks, but you can only change things you can control.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6254]

ghost wrote:

I had been struggling with this myself. I am in my early 30s and doing quite well for myself

Not giving into societies whims, is the biggest step we MGTOWs have ALREADY achieved. Anything else we do in our lives is just complementary. The foundation of freedom has been laid.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6254]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

You gotta let it go man, otherwise the hatred consumes you.

+1

Not only letting it go.

Replace the unhealthy way of thinking with some awesome hobbies. Focus on it passionately.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

MGTOW_Mike wrote:

Not giving into societies whims, is the biggest step we MGTOWs have ALREADY achieved. Anything else we do in our lives is just complementary. The foundation of freedom has been laid.

Yeah exactly!

I’ve always been going my own way since I was a kid.

I was a nerdy kid that got picked on when I was younger.

When I got adopted @ 13 I grew to find myself and my passions: athletics, music, poetry, art, and science.

These different interests never allowed me to fit into a specified clique in school.

I was never a kid to follow the crowd.

I was a jack of all trades but master of none, but I did it because it made me happy.

I find passion in creating, and focusing on ways to improve myself and the world.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Hate them if you want it’s your right.

Me? I’m a lazy mother f~~~er too much work.

Not giving a s~~~ is easier, and p~~~ then off.

Becouse women enjoy seen men angry, frustrated and stressed.

But not giving a f~~~?

That they can’t understand.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

I am only 30, but i feel pretty much the exact same way and have for a long time. It’s hard not to be resentful. Even though i know I’ve dodged a huge bullet by never getting married or having kids, it’s hard not to feel sometimes that i am living a long, meaningless existence. I am always alone, and all i really do is work and try to enjoy my hobbies, and that’s all i have to look forward to.

It’s hard not to hate women sometimes. Its hard not to get p~~~ed off, having to listen to them constantly whining and complaining about every little thing. They have no clue how many advantages they have. I wish they could see what it’s like to be a man for just one day.

It’s hard not to hate them when you hear their endless complaints about men. Not a single one of them deserves a man.

Anyway right now I’m just trying to stay focused on my financial goals. I’m hoping that an early retirement in the Philippines will take some of the sting out of everything I’ve been through, maybe it will make up for all the bulls~~~. To be honest i have very little hope though even with that. The only thing i am really looking forward to is seeing all these c~~~s die miserable, alone, and in abject poverty. That is what a great deal of them have to look forward to, some of them are there already…should be a good show.

[narwhalParticipant]

WOTGM wrote:

It’s weird though to me sometimes. I think to myself “I’m a good looking guy with a good heart, and I’m alone in this world”. It seems surreal sometimes, almost like I expect cameras to come out at any moment and tell me “Surprise! This has all been a huge psychological experiment!” but then it hits me that this is not the case. Things ACTUALLY ARE THIS F~~~ED UP. I just can’t fathom it. I’ve always been a person who relies very heavily on logic and there seems to be so little of it in this world.

You already had your ‘surprise!’ moment. But it was actually the exact opposite of what you want it to be now. You used to think that women were nice princesses and the good guy gets the girl in the end…just like the tv promised. But surprise! that’s not life. You see the truth now. It’s almost like you’re asking for is the wool to be pulled back over your eyes.

Now, whenever I wish things were different, I just watch people, and see all the things we don’t normally want to notice. I think of all that I have that I didn’t have when I was married.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 42]

Carnage wrote:

Me? I’m a lazy mother f~~~er too much work.

Hate is exhausting and taxing and that’s not profitable! Hate is the only place in my life I’m LAZY!
How COOL is that???

[MonkParticipant 17063]

xanthine wrote:

… it’s hard not to feel sometimes that i am living a long, meaningless existence.

Consider these questions:

Are you nothing more than a bag of water and salts? Or is there something more?

Who or what are YOU? Are you nothing but temporary electrical connections? Or are you something else?

Draw the right conclusion, and life is anything but meaningless.

[OldBillParticipant]

It’s okay to hate. They’ve given you plenty of reasons to do so. Hate is an honest emotion. You needn’t fear it or be ashamed by it.

It’s also good that you recognize that your hate is irrational and that you get angry for having this hate. You’re beginning to control your hate rather than allowing it to control you.

I often liken MGTOW to the grieving process. We all must grieve the blue pill mindset and world we’ve chose to leave. It doesn’t matter that the blue pill were all lies, they were comforting lies and lies we enjoyed after a fashion. When we set aside those lies, we need to mourn the dreams those lies were based on.

Don’t fight your hate. Accept it. Accept that it is part of you and thus under your control.

And here’s the quote everyone loves to see:

“If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”
– Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6254]

MGTOW Knight wrote:

Yeah exactly!

I’ve always been going my own way since I was a kid.

I was a nerdy kid that got picked on when I was younger.

When I got adopted @ 13 I grew to find myself and my passions: athletics, music, poetry, art, and science.

These different interests never allowed me to fit into a specified clique in school.

I was never a kid to follow the crowd.

I was a jack of all trades but master of none, but I did it because it made me happy.

I find passion in creating, and focusing on ways to improve myself and the world.

You sound like the twin brother I never had!

I always was the lone wolf, yes I did have a few friends now and then. I am also a jack of all trades, but a master of none. I love to learn anything. This world has given us so many cool and wonderful things to discover. I do my own construction/building/repair work on houses, electrical work, plumbing etc. I also can do knitting and use a sewing machine to make my own window curtains.

I spent nearly all my time alone and learning, instead of going out with friends.

I am teaching myself Electronics Engineering, without going to BS university. I never had a girlfriend nor want to.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

Haha, I was just waiting for old Marcus Aurelius to be rolled out.

But it needs repeating, on every thread like this one

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