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Hello MGTOW hello members,
I have been lurking since the end of last year reading and watching with amazement, I have contributed very little admittedly as compared to most of you I am rather unscathed.
A bit about me…I’m an early thirty year old lad born and raised in North Queensland Australia.
I grew up with both my parents until I was old enough to drive a car legally then the whole family split and I left home for Western Australia to work at sea.
I’ve never been married though have had a few longer term girlfriends, one of which lived with me for around two years. NO CHILDREN!
I have never had the intention of getting married, as far as I could tell looking at pretty much every relationship they were all doomed to failure so why bother with the drama?
My own parents had their issues such as my Father had five children to five different mothers who all are from different countries (I am the youngest with an Aussie mum hence why dad got stuck with her) not a bad effort from Dad considering he never left the country once.
My mum cheated on my dad constantly with different men some cases were literally right in his face…when we lived in Mt Isa while he worked on the mines we lived in a caravan park my mum was f~~~ing the guy in the van next door even while dad was there telling them to “shut up I have a boy here trying to sleep!” i remember while he worked i was in the pool with them and she was getting groped and kissed by this Chad f~~~ head. i was barely five yrs old.
when this happened my dad took me to the airport parked the car and left the keys in the ignition and we took a plane to New Zealand where he is from and there we stayed for about six months till mum agreed to sign me over sole custody to my dad. once this happened he decided to bite the bullet and get back with her so that he could raise me with both parents, safe in the knowledge she couldn’t take me away now.
this didn’t help their relationship one bit.
we travelled on to another town where mum slept with the local policeman who wasn’t shy about acting like a smug arsehole around my dad because of it. makes my skin crawl to think of it.
they started a business and needed a website built, mum ended up sleeping with the website designer.
there are other random blokes she slept with right under his nose that don’t need mentioning.
this all gave me a sense of instability in relationships and found it very hard to trust any woman.I make her out to be a monster but in reality i love my mum very much, i don’t think my parents were meant to be together and if it wasn’t for my birth they wouldn’t have stayed in a relationship of sorts so I am very grateful to both of them. it simply opened my eyes to how insane relationships can really be.
My Mothers brother had a wife and three daughters, He was a caring bloke who taught computer science at a local university. she was a stay at home snake in the grass typical housewife bimbo. one day she took the girls while he was at work and said she isn’t coming back til he moves out and is gone from the home. There must have been much more to this story that we don’t know as he just went and parked his car in the family homes driveway, closed the windows and opened a bottle of propane in the car and killed himself…
at this point I reread all this and feel a bit like a victim but I assure you this is the first time I have written this out and it feels good. I thank anyone involved in this site for offering a space to vent it really is a welcome opportunity.
My own dating life has been a constant revolving door of women coming and going mainly because of the work I do working on boats in both tourism and pearl diving, and also my own fears of commitment.
As much as i enjoy the chase, hooking up and having wild sex I am a complete commitment phobe and have always retreated from most girls affection when they start to get comfortable in the relationship.I have had a few relationships of a couple years with a fair amount of flings in-between them. i’ll try and bring some of my close calls to light.
When I was around 21yrs old I decided to leave Broome west Australia and drive back to north queensland, I was talking with a cute Swedish chick in a guest house we were staying at. anyway it turns out we were going the same way so I offered her a ride across the top of Australia.
Great times mad sex in the bush, rivers and beside the road middle of nowhere. should have ended there.
we got back to my home town and i got work in an old job while she worked in the local nightclub. long story short I noticed she was not as keen for sex as she was before and when we did get it on she wasn’t as tight as she should have been for the amount of f~~~ing we were doing. my mates also said she wwas calling me stupid idiot behind my back so I dumped her ass.
the next guy she got with she got pregnant too, married, got aussie passport through him and then dragged his lame ass back to sweden! enjoy the cold you stupid idiots!the latest girlfriend i recently broke i off with I was working with on a dive boat. She was a hot blonde very tanned and tempting Polish dive master who quickly saw me as a potential passport ticket into Aussie. we hit it off and had all the amazing sex and trips around exploring beautiful areas near where we lived.
A few months in and her visa was about finish so the pressure was on for me to sign a defacto contract…I always vowed i would never do it!!!
(I am awaiting the grilling from you guys and will humbly take every syllable)
After refusing to sign I was made out to be a proper s~~~ c~~~ who didn’t care about the relationship, oh my I wish I kept a diary at that stage because I was under allot of pressure then.
I signed eventually and not long after her land lord was upping her rent so she had to move out.
