Stop Explaining Yourself

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

= Why don’t you get married? Man up!

= You are not woman enough to make me.

No other explanation necessary. Hamster always tries to make it your fault, just turn the tables on them.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

It is a great thread & I am compelled to do some serious introspective.

Thanks for posting it!

[Anonymous 3]

I think it’s part of the lack of sovereignty of man today that men must always be pressured to acknowledge what everyone says and answer them. Women don’t feel that way, a woman will attack a person for stupid questions or outright ignore them and just not say anything.

Men of the past used to be that way too. Heck my father would be like that as well, he wouldn’t say anything unless you said something useful or intelligent.

Problem is at work or at school etc. men feel pressured to always answer. It wasn’t like that in the past. Maybe you’d have to answer a superior, but the people on your level you’d never have to answer. And women were not superiors in the past either, so you never had to answer them.

Men of today need to re-learn that. I do an okay job of it sometimes but I have to do better too.

At work it’s good to wear headphones and ignore people a lot.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

I got called out on this yesterday on this website. I explain myself when I think I have been misunderstood but I think we all do. One must explain to clear the air at times. See, I am already doing it again. Things ARE cleared up and I hope I never go through that crap again! Since I am temporarily laid off, I am spending time on this site trying to learn more so I won’t have to explain myself, make apologies or unknowingly start p~~~ing contests so much. I suppose there will be times I may have tell someone to f~~~ themselves as well, that doesn’t need explanation.

Still, I understand what is being said on this thread and it has wise advice about dealing with those popping blue pills. If someone on red pills can turn the explanation around, it might get those on blue pills to blow a fuse and perhaps even think beyond their training. We all know the truth sets us free as it p~~~es us off.

[Anonymous 3]

Thats the NEW GAME I learned & I play it well today

sidecar wrote:

Always ask: “What’s in it for me?”

thanks for this post & all the responses

[MGTOW_MedicParticipant 184]

“Man Up!!” and “Face Reality!!”

These statements as of late have been a huge pet peeve for me. I don’t want to be that guy who has “trigger words.” But, those statements really are starting to burn me. You seriously have men in droves going their own way, washing their hands of women and your solution is to intimidate them and poke at them?! I’m no cringing nihilist, I don’t want the world to burn, but it seems as if humanity is charging pridefully into their own demise.

I guess that old Bible Proverb was right: Pride Cometh before the destruction. A haughty spirit before a fall. Book of Proverbs 16:18

1. I don’t think the nature of reality is so easily defined. While there is an objective (Matter Energy Space and Time) reality. There are also subjective realities of individuals. Not everyone see or perceives the same way. So much of our current reality, between people, tends to be an agreed reality. Attempting to understand reality has kept philosophers busy for thousands of years. Yet, some modern millennial stuck up woman, or emasculated cuck just says of the cuff: “You need to face reality!” Of course they aren’t looking at in as in-depth as I am. However, there is a silliness to me in brow beating someone to face “reality”

Face Reality thus generally means, You need to agree with my perspective. I usually, reply with “Face Reality? What the hell are talking about?”

2. “Man up” What a sure fire way of not only encouraging a man to walk away, but also an effective way of getting a nice “F~~~ you asshole” while he’s walking away. When did any woman think this statement was effective? Even when I was on the plantation this phrase was like nails on a chalkboard to me. It irritated the crap out of me. This is used by c~~~s and cucks alike to intensionally antagonize someone into doing what you want them to do.

MGtOW_Medic - EMT - P, Firefighter Lvl 2, Hazmat Ops

[Anonymous 3]

I am the guy with the big secret that no one else can understand is a great way to put it. I live that way. I don’t smirk, I don’t shake my head, I don’t explain, I wait until the moment is right & I walk quietly away.
Sometimes, ( admittedly ) with well directed & pointed “F~~~ YOU” depending on the situation. I’m nobody’s fool

[Anonymous 3]

How about this one ” It’s time for you to put your big boy pants on” That was a fashionable way to put down & shame a man both at the same time a little while back.
That’s when a F~~~ you is called for in my subjective reality.
The natural state is sovereignty for a man & MGTOW provides & teaches that. It is our natural state. Kings without a country. Masters of our selves

[Anonymous 3]

I’ve seen people who in spite of rational arguments, raw data, and sound reasoning, live demonstrations, will never accept your view point or opinion. The best they have is, “I’ll never understand why. . . ” The best response that I’ve seen is to do your own thing, be the best, and depending if your up for it, go public and succeed in what you do. That s~~~ drives people insane. The same person who mocked you, verbally abused you, is going to be the same exact guy who s~~~s himself if he ever sees you in the front page of Forbes magazine with the typical responses of:

It’s the current year!

I’m ashamed of my (insert country here)

I can’t believe there are still people like this.

A man like this should not be in a position of power.

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

<That’s interesting. Why would you ASK that?”
• “That’s interesting. Why would you SAY that?”
• “That’s interesting. Why would you DO that?”
• “That’s interesting. Why would you THINK that?”>

Excellent suggestion! I’ve been asked the question numerous times over the last 8 years, and I’ve always sort of fumbled with a good answer. This will work wonderfully. It’s Jiu-Jitsu in its purest form.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

: ‘Man up!’
: ‘You must be desperate if that’s your best arguement. *troll grin* ‘

This way you’re flipping the shaming on them and pointing out their insecurity and revealing their pettiness.

Also the good ol’ fashioned ‘Why?’ until they get fed up and leave you alone.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[DwightDavidParticipant 859]

The op was one of the best posts I have ever read. It is true, I find myself getting a little defensive when confronted with those questions. KMs responses are great, as it puts the onus back on them. where it should be. I am going to start using these. Except at work, where I will just say that it is inappropriate for the workplace.

[WestcoasttrendkillParticipant 234]

If someone is questioning you and p~~~ing you off, try and fart and stare them right in the eye with dead silence. Don’t blink or move or say anything until they do.

If they don’t get it, nothing you can say will get through to them.

[Anonymous 12]

I totally agree. I don’t talk much but as a colleague once told me, “You don’t have to talk much do you?” I apparently have a very annoyed and nasty look on my face a lot of the time.

I get out of answering lots of questions just by looking at people as if they are f~~~ing idiots. They tend not to ask too much after that.

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