that girl you fell inlove with never existed

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I made the mistake more than once.I never got married because the math never worked out.I did not believe that I met anyone that marriage would work out. I stayed in relationships well past good sense would dictate.I stayed in hopping that sweet girl I met would come back.I did this that and other things the she promised old her would comeback other than make the plunge.You see if I helped her relive the stress that that 2 bit job causing,we could live on my money etc.There never way that girl.It was some one that played that part.To get at least 18 yr gig and maybe vaginamonie.They play the part.You want a blond? She can be that.A redhead no problem.Fake nails,eyelash,hair extensions.You like foot ball she liked foot ball.B. Ball? She is a fan.Until you sign contract and she wants kid and new house(house you owned before you met her would not do)
Men did not think they would do this as we do not/I never could figure that everything I enjoyed was turning into a fight with her.If I did it she would try to ruin it.Before mgtow i had questions I never could get a handle on.Now it is so simple.To think all I did to make some one that never was to come back.

[Greg SilveradoParticipant 172]

I got married when I was 22 years old and I stayed married until I was 50. In that 28 year period I watched my cute little love kitten turn into a mangy old cat. I even provided a living for my family so that my wife didn’t have to go out to work do you think that made her happy f~~~ no! Two years after we were divorced she sent me a letter saying that she had never loved me and that it had all been a big mistake caused by her selfishness as if writing a f****** letter would let her off the hook for her s***** f****** Behavior. Fortunately my eldest daughter got to read the letter and now she knows the story. I am 57 now and having the time of my life by myself. I never thought in my own Short History I would ever feel this good about being by myself because women always said that they couldn’t be by themselves and I was always around them so I thought that too. Mgtow has saved my f****** life and my wallet. Sure I had to learn a few very hard lessons on the way but can you imagine coming to mgtow in your eighties? Not me! Glad to be here fellas

Always expect the unexpected and gird your loins appropriately. It's a no-fault jungle out there.

[Anonymous 12]

Prior to coming to MGTOW I would idealise women, I’d see one that got my concept of perfection and then find out how imperfect she was , none of us are perfect but I would start seeing her narcissism, her hypocrisy, her mind games and general bulls~~~ and of that wasn’t enough she starts to tell you how she always wanted a threesome or gang bang or some other perverted s~~~ yet she has a problem doing something sexual for you.

Then you walk away and never look back and find how happy you can be without women.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Greg Silverado wrote:

I even provided a living for my family so that my wife didn’t have to go out to work do you think that made her happy f~~~ no!

she got bored from staying at home. same thing happened to my parents.

Greg Silverado wrote:

I even provided a living for my family so that my wife didn’t have to go out to work do you think that made her happy f~~~ no!

AKA women hitting the wall.

Greg Silverado wrote:

Two years after we were divorced she sent me a letter saying that she had never loved me and that it had all been a big mistake caused by her selfishness

holy s~~~ this sounds like a f~~~ing nightmare! i’m glad you’ve found Mgtow. I’m glad you found the path to freedom.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Anonymous 1]

Made the same mistakes.

Always AWALT from here on out.

“a woman is just a woman, but a cigar is a smoke” Rudyard kipling

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

I was lucky.I did not know the answers .I just knew what seemed to be a bad plan.I also knew these married or divorced men worked their ass of and they were never appreciated.They never had any money and the only sex they had was with crack ho’s.I will never forget a friend that owned a plumbing company.He was standing out side curb store with a Christmas for Her and ex’s daughter and 16oz beer.He did not have enough for a six pack.She dolled out the money and he had to go without lunch and saved his lunch money it for bj’s.I worked offshore as a captain and made good money.I knew it was never a good plan to have anyone in my house and have my paycheck sent there.I knew some guys that their wives were partying with Chad while he was at work.Spending his money driving his car. I found what worked for me and the hotties.I was fun and made them last.I was always buying selling and trading hot cars and motorcycles.I was the kind of to kick it with until they found next money ticket. I hoped I would find some one different.I finally figured all of them were nuts and the drama was not worth it no matter fine and they had skills of a sexual Disney land.Her is pic of type of boat I was captain and what I did as many have no idea what i am talking about.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PFfQ2VRNP4

[Greg SilveradoParticipant 172]

If you think that’s bad imagine 28 years plus two years courtship. Her complaining started immediately after we met and I just thought that was how women were.

The alienation of my two daughters and the subsequent abuse that I found out she inflicted on them just makes me horrified on this Mother’s Day because I know both of them are over there and I don’t know how they could stand to be with that woman. The good thing is that as your children get older they also get a little bit wiser and they see through the b*******. There is hope then if you are in that trap and you don’t have to get a divorce don’t. If there’s any way you can Preserve your place in the home with your children without losing your dignity by all means do that. Other than that just don’t play the game

Always expect the unexpected and gird your loins appropriately. It's a no-fault jungle out there.

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

shovelheadrider wrote:

They play the part.You want a blond? She can be that.A redhead no problem.Fake nails,eyelash,hair extensions.You like foot ball she liked foot ball.B. Ball? She is a fan.

A wallhitter I was talking to and considering a FWB relationship a few months back … every freaking thing I said or was into, she agreed with and was into also. I mean every one. I started making up s~~~ to test it … “I like eating canned sardines” … lo and behold she loved them too. And then she started up with “I can’t believe I met a man who is such a perfect match yada yada yada” annnnnd GOOD BYE! Such liars.

Anonymous wrote:

… if that wasn’t enough she starts to tell you how she always wanted a threesome or gang bang or some other perverted s~~~ yet she has a problem doing something sexual for you.

