Struggling

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

I am also 35 so I get you mate.
Its not a balancing act of that I am afraid. Its harder:
How do you balance what you instinctively desire (sex, a woman, kids) vs what you know is good for you for a logical standpoint (MGTOW).

It took me a while but I did actually figure it out. But you aint gonna like the answer (all real pills are hard to swallow):
-100% percent honesty with giving the reason why (not at work, thats probably bad).

See, your family knows all the MGTOW s~~~ you know. They just had to live marriage to know. They had to have kids to know. You figured it out b4 trying it (kinda like people who dont try drugs).
Would they want to go back? not have a family? kids? No.
But it drives them nuts everyday.

so… WHY WOULD THEY NOT WANT TO GO BACK? Same as you, they got a set of conflicting ideas fighting over it… but they never made a conscious choice, because they only knew the cons after the fact.

With 100% honesty you will attract people who think the same way you do, there is even a chance you WILL want a family with a person like that. But you are gonna be looking for a VERY long time.
And when that time comes, you will know that this is your best shot at it.
Why? Because if you are always honest with a person, the second they are honest about themselves and they get rewarded for it, you start creating a bond that might actually mean something.

Forget love, think trust.

If you EVER have doubts, about MGTOW, about a girl, about ANYTHING, always ask yourself “Why do i want this”.

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