Story Time: The last date I went on before MGTOW

[nonameParticipant 746]

Anonymous wrote:

We project a whole range of wonderful values onto pretty faces.
I’ll even admit I used to daydream about idealized long term relationships probably based on subconscious ideals from romantic Hollywood movies.
We were always our own worst enemies. Women mostly only supplied the eye candy and conflicting hints of virtue and desire.

Same thing here, it’s the chemicals they do wonders and then the crash when truth comes out.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[TwistParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

A massive bullet dodged.

You lucky bastard.

I’d thank her the next time I ran into her.

🙂

[DocParticipant]

As said above, it’s life experiences thst shape our views Buck.

She taught you a lesson through the lives experience and helped you on your way to becoming a MGTOW.

Again as said above things ended when she decided to go out without you when she should have stuck with you that evening.

But ever the women – always seeking more excitement.
She probably had you bagged as reserve for a rainy day when all the chaos had gone.
A safe bet. But she would have raped you and left you for dead.

We all know that becoming and remaining a MGTOW is the purest and safest path to walk.
For all a woman has to potentially offer she has so much potential to take far more away.
Remain sovereign.
Pat yourself on the back when you over come momentary weakness.

We are brothers who side by side ‘fight’ the bitches.

It sickens me how much women have abused their so-called emancipation from ‘Male oppression’

I shake my head.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

noname wrote:

You were lucky.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

But, f~~~ dating, only way to go is not play the rigged, male hating, no upside for men, game.

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

Imagine how man guys here wish their situations only cost them one night/one dinner.

All true. I’m so happy it didn’t last, but I was still sort of left broken hearted. At that point I figured something was either wrong with me or something was wrong with the way I viewed the world.

I finally realized I had put the pussy on the pedastool

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[StealthParticipant 5326]

From the highest highs, to the lowest lows. Thank you for sharing that gut-wrenching story.

My story is similar . . . A #10 church girl, pillar of the community type with whom I played the long game…that game being violence, extraction of my resources, and a downward spiral of chad circusry.

Once you see that the perfect girl is the s~~~tiest person you have ever met, you learn it’s probably going to happen with all of them, and there is no hope of redemption.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Doc wrote:

She taught you a lesson through the lives experience and helped you on your way to becoming a MGTOW.

Yeah I don’t really remember that well but I’m pretty sure I started google searching other dudes’ bad dates and s~~~ and that’s when someone on reddit mentioned sandman. And then bam I eventually found this awesome website. So yeah it was a great event I guess!

Stealth wrote:

Once you see that the perfect girl is the s~~~tiest person you have ever met, you learn it’s probably going to happen with all of them, and there is no hope of redemption.

I think that’s the biggest red pill for me: even the “good girls” who seem all innocent because they aren’t sexualized are still horrible people.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Anonymous 13]

Remember Buck, it really is them, NOT you.

[StealthParticipant 5326]

The pig reference is very à propos.

This woman reminds me of the proverb,
“A beautiful woman without good sense is like a gold ring in a pig’s snout.”

That is what you kept running into in the grocery store: A pig.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

@buckfitches

My brother, she is just hoping to reserve you for Plan B. Women always have a plan B…

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[nonameParticipant 746]

BuckFitches wrote:

I finally realized I had put the pussy on the pedastool

We were conditioned to believe it, realisation that it is not so hurts and changes perspective on things.
I for one am grateful to know the truth as it will keep me from doing s~~~ i would only regret in the future.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Brother, true love exists, but don’t expect it from women ! NEVER !

Have a dog, a children, a brother, this can be true love, why ? There is no second intentions !

Relationship with women HAVE second intentions, from you and from her ! Whoever “perfect” women you find in your life, if you got together, form a family, whatever you do, will be that, with an goal, and possibly her goal is to have the most profit from it !

Want love, adopt a dog ! Want disgrace, well, then you go with c~~~s !

If there is, or there isn’t a unicorn out there, the chances are so low, that you will die before finding one, but before dying, you will work as a slave to pay alimony, and have to deal with tons of bulls~~~ everyday.

MGTOW is the way out of it, just walk away, ignore the search for the unicorn, and do whatever else you want to do.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

Expecting love from a woman is a fantasy. An exception might be our own mother.

They didn’t love you, they don’t love you, they will never love you. They love what you can provide: feelings, humor, attention, status, and money.

You are simply an utility, nothing more.

Relationship with a woman is a transaction. Women know so well; it is just men thinking a true love with them exist.

[DocParticipant]

Solid wrote:

MGTOW is the way out of it, just walk away, ignore the search for the unicorn, and do whatever else you want to do.

That is the truth right there.

To remove the search and the open mind that goes with maybe one day finding the one is hugely emancipating.

It cuts so much s~~~ from our minds.
Reduces the level of uncertainty and gives us greater self mastery over our futures.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Murinees wrote:

They love what you can provide: feelings, humor, attention, status, and money.

You are simply an utility, nothing more.

For those who claim the opposite, I use to show them some real data, comparing the event of the man losing his job, and how it increases the divorce chances.

There is a reason to the expression no money no honey be so popular ! Get fired, will possibly lead to your ass being raped in your divorce

[ButchiParticipant 88]

BuckFitches wrote:

Butchi wrote:

You should have removed her from your life immediately after she asked you to leave.

You’re right. Don’t worry about me though, I’M GOING MY OWN F~~~ING WAY!!!!!!!

Even thinking of taking a girl on a date makes me want to puke now. It’s like letting a wild snake rest on your shoulders.

The anger will pass, the best thing you can work on is just not giving a f~~~ about dating anymore, then you will experience the true meaning of freedom, cutting all those useless bitches from their source of energy – attention.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[ButchiParticipant 88]

Solid wrote:

Brother, true love exists, but don’t expect it from women ! NEVER !

Have a dog, a children, a brother, this can be true love, why ? There is no second intentions !

Relationship with women HAVE second intentions, from you and from her ! Whoever “perfect” women you find in your life, if you got together, form a family, whatever you do, will be that, with an goal, and possibly her goal is to have the most profit from it !

Want love, adopt a dog ! Want disgrace, well, then you go with c~~~s !

If there is, or there isn’t a unicorn out there, the chances are so low, that you will die before finding one, but before dying, you will work as a slave to pay alimony, and have to deal with tons of bulls~~~ everyday.

MGTOW is the way out of it, just walk away, ignore the search for the unicorn, and do whatever else you want to do.

I really like your idea, but the problem is you still need that unstable vagina carrier if you want a child.
Getting a dog is the best option here, in my opinion. The dog will love you no matter what, money or no money, sick or well. That is what the true love means and I agree with you.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Butchi wrote:

you still need that unstable vagina carrier if you want a child.

this is something I struggle with. If I get rich as f~~~ I’ll pay for an american surrogate mother

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[JosephParticipant 274]

You should be really happy. You missed out on some greatly gross stds right there. You saved yourself. She did you a big favor.

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[Anonymous 12]

And I’m sitting there feeling my heart be ripped open.

Next time you will feel relief that you dodged a bullet.
An Artillery barrage.

the red pill is not an easy one to swallow.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

“and I’m sitting there feeling my heart be ripped open.”

Remember, this feeling is your weapon against exploitation.
You can never be fooled again by the pretty face.
You are now a stronger and independent man.
It may seem inappropriate but congratulations.

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

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