Struggling with MONK mode again….

[OneTrueMisfitSpectator 2690]

Westcoasttrendkill wrote:

I know how this sounds but her me out.

Star eating a lot off egggs, beans, broccoli, and peppers. Fart as much as possible around her. Maybe go a few days without taking a shower and get a nice musky smell going.

If you start to give her something that triggers a disgusted response when she gets too close, she might lose interest. Also, sneeze and don’t cover your nose or mouth.

Maybe let some boogers hang out in your nose. The whole point is to make her physically find you disgusting.

You could always tell her you just found out you have herpes. That might backfire if she gossips around work though.

If you really want the affection to stop, you have to take some uncomfortable measures.

Greatest post in the history of this forum. You my friend win the internet! Congrats!

Don't care

[JVBParticipant]

Phoenix is 100%. Young man. F~~~ this bitch and move along. Easy peezy.

Peace is > piece.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I would tell her at work that you couldn’t go out for drinks with her as she has a serious boyfriend and how would it look at work?

Just say “NO”.

Stop falling in love with a married woman. What are you thinking? (I know she’s not actually married yet).

What’s next? Will you knock her up so she can have her boyfriend raise your child? Pay her child-amony for 18, no make that 26 years?

It’s stroking your ego but this will sink you. You’re already going down, we’re trying to throw you a life line.

Will you take it? Let us know what your going to name the kid, otherwise.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I once dated a woman from work. When she showed up at my door I almost had a heart attack when it occurred to me that all my personal business would be broadcast at work on a daily basis, I let her in and we fell asleep watching TV on the couch.

Never again.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

Guys need to learn to stop thinking with their dicks. If I can be Monk for the past 42 years, then I can’t see why any other male can’t be. You just need to adjust your mind-set.

[MonkParticipant 16996]

NomadicExpat wrote:

This f~~~ing WHORE. She’s literally looking at houses with her boyfriend. Talking about a mortgage. And she wants to buy me (potential Chad) drinks and likely a blowjob or more tomorrow night. Secret rendevous.

You said it. WHORE.

If she will do this now, she is capable of absolutely anything. That includes dialling 911 when she gets bored with you or you try to end it.

[MonkParticipant 16996]

sjt1975 wrote:

Guys need to learn to stop thinking with their dicks. If I can be Monk for the past 42 years, then I can’t see why any other male can’t be. You just need to adjust your mind-set.

Exactly.

See sex for what it is. Then bin it.

[trader1913Participant 1577]

This is really sad. The fact that you’ve written out a monologue shows that you have got some serious mental blocks. Add to this that you are in your 30s…

Keep things completely professional if you want, f~~~ her if you want, just stop this in-between bulls~~~.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

I pointed this out few times, NGF (no f~~~s given) makes women more drawn to the guy. By not caring, you are becoming more attractive and to be honest, it’s not only a woman’s trait to like a challenge, us men have been f~~~ed over again and again because whenever a woman is hard to get, we think she is something special.

You are currently acting bad ass, women like that, so you will be tempted again and again, so just be careful out there and always use a condom, if you decide to go for it.

[Anonymous 3]

I would be careful with the “monk” expression. A monk is someone that has taken a vow of celibacy for religious reasons. In this sense, to break a vow is a spiritual fault.
That I know of, MGTOW has no vow or code to break. At most you have warnings, and everyone saying that you will get screwed…

A decision to not engage in relationships with women is taken for logic reasons. And logic dictates that you do not follow this relationship, as you yourself concluded.

Yet this is another example where it becomes hard to jump out of an impending train wreak involving women. They have no problem themselves, as they just act cold like YOU have done something wrong… No explanations needed, and they can even make up a pack of lies just to feel better about some wrong you didnt do.

But a man? For social reasons and personal integrity, he cannot easily avoid a motivated woman.

How hard is it to say “I want nothing to do with you, you have a boyfriend, act honorably“?

