Story Time: The last date I went on before MGTOW

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Gentlemen, the last date I went on was perfect -I am one smooth mother f~~~er. However, I will never take this chick or any chick on a date again because of how it ended and it’s no wonder that I became MGTOW about 1 month after this happened. I still believed that not all women are like that and I continued to search for my unicorn. Instead of finding a unicorn though I found Sandman and some MGTOW redditors that spoke way too much truth.

How we met
Me and this chick have a great story of how we met and that’s one reason I wanted things to work out so badly. We live in the same neighborhood and kept running into each other while doing errands. I started saying hi and calling her by name and then eventually just asked for her number so we could go on a date. By this point she had met my friends, my sister, and my mom because I had ran into her when I was with those people. And I had met her mom too. So while we barely knew each other it also felt like we we’re long time friends.

I really wanted the date to go well because this girl was so friendly, well-spoken, and had a good relationship with her mom. Plus my mom and sister really liked her when they met. It was too perfect.

Then being the blue-piller loser I was before MGTOW, I did everything “right” for our date (which I now realize means I probably did everything wrong, but we’ll see). I opened the door, paid for dinner, was polite and stuff. We had an amazing time at dinner and connected really well. I made her laugh a lot and she looked at me with those, “I want you so bad” kind of eyes.

Then she brought up the idea of going back to her place for some drinks. At this point my opinion of her is really positive. I thought she was the nicest prettiest girl -a real unicorn. We had a couple drinks and made out on her couch for a while. I took her shirt off but she wouldn’t let me take her bra off.

Next thing you know, around 10PM her friend calls and she insists that she has to answer this. They talk on the phone for about 5 minutes -while she is in the bathroom. It was a private conversation. She comes out of the bathroom and says, “Want to go out tonight?” I said, “No.” She tried to convince me and I didn’t want to go because bars and night clubs bore me.

Then she basically asks if the date can be over so she can get ready to go out really fast. I said that would be cool and left. It only bothered me a little at this point because it’s her right to go out if she wants to. And it was our first date so I didn’t think we we’re going to have sex or anything. It wasn’t a bad time to end the date.

So the next day I wake up and my friends have texted me that they saw the girl I went on a date with at the bars last night. They talked to her and her friend, both we’re absolutely wasted. Great.

Here’s where it gets juicy…
The next night after my date I was having a party at my apartment. My friends who saw my date were there and so was my date.

This all happens right in front of me while I’m silently listening. And this is the sweet girl I had just taken out the night before who didn’t let me take her bra off. And I don’t know if she purposely said it so I could hear, but there’s a small chance she didn’t know I was even listening.

My friend asks my date how she survived last night because she seemed wasted. She says, “yeah last night was crazy I went home with 3 guys and woke up next to one of them.”

“Was he naked?”

“Yeah”

“Were you naked?”

“Yeah”

And I’m sitting there feeling my heart be ripped open. At this point in my life I still believed in true love and crap like that so I felt like I was just being s~~~ all over. I remember asking myself, “Why would she do this after our perfect date?”

“Why would she seem so interested in having a real relationship with me, just to go f~~~ some chad later that night?”

“Why do I have tons of feelings for this bitch?”

I still didn’t know her that well and we had only hung out once, but I had so many feelings for her. I felt like I was being used and abused. I had this image of who she was in my head that’s based off of a world where hollywood love is real. But the truth is gentlemen, Women just want attention and to ride the dick carousel. That’s their dream.

I was the real deal. I wanted everything women claim to want and I thought that was going to nail me a unicorn for sure, but it didn’t.

The last date I went on is not the only s~~~ty date I’ve been on, but it’s the last one I went on before discovering MGTOW and really going my own way a month later.

I sort of forgot about it, but I ran into that chick again and she asked why I never called her again… Seriously bitch? I said “I’m not looking for a relationship right now.”

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[ghostParticipant]

I have said this many times before, you do not truly find MGTOW until you have been through some real life experiences. It is similar to finding God in your life.

Remain strong, BuckFitches.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

ghost wrote:

Remain strong, BuckFitches.

I can’t do it alone my friend. That’s why I’m grateful for my MGTOW brothers

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Anonymous 1]

I had a similar experience once with a chick I met at Church.

