If you want to use the internet to meet women, check out the various activity sites, find something local you’re interested in like hiking, climbing, motorcycles, or whatever, and go to a local event. It’s highly unlikely you’ll meet any unicorns, but at least you’ll be doing something you like to do. And an almost zero chance is still infinitely better than the absolute zero chance you have with online dating.
I found the website meetup.com last year and have played in a few leagues since then. Its a fantastic way to meet active people who like to go out and do things. I played in some athletic leagues, and all the people on my team were pretty much late 20s/early 30s, no kids, jobs, cars, and were people just looking to get out and have a good time.
I found that in my late 20s a lot of my friends I used to do s~~~ with were moving for jobs, intentionally having or getting trapped with kids and hardly ever get out or are always broke now, or simply turned into bums who just wanted to drink and drug all the time…so when I signed up for a random team out of boredom and ended up meeting a lot of cool people in a similar spot in life as me…either they were new to the area looking to meet friends or their old friends all moved/had kids/turned into losers lol.
As a bonus if you do this in an attempt to meet girls…the quality of girl you will meet is simply a tier above whats on dating websites. None of the girls I met had kids, they all had jobs and seemed to be making decent money as they never tried to shmooze drinks off the guys at the bars after games, and considering there was physical activity involved most of the girls there were fit to average. A few were a little on the chunky side, but there wasn’t anything disgustingly obese that the thought of seeing naked would make me vomit. I’m not out unicorn hunting but if I wanted some pussy that wasn’t absolute bottom of the barrel, this is definitely a better route to go than dealing with the trash and the attention whores on dating sites.
Plus its pretty cheap. I’m playing in a 12 week league that cost 60 dollars to sign up for…they provide everyone with team tshirts, refs every week, and work deals with local bars so we can get dollar beers after the games. It can be a pretty fun night out and even stopping for a couple beers after only costs about 10 bucks a night…so its also a pretty big bang for your buck as far as paying for entertainment goes…I’d really recommend anyone looking for a fun night out to check out their area for something similar.
Grocery stores in good neighborhoods are actually perfect places to meet women.
Because not everyone goes to bars or dates online, but everyone has to do groceries. Plus you can tell a lot about her life situation by what’s in her shopping cart. The lighting is good, there’s little noise and she’s probably not wearing much makeup.
I am not doing it, but if I was still dating – I would totally use this approach.
Haha the grocery store has become one of my new favorite places over the past few months. I used to always go late at night when it was empty, but no I go around 7 just to see what kind of post wallers will be in there fishing for attention in some sort of childish manner.
I’m also pretty sure women actually look what is in your cart. I’ve been eating more healthy over the past year so my cart actually has real food in it now…fresh fruits and veges, eggs, meats, yogurts, juices, etc. If you have all pre made and frozen s~~~ they just think single bachelor, but if you have real food they think either you can cook or have a woman at home cooking for you…and either way I think they like that…either means you won’t expect them to cook or if they think you are taken it makes them want you even more.
I think one of these days when I get a post waller trying to get attention, I’ll just walk by and smile, go to the aisle with the baby stuff in it, throw some diapers or something in my cart, then go find her for another pass and see if the reaction changes lol…I’m almost 100% certain they’ll have a different reaction to you when they have reason to suspect your resources are already tied up.
Rhino 3 years, 8 months ago.