Been going my own way since ’95 and won’t veer from the path but certainly date here and there. A woman a few years ago seems all nice and homey and decent for about 8 months, and suddenly starts in one night with (no joke here) “I always wanted to work as a dominatrix.” At first I thought she was joking, but I inquired a couple days later and she was not. Basically this *decent* woman’s inner desire was to be a prostitute for cucks. WTF. She was gone in no time too.

They are all f~~~ed in the head. Every.F~~~ing.Last.One.Of.Them.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[SOLI2DEParticipant 746]

The title is the story of my life. Looking back, I see I have never truly been in love. Each woman was what I projected her to be until the fog cleared. I have a FWB right now who definitely hit the wall and is constantly trying to get me to settle down with her. Thanks MGTOW because without you guys I’d really have settled for a heavily used demolition derby vehicle. Now I stay away and know AWALT

“Do not give your strength to women, nor your ways to that which destroys kings.” -Proverbs 31:3-

[Anonymous 11]

MOWsince95 wrote:

“I always wanted to work as a dominatrix.”

I once had one tell me that too. That one is the “Mother of all Red Flags”.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Jokes on them i never fell in love in the first place.

shovelheadrider wrote:

They play the part.You want a blond? She can be that.A redhead no problem.Fake nails,eyelash,hair extensions.You like foot ball she liked foot ball.B. Ball? She is a fan.

I like honest people
fake that.
Their masks are so easily seen trough it’s laughable.

[Anonymous 5]

SOLI2DE wrote:

Each woman was what I projected her to be until the fog cleared.

The NAWALT snowflake routine is remarkably efficient but it still needs someone who believes it exists.
It’s the same with all scams. Only those believing in things that are too good to be true fall for them.
The moment a man realizes that NAWALT was just a creation of his and her imaginations, it’s all over.
When that happens we don’t waste another moment trying to turn her back into something she never was.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Women can only hold their fake personality for 9-12 months tops then the reptile starts to show.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[Anonymous 12]

The Batman 2020 wrote:

Women can only hold their fake personality for 9-12 months tops then the reptile starts to show.

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This is true, many times the first few weeks or months feel like bliss than they start to come out with their bulls~~~ often contradicting everything they told you beforehand.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

Anonymous wrote:

Women can only hold their fake personality for 9-12 months tops then the reptile starts to show.

that was my understanding.They can stay in character only so long. They are lazy and egotistical .It is a game with women to get the max they can and do as little as possible and words alone go just so far

[Won'tGetFooledAgainParticipant 3305]

Blue Skies wrote:

MGTOWBladeRunner wrote:

I even provided a living for my family so that my wife didn’t have to go out to work do you think that made her happy f~~~ no!

she got bored from staying at home. same thing happened to my parents.

MGTOWBladeRunner wrote:

I even provided a living for my family so that my wife didn’t have to go out to work do you think that made her happy f~~~ no!

AKA women hitting the wall.

Same thing happened to me, my ex wife stayed at home for 6 years while I provided for the family. To thank me for this she got bored, decided that she had lost her identity and ended up f~~~ing some guy from Facebook she used to go to school with.

When you see couples who look happy, I guarantee that they are not married and have been together less than 18 months. This is the sweet spot where you are relaxed in each others company, yet the honeymoon period has not worn off and you are still having lots of sex.

Then one day for the first time ever the woman refuses sex by coming up with some bulls~~~ excuse about not feeling well or being stressed etc. This is a massive s~~~ test by her to see if you are now hooked by the pussy and she can go back to being the real her. The only way to pass this test is to dump her and find some new pussy.

If you decide to stay you know the honeymoon period is over and you have a long, slow decline into a sexless, boring relationship where your only use is to pay for s~~~ and do stuff for her (Such as DIY, fixing her car, fixing her computer etc.).

You see the guys that have massively failed these tests every day. These are the men strapping their two screaming kids into the mini van while their overweight, miserable wife gets in the passenger seat. The men always have that shellshocked “How the f~~~ did this happen?” look on their face.

For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

[Greg SilveradoParticipant 172]

My own experience with women around the age of 48 is they know that their beauty is long gone and that the only thing they have left is their sexuality. I went out with a woman that I really like she was pretty awesome and she f***** like a bunny. After she went to her High School reunion it was all over. I usually don’t give them more than three months they reveal many things in this period of time anyway. The last girl that I went out with tried using blame shame and all kinds of game and it only took me 30 Seconds To Say Goodbye with no regrets. You see I started watching Stephen molyneux and his videos about dating single mothers. I gotta say it totally changed my perspective. Not sure what I’m going to do with all this knowledge but I ain’t going to date no more single mothers.

Always expect the unexpected and gird your loins appropriately. It's a no-fault jungle out there.

[HitmanParticipant]

the love you felt NEVER EXISTED .
it’s an illusion we want to believe ..
feel good chemicals drop from the brain and we feel bliss.
once you get unplugged from the matrix you see..
love isn’t real.

[shovelheadriderParticipant 2400]

maybe going to a rave would have be better.Chemicals and parting would beat the beating and wear and tear on my heart and soul

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

When I was blue pill, I saw women for how I wanted them to be. I rationalized and excused their bad behavior.
They never loved me and I really never loved them. Men sometimes fall in love with a dream that doesn’t exist. Shortly after I was married, my wife decided that we needed a mansion. And God knows, we had to drive German cars. I had to work ridiculous hours to keep up with her credit card bills. (And just try to take away credit cards from a female.) She was never happy. No amount of money was ever enough. She considered herself morally superior.

Nice guys are lucky to survive this phase.

Life is so much better since MGTOW. I will never go back to the plantation.

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