And what did I do???? Offered her to move in with me!!!!!
so she has moved in, there is instant tension and from then on I have the feeling like I have to walk around on egg shells as she makes the house into ‘a home’ seriously I have never seen a human transform like this and I can’t even put it into words.
She is a psychologist by profession who worked with drug and alcohol abuse victims back in London for many years. She managed to get work off the boats and in her field but this time a slightly different area of psychology….DOMESTIC VILOLENCE!
In particular dealing with the men who beat their wives.
At this stage I was actually happy for her as I had no idea how much bulls~~~ the whole domestic violence situation is in Australia.
I only started to wonder about the her work when I asked questions such as “so you know what the man did thats fine, but what did the woman do to the man to make him want to beat her?”
To that she would reply “we don’t focus on reasons, we only focus on the mens reaction to the problem”
this is the basis for most of the domestic violence issues they deal with in the office. only worry about what the man did and let the woman do as she pleases.
the only time we could discuss her work in a pleasant tone was when i listened and not ask difficult questions.
As much as I get my back up with her and what she stood for I am glad I met her and was with her for the two and a bit years as it opened my eyes to the s~~~ storm brewing in many peoples lives.
Through researching Domestic violence and mens rights I discovered MGTOW.com and many books the first being Ester Vilar’s manipulated man.
after reading quite a bit on the subject I realised that she had complete control of the contraception (quarterly injection), which was all good until I questioned it and offered to either use condoms or go and get a vasectomy…To which was met with the most amazing wall of emotional resistance I have ever seen, I had to go for a drive around town she was so angry with me.
I didn’t trust her, had commitment issues, I’m a control freak you name it it all came out.
I realised I was being manipulated at this point so the next night asked her to move out but offered to stay in a relationship but simply live seperately.
she wouldn’t have it so the next day she moved out to her friends place.I have been single now nearly six months and loving it, banged a couple randoms since then but am careful that they are leaving town in a few days and they don’t know my full name or place of residence. Calll me crazy but I still love a good banging. and am looking at a vasectomy sooner rather than later.
Some non Relations~~~ related things about me…I work as a skipper on tourist boats, love to Kite Board, mountain bike, hiking and bush camping for free. don’t drink or smoke cigarettes but partake in a bit of wacky tabacky if it is going around. play guitar and harp a bit. recently moved out of my house and into a campervan i decked out so if I’m not on the boat overnighting in the islands taking guests around I’m exploring my awesome country.
I am sensing a tongue thrashing from the older members here but at the same time welcome it. I am happy to get this off my chest in such a public place.
looking forward to getting to know you fellas a bit more and will do my best to contribute with my minimal knowledge on the common subject.Peace.
“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.” ― Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man
Anonymous43Welcome.
Anonymous1Welcome brother
Beer is in the fridge“We don’t focus on reasons, we focus on men’s reaction to the problem”
Divorce Court Summed Up
Welcome to the brotherhood
You can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
Oh my Buddha I couldn’t imagine anything worse than dealing with the divorce courts. After watching how my ex spoke about and dealt with the men in her groups you have absolutely no say in what happens to you once you have been tarnished with that brush…or whatever other brush they decide to bring out and slap you with.
Wouldn’t matter the situation the goal posts are always being moved on you, I ent up keeping a diary of our tense interactions just to see how she would change her tune on things just to f~~~ with me. Manipulation at its finest. if your stuck with a c~~~ then KEEP A DIARY AND RECORD CONVOS!!! YOU.ARE.NOT.GOING.MAD!!!“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.” ― Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man
Welcome brother.
Welcome brother, fellow diver here, have you ever dove the Yongala? It’s on my bucket list.
Don’t think you’ll get much of a tongue lashing here, you are awakened, just be careful.
"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."
Welcome bird of prey.
Our Aussie numbers are flocking to mgtow.com and it’s little wonder hearing the horror stories that our brothers from around the globe endure.
I learnt from a young age that if it’s got t~~~ or tyres it’s expensive, so I’ve managed to avoid the s~~~ show of modern marriage simply as I don’t want to live the champagne lifestyle on a beer budget.
I like to keep it real, i’m happy and don’t fit the mold. Horse bolted, too late to shut the stable gates.
"Society is to blame" Denton
bit about me…I’m an early thirty year old lad born and raised in North Queensland Australia.
Welcome bro .
A few aussies on here and some from the poofter capital Sydney that other country . There cool but . Aussie does the gay parade and hangs out with the dykes on bikes . (Humor)
For overseas people there is a riviry between QLD TOADS AND NSW C~~~ROACHES . Once a year there is the state of origin
Welcome again bro . Now stand for our anthem . Aussie anthem covers sydney as well .
