Still Have Bad Dreams…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Not often, maybe once or twice a year, I still have bad dreams about an ex. It’s was only a nasty break-up nearly 30 years ago but it’s still in my subconscious.

I mention this because I want to know if others experience this too. Is this normal? Other than waking up feeling like s~~~, it’s not really a problem. I just think that it might be a little unusual. And it’s the only dream that I ever have about women. This one particular ex is the only woman that ever enters my dreams and it always ends with an argument or a fight. There is never anything pleasant in this dream. It’s always just bad.

I think this is why I no longer have any need, want or desire to ever again be with another woman. I know now that this will never change. This one bad memory seems to have pretty much eliminated any feelings that I might otherwise have toward women. Maybe this is a good thing???

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

When you touch the stove you learn it is a bad idea. Once burned by a woman I think it is a sign of intelligence that you realize that this is not a one off and AWALT.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Autolite wrote:

Maybe this is a good thing???

I would consider your “memories” as on Board Red Pills.

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[iMickey503Participant 12466]

30 years ago. We need some eternal sunshine of the spotless mind right now.

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[RhinoParticipant 3477]

For the first year or two after the break up it was rough but after that over time it slowly decreased. Now I never dream about her or any other woman I was with before. I wouldn’t worry to much about it if it is only a couple of times of year just think of it as your mind purging your soul of dark thoughts and bad dreams.

[Anonymous 3]

Women break men psychologically in marriage. They achieve this thorough stress, unpredictabliblity, lack of logic and gaslighting.

What you have is scars, like a combat veteran that relieve the traumas…

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

I do, not often. Once some times twice a year, which might in an ironic way be tied to mgtow. Others talk about their divorce I sometimes add in my own point or experience.

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[BubParticipant 1411]

30 years ago?
That bitch is a worn out boner killer by now.
F~~~ her grand daughter and wipe your dick on the curtain…

Just rolling down the road

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

I have what I call the escape dream all the time. I am with the ex and trying to leave, but cannot for whatever reason. Usually it is because I cannot find something or a catastrophe happens. Very odd.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I don’t very often, but when she’s in them it’s more like we are back together and she’s just slid her way right back into my life. And I’m looking at her like “what the hell are you doing here?” And I’m trying to figure out how she slithered back into my life. And if anything remotely sexual starts happening like she tries to kiss me and I’m wide awake.

Battle scars and red pills, battle scars and red pills. Hell that might be a good country song!

Order the good wine

[RomulusParticipant 4667]

Autolite wrote:

Not often, maybe once or twice a year, I still have bad dreams about an ex. It’s was only a nasty break-up nearly 30 years ago but it’s still in my subconscious.I mention this because I want to know if others experience this too. Is this normal?

I think its very normal. Happens to me on rare occasion and its been 18 years.

For a lot of us men, divorce is perhaps the single most traumatic psychological/emotional event we’ve experienced. What would be strange is if it didn’t make a very deep impression, and one that stays with us on some basis, for the rest of our lives.

How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.

[WPLParticipant 2390]

I never had dreams involving my ex-wife until well over a year had passed since she’d left. Since then, it happens occasionally. Their frequency has neither increased nor decreased since then. Overall, my sleep has been fairly poor since the divorce, despite sticking to a set schedule and aiming to get at least 7 hours of sleep per night. I rarely have trouble falling asleep; my problem is waking up multiple times in the very early hours of the morning (3 to 5 am) and generally being very groggy until about lunchtime. A big part of the problem is being forced into a schedule by work that is very far out of sync with my normal biological rhythms (most of my employers in the past have been somewhat more flexible, since my productivity isn’t based directly on “ass-in-the-chair” time, as an old boss used to call it).

[AutoliteParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

30 years ago. We need some eternal sunshine of the spotless mind right now.

Alzheimer’s would be a fix I guess.

Romulus wrote:

I think its very normal. Happens to me on rare occasion and its been 18 years.

Reading the replies tells me that I’m not the only one. It helps knowing that it’s ‘not just me’…

[AutoliteParticipant]

WPL wrote:

my problem is waking up multiple times in the very early hours of the morning (3 to 5 am) and generally being very groggy until about lunchtime.

