Surreal moment with a single mother

[OgreParticipant 5863]

What “bad” was she willing to accept from you? She only saw the positives and balked at you pointing out that you only wanted the good. Since you only bring good, that’s why she was willing to pay up front with the P for all the positive attributes that you could bring. It’s good that you paid enough attention to that phrase. Every word matters.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[ScandinavianParticipant 590]

Single mothers can work out, the key words here are clear communication. Every time I’ve met one and the topic comes up I reply with “your kids, your problem”. That usually set things straight, and almost everyone of them will walk away, the few that still hang around most often don’t challenge that.

Though the best scenario imho is to just keep out. Sex is always expensive, one way or the other.

[WolfParticipant 890]

BlackPill wrote:

She then said, “So you want all the GOOD things, but not the BAD things”.

No surprise with that response from her. It’s an attempt at guilting you, and it’s projecting on her part. If a single mom ever said that to me, my response would be: what bad are you taking on if we form a relationship? If she answers truthfully, the answer would be: none. Therefore, she is getting all the good things, but not the bad things. She knows she’s getting the good end of the stick and, if you call her on it, she’ll project her selfishness onto you.

Anonymous wrote:

you will be made to feel responsible for not only her child, but the circumstances she made the bad choices in and worst of all you’d be expected to undo her mistakes of past.

Having dated a single mother for four years, I can attest to the above statement.

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