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .
Welcome good sir. Your mention of Western Australia and the Visa-scamming domestic violence psychologist ex-girlfriend reminded me of this thread –
MISANDRY EXPOSED – WA Department of Child Potection And Family Support
You’ve dodged many a bullet and are wise to female nature thanks to the actions of your mother, aunt and girlfriends. Beer is in the fridge – mine’s the Iron Jack.
#ManOut
cheers for the wwarm welcome fellas!
Wally yes mate I’ve dived the Yongala a few times now, bloody amazing wreck with a sad history since all went down with her. Dive it with the mob in Port Alva if your going to do it is my only advice. and on neap tides.
Shin, the line about champagne lifestyle on a beer budget!! mate, couldn’t have said it better. for ages I looked for ways to increase my income via investments and business ideas. Now I just focus on simplification and it means I need to work less so can just cruise through life.
Oi Blade your a f~~~in legend cheers for the Aussie welcome, love the Origin clip! Go the Maroons!! be good to get to know the Aussies and hear their views MGTOW in Australia. cheers mate.
Cheers Oz-Bloke, mate that puts it in perspective I enjoyed reading your post. Dodged them I have and god only knows how.
when i lived in Broome west Aus I didn’t own a phone or e-mail account and used a fake last name in public so was completely off the radar…best years of my life.“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.” ― Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man
Anonymous13Welcome Bro,
Glad you survived the Matrix so far.
Don’t play in it too much though, too many agent Smiths out there disguised as C~~~S.
#METOO
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Anonymous12i just got to your uncle’s propane Gas session.
Stoooopppp! That’s enough. I need a break.Can anyone say “damaged Goods”.
What a Ride through Hell.
What a mess.Welcome, bird of Prey, Welcome.
Take a seat and ask M52 for one of his beers, he is hiding them in his Fridge somewhere.
Good to have you here.
Hope You can untangle some of your enigmas and find some peace.And never listen to your dick – look what it did to your dad and yourself.
My mum cheated on my dad constantly with different men some cases were literally right in his face…when we lived in Mt Isa
Welcome – by a strange coincidence I was working in the Isa when you were about born. Used to live in West Street. Every Friday at the Irish Club (haha).
Good to hear a familiar voice. Sorry about your mom and dad. No disrespect but Sheilas are the worst. I have seen these horror stories you have mentioned. Yes – they are very common.
You are damned lucky. Just hard yakka on and you’ll be fine mate.
Welcome again and join in the forums.
Welcome Bird, the strongest thing I can offer is a cream soda. Put the cork in the bottle 4 years ago. Sounds like you are living on the razor’s edge with the women folk. Kinda like playing with fire, it’s not if you get burned, but when. I was young once upon a time, I can remember back that far. Yup, I got blisters too.
I’m from Minnesota, other end of the world, am new here too. Seems like a solid bunch of guys here. Set awhile…………..OATHKEEPERS, not on our watch. MOLON LABE
by a strange coincidence I was working in the Isa when you were about born. Used to live in West Street. Every Friday at the Irish Club (haha).
oh no s~~~! i wouldn’t be able to recall the streets mate and when ive been back its only to get fuel on the way through. good to meet another aussie in here though mate!
the strongest thing I can offer is a cream soda. Put the cork in the bottle 4 years ago. Sounds like you are living on the razor’s edge with the women folk. Kinda like playing with fire
good for you mate, I’ve stopped drinking to as of two years ago…never looked back. yeah me and the chicks are like handling that liquid explosive that i can’t think of the name at the moment. it really is like managing risk such as investing in stocks but without the possibility of returns. god damn you hormones!!
“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.” ― Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man
Broome west Aus I didn’t own a phone or e-mail account and used a fake last name in public so was completely off the radar…best years of my life.
Real-life ghost, I like it. I’ve got a few mates who travelled and worked in the mines in WA before they had brain-farts and got married. Their wives don’t know half the s~~~ they got up to in the Kalgoorlie knocking-shops. Me, I’d settle for the money they dropped on Skimpies.
#ManOut
Me, I’d settle for the money they dropped on Skimpies.
makes me f~~~ing sick how much money some blokes spend on unf~~~able women…scratch that, what they spend on ANY woman!
“If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.” ― Esther Vilar, The Manipulated Man
oh no s~~~! i wouldn’t be able to recall the streets mate and when ive been back its only to get fuel on the way through. good to meet another aussie in here though mate!
No worries. All good. You must have been travelling Barkley H’way to Townsville or the other way to Darwin.
Take care when you run that route mate.
Abos can be a bit rough and its a long ways between towns.
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