I think that this is normal and that it comes with age. I might sleep through an entire night maybe once a year. Normally I’m up at least once between 1 a.m. and 4 a.m. every night. Often twice a night…

[AutoliteParticipant]

TaxGuy wrote:

And if anything remotely sexual starts happening like she tries to kiss me and I’m wide awake.

Any sex in my ‘ex dream’ is either interrupted or otherwise ends badly. I’m thinking that that’s part of the reason why there’s no longer any desire…

[AutoliteParticipant]

Romulus wrote:

For a lot of us men, divorce is perhaps the single most traumatic psychological/emotional event we’ve experienced. What would be strange is if it didn’t make a very deep impression, and one that stays with us on some basis, for the rest of our lives.

I don’t think most guys realize the emotional scar that it can leave until after the fact. Time heals but not 100%. One of my divorced buddies can’t bear to be in the same town as his ex. Not even temporarily…

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

I can relate – the last relations~~~ and all the crazy narc stuff/mind-f~~~ of everything left me quite traumatised. Much sleeping problems. I am much better now but not quite back to fully normal sleep. A friend told me to write out the memories and burn them as a technique to cleanse the mind.

WPL wrote:

I rarely have trouble falling asleep; my problem is waking up multiple times in the very early hours of the morning (3 to 5 am) and generally being very groggy until about lunchtime.

Magnesium citrate can help with sleep. Melatonin also. Self hypnosis for sleep can be a useful technique also.

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[CarnageParticipant 22113]

It naver really leaves you, it wont go away ever, but you can not give a f~~~, go totally insane… Or both.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 1]

The other day, I had a nightmare about an abusive School Teacher. Over 20 years ago and still having nightmares from that s~~~.

[iMickey503Participant 12466]

Autolite wrote:

iMickey503 wrote:

30 years ago. We need some eternal sunshine of the spotless mind right now.

Alzheimer’s would be a fix I guess.

Romulus wrote:

I think its very normal. Happens to me on rare occasion and its been 18 years.

Reading the replies tells me that I’m not the only one. It helps knowing that it’s ‘not just me’…

It helps knowing that it’s ‘not just me’… Dude. We are NOT here cuz the buffet is amazing. Keymaster does not cook that well.

Dude I’m so f~~~ed up, I have to stay alone as MUCH as Possible. Sometimes, for brief periods I forget where I am. I zone out completely.

I see a car that looks like or resembles the one that I know of, I go right back. My “DayDreams” and Nightmares are so vivid, I can almost. Smell , taste and feel just like I am there.

And for some f~~~ed up reason, I have the same one. And I can never get out. I can never change it. Each and every time I Wake up, I am so angry I Jump up. So full of rage.. I had to leave my house bro. Go on the road and just hope I can hide out from people.

If you seen my videos, I have this Happy demeanor. That’s what happens when you hit rock bottom bro. You no longer are you anymore. That person you have become has to hide. But oh the PAIN. God your heart just never recovers from it. It just f~~~ing hurts to live. But your dreams. My god, the ones that you wake up and realize that it was not true. Your Dream that it was all a bad nightmare… But you wake up going. Wait.. Nope. Nightmares don’t hurt like this. Nope, this life is real.

What I can tell you , is that there someone watching. Someone is looking. I have not figured this out. But you are never really alone. Its never really quiet. There is always someone there. Something.

I wonder if that is the people who hurt has, and how they have to watch what they did. THe devious part is I wonder if they enjoy it.

One thing I can tell you. There is no Devil and he makes no deals.

There is no hell. Because at least in hell, you know you can do nothing about being there. And there is no heaven I can see. Just an Endless loop.
That is the nightmare. No never be able to escape.

The worst dream I ever had, was the one that I woke up and realized that the happy family day was all a joke. A F~~~ING CRUEL JOKE.

You also never seem to stop thinking or fantasizing about what life would be like if it was just like what you thought it would be. Seeing your kids open presents, Seeing your Grandkids happy to be read stories in your lap. Singing them songs to go to bed. All of the things you wish were true.

See, one day, machines will truly reach intelligence and self awareness. That’s not the end of days. Its when the machines learn what Pain is. Not the scrape or bruise. But the kind of pain only MAN can feel.

There will be a day that the machines do indeed take over. That day, will be the best day of my life. A life where I get to raise my kids. See them grow, and all of them are still here.

One day, I am going to wake up, and this is ALL going to be a bad nightmare. No more pain. No more betrayal.

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