AWALT

[Anonymous 13]

When she she spent that time on the phone while she was with you and decided to go out with or without you, that was the End right there.

You were dead in the water.

She disrespected you.

Game over.

[Anonymous 13]

She also just likely wanted you for beta bucks etc.

She gets her tingles from Chad attention while wasted.

She’s no good and never will be.

A massive bullet dodged.

[Anonymous 13]

To be more concise.

She’s just another c~~~.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

It has changed so much so fast. Most of what we say on here has always applied to women but once upon a time if you got them to agree to a date their attention was yours, for an evening anyway. This is why I stopped dating because in the age of the smart phone no one commits to any plans and just up and leaves when they think they got a better offer.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Now, YOU KNOW !!!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 13]

Be assured the smartphone was the FINAL NAIL.

Smartphone finally ended it.

Good.

[ButchiParticipant 88]

You should have removed her from your life immediately after she asked you to leave. Do not ever trust a woman. As we say in our country, the way to hell is paved with good intensions.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[Anonymous 5]

BuckFitches wrote:

I did everything “right” for out date (which I now realize means I probably did everything wrong,

Exactly. The timing of her being Chad f~~~ed on the same night as your sweet date is probably the real reason your eyes were opened far earlier than most.

BuckFitches wrote:

I had this image of who she was in my head

Few of us acknowledge that we “join the dots” in a fairy tale manner.
We project a whole range of wonderful values onto pretty faces.
I’ll even admit I used to daydream about idealized long term relationships probably based on subconscious ideals from romantic Hollywood movies.
We were always our own worst enemies. Women mostly only supplied the eye candy and conflicting hints of virtue and desire.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Anonymous wrote:

When she she spent that time on the phone while she was with you and decided to go out with or without you, that was the End right there.

I know this to be true. It all felt fishy. She probably knew I’d say “no” to going out and that was probably a way to get rid of me.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Butchi wrote:

You should have removed her from your life immediately after she asked you to leave.

You’re right. Don’t worry about me though, I’M GOING MY OWN F~~~ING WAY!!!!!!!

Even thinking of taking a girl on a date makes me want to puke now. It’s like letting a wild snake rest on your shoulders.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

You should be eternally grateful for that Chad pumping her.

If that had actually developed into a relationship with her, it could have gone all the way and you could be stuck with child support, alimony and losing half of your s~~~, if not your sanity.

You should find the guy who f~~~ed her, and get him a beer.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Anonymous wrote:

I used to daydream about idealized long term relationships probably based on subconscious ideals from romantic Hollywood movies.

Yeah man me too. Especially during school.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

Ranger One wrote:

You should find the guy who f~~~ed her, and get him a beer.

haha i don’t know if I’ll take things that far, but I’m grateful for my friend asking the right questions.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

Its these double standards.

Men playing the field are awful, need to grow up, get their dicks under control. Women do everything to hide the fact they play he field, so they can f~~~ like pigs AND hypocritically rip on men for their dating.

You know, the dating that would not even occur because over 90% of dates only even happen because a guy asks a girl out. I suppose that is the hamsters rationale that men always have sex on the brain because they women too s~~~less to ask a guy out and possibly be rejected. Cant have the hamster work that hard to repair the shattered personal images.

But, f~~~ dating, only way to go is not play the rigged, male hating, no upside for men, game.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[nonameParticipant 746]

You were lucky.
Imagine that you wasted few years on her, believing her lies while she f~~~s around on girls night out, consider the pain.
Not to mention marriage and having kids with her.

AWALT ! avoid!

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

In hindsight its a great story, she voluntarily disconnected from you and it was completely done. Price of never having a monkeybranching hypergamy slut gold digger in your life again was one night, one dinner.

Imagine how man guys here wish their situations only cost them one night/one dinner.

You also were spared a lifetime of a potential std. She jumped into bed with another guy that night. Drunk. How many dozens of diseased c~~~s ran through her before that?

And now you can clearly see just how serious it was, and what a truly awful deal it was, because you are not a beta chasing pussy as the ultimate goal in your life.

You dodged a huge bullet.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

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