Yes, the scorned woman thing… Even without starting a relationship you already have an ax over your head. She can already stir trouble for you in the working place… Better be careful and not cross her…

My advise is to get a professional and f~~~ her brains out. Then forget about the girl, the date, everything. Downplay it.

And thank you for bringing this up, even considering what Phoenix had to say. He is right, of course, you cannot completely let go of what you desire. And in a battle of the mind against the dick, the dick has the advantage. So, we must kill the desire with experience.

[StealthParticipant 5345]

Something came up and I can’t meet for drinks today.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

: We should go have some drinks after work!
: Is your boyfriend coming too?

[IRuleMeParticipant]

sjt1975 wrote:

Guys need to learn to stop thinking with their dicks. If I can be Monk for the past 42 years, then I can’t see why any other male can’t be. You just need to adjust your mind-set.

Everyone is different, young grasshopper.

[Red KnightParticipant 720]

You are probably already aware of this, but you are thinking with the wrong head.

Do not further contemplate this until you jerk one off. All answers will be made more clear when you do that.

Formerly MoneyOverBitches

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Just tell her you practice Broke-Fu.

If s~~~ does happen she will be gossiping to her girlfriends and maybe guy friends. You will be talked about and word will be spread. Or worse a false rape accusation. Anyways man play it cool and tell her you aren’t interested in drinking or hanging out.

But your inner nature is probably telling you otherwise. Well, gross yourself out what females do. Like blades post here of STDs. Best of luck

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Anonymous 12]

NomadicExpat wrote:

Morlock wrote:

“She told me about three weeks ago she had a dream about me. Nothing sexual, but that I was in her dream and I had called her to tell her about something stupid. I’ve never called her, texted her, snapchatted or anything else. Never”

For me that would be the clincher right there. Can YOU imagine telling HER that same thing and getting away with it?

The playing field is not level and as this is work related I just don’t think it would be worth the risk. Is there a brothel you can go to instead?

The catch about my workplace is my boss and I are really good friends (long before I worked there) and he’s actually tried to encourage me to hit on her. He’s unfortunately heavily blue pilled and thinks I need a girl to be happy. He’s the type that just wouldn’t understand The Red Pill, so I don’t even bother.

The work situation is not the main problem. To me the morality of it is, plus the aftermath. What happens next?

I know me. I can’t only get one blowjob. That s~~~ just DOESN’T happen.

This really p~~~es me off. I was enjoying the very casual flirt. Why ruin it? F~~~!!

I get it, at the moment she is idealized in your mind in some way because you don’t know her. Not really anyway. And what does happen next if you f~~~ her? How do you extricate yourself from the whole thing without damage?

I would just say no and find someone else. They are all the same anyway.

[Anonymous 14]

Anonymous wrote:

“She told me about three weeks ago she had a dream about me. Nothing sexual, but that I was in her dream and I had called her to tell her about something stupid. I’ve never called her, texted her, snapchatted or anything else. Never”

For me that would be the clincher right there. Can YOU imagine telling HER that same thing and getting away with it?

The playing field is not level and as this is work related I just don’t think it would be worth the risk. Is there a brothel you can go to instead?

This^ Nomadic Expat. Go Jedi Monkmode. Oh, and Blade’s videos too. Yes, Blades vids. It is medicine.

[MaddladParticipant 765]

She’s just playing you bro, just ghost her and if she says anything at work just say ” Oh i thought you were joking coz you have a boyfriend”. 🙂

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Haven’t someone made an app that remove makeup from a woman?

Time to put that app to good use. If not her mother / grandmother picture will do to as that is what she will become in a few years.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Remove me!Participant]

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

Alcohol + Sex = Rape Accusation = Conviction

Yep, back in the old days I’d say go for drinks and get you some! Now, I’m not even worried about STDs or pregnancy anymore. I’m scared of going to jail for sexual assault!

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

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