Online dating sucks!

[darkParticipant 8]

So i’ve been in the online dating scene since 2008 and as of today i give up, Its almost as if overnight the scene has changed; Now everytime i read one of these chicks statuses its usually begging for ie; money,food,weed/liquor or asking for a ride etc. its just getting sad now and this isn’t specific to one site either i have accounts on OKC,POF,MATCH,Meetme,Tagged etc. and same pattern every-time. When i do find the one i am interested in she just reads the message and doesn’t respond or all she has to say after me initiating a conversation is sends me an emoji.

What has always bothered me about women on social media is that they aren’t capable of being upfront & honest with a guy and just making them aware that they aren’t interested in him, Its as if they do all of it to gain attention etc. I’ve had plenty of women/fat-chicks i wasn’t interested in and id tell them upfront, never understood why most women in the online dating scene would rather lead a person on than just say how they feel.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Online dating is like dumpster diving for food. If you eat something and you get food poisoning – it’s your own fault.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[LurchParticipant 3871]

Preaching to the choir on this one. We here at MGTOW know for a long time that on-line dating is just a big, fat, waste of time.

Out of a sample of any 10 profiles, you will typically find:

5 – Are post wall fat chicks using photos of themselves from 20 years ago, when they were in college and much slimmer. They will typically not respond.
3 – That are chicks using the account to sell you nude pics, then up-selling you to buy into a live web cam or porn site.
With the remaining 2 being outright Catfish profiles, typically guys running “experiments” on how dating sites suck or are closet trannies trying to “live the dream” online.

So as you can see, online dating has become the bastion of the fat, fugly, post-wall train wrecks, scam artists, porn peddlers and X-dressing dudes.

In this day and age, you will NOT find quality women online, regardless of the lies that Dr. Neil Clark Warren, spews forth on his eHarmony commercials.

Blue-Pill Virgin: Women hate me! That's what it is.
MGTOW Man: Hate them back; it works for me.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

It is best to avoid on-line dating and to avoid dating women overall. They are toxic and not worth the potential problems.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

GET OFF DATING SIGHTS

You’re welcome ?

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

welcome to the forums pal!
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
enjoy the website

dark wrote:

So i’ve been in the online dating scene since 2008

its taken you this many years to finally get off online dating!!!

Lurch wrote:

3 – That are chicks using the account to sell you nude pics, then up-selling you to buy into a live web cam or porn site.

i’ve encountered one of these chicks before.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

dark wrote:

What has always bothered me about women on social media is that they aren’t capable of being upfront & honest with a guy and just making them aware that they aren’t interested in him, Its as if they do all of it to gain attention

that’s right pal, you’ve figured it out….women CRAVE ATTENTION….its like a drug

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

The law of diminishing returns was understood around women, even worse are pretty women all their life people have fawned over them the most boring dull selfish people you could meet,

[darkParticipant 8]

Well in my defense i did meet some nice friends on dating sites, which is why i’ve never fully abandoned it.
However for actually finding an date/partner, I just really noticed how terrible it is.

[MelkiorrParticipant 200]

i tried pof, once in a while i would delete my acount and come back 5-6 month later. Just to notice its still the same women that are there. Then i tried other dating sites to see the same ones again. They are even the same ones on tinder.

Make you think, there must be a really good reason why these woman cant find a man years after years. Even thought some of them are attractive.

I just stop online dating, its not worth it, and the quality of woman is pretty much the bottowm of the barrel.

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

dark wrote:

Well in my defense i did meet some nice friends on dating sites, which is why i’ve never fully abandoned it.
However for actually finding an date/partner, I just really noticed how terrible it is.

Hi man, I don’t think dating-site is a good place to find friends, sure you can find food in the bin from time to time, but you don’t need the reputation.

Sounds to me that you are still looking for a relationship, which is fine, I am not here to judge you and I respect your choice. But are you sure this community is the right place for you? Just saying, you might not like the harsh truth we share here, especially when you are not ready to let go that big blue pill.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Melkiorr wrote:

i tried pof, once in a while i would delete my acount and come back 5-6 month later. Just to notice its still the same women that are there.

Haha that was my experience with online dating as well. If I browse pof now just for hahas there are women on there from 4-5 years ago when I was seriously looking that still have the same pics and a mostly unchanged profile…and they’re active accounts that have logged on recently, not just some dead account that hasn’t logged in years.

Most attractive women get multiple messages from new guys daily…if they’ve been on there for years they’ve literally gotten messaged from thousands of guys…if they flat out ignored me and haven’t found anyone among that many men, nobody is going to be good enough. They’re are just attention whores destined to be crazy old cat women. Hind sight being 20/20 I’d like to thank them for not wasting my time when I would have given them a chance.

So just for laughs I gave it a browse while typing this…here’s a quote from one chick I recognized from years ago that I’m pretty sure ignored me lol.
Also I had my gall bladder out and went from a size zero to a size eight. If you think that’s too fat then **** the **** off, you shallow piece of s~~~. Most of you have Dad bods anyway.
Funny she hasn’t updated her pictures still has a bunch of pics from when she was petite and super cute looking…must have had some really bad dates where guys were like wtf, you only had 1 chin in your profile pics. This s~~~ just cracks me up…I’m sure she could have had her pick from quite a few guys 4-5 years ago and now she’s a 30 year old post waller that put a bunch of weight on and is obviously p~~~y she’s not getting the same attention. I hope squeezing out those last few years on the carousel was worth it because her stock has certainly dropped!

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

You need to be very careful in thoses dating.site, there’s plenty of bipolar chick on there and i mean crazy crazy chick,i met.one on tagged long time ago before i became.a red piller and.it’s was.hell she stalk me all that time ,after.just one date ,she wanted me to move her in ,i had to change my number and pretend i move away ,finally.i discovered that she found.a new blue pill and she giving him her,her facebook.profile said she got married with him.i can’t imagine.that hell.that.poor guy.go through now

[HawkeParticipant 197]

“What has always bothered me about women on social media is that they aren’t capable of being upfront & honest with a guy…”

Actually they don´t possess that capability at all – within social media or outside it.

Qui audet adipiscitur - Who dares, wins

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

“MeetMe”

UGH, I hate that site.

It used to be called “MyYearbook” about 10 years ago and was a pretty decent site to find old friends from school and whatnot. Then people started turning it into a popularity contest and a dating website, and that’s ultimately what it evolved into and has gone downhill ever since.

That’s the site where I’ve pulled pics of girls up before on my posts about 20 year old chicks already looking like they’re approaching the wall FAST.

As stated, they’re only out looking for weed and money and then complain about there being “no good men out there.” Then you’ve got the trans “women,” the secretly married women, and the drug addicts. I’m 28 and think I’d see some attractive 20-somethings but instead I see wall-nearing 23 year olds whose looks took a nosedive like Lindsay Lohan did.

[sidecarParticipant 35851]

Women resort to online dating for a reason, and the reasons are never good. They’re there because they can’t cut it in real life. Why would you want that? Don’t waste you time with online dating.

If you want to use the internet to meet women, check out the various activity sites, find something local you’re interested in like hiking, climbing, motorcycles, or whatever, and go to a local event. It’s highly unlikely you’ll meet any unicorns, but at least you’ll be doing something you like to do. And an almost zero chance is still infinitely better than the absolute zero chance you have with online dating.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Online dating is giving women the power because these women will usually get many messages. In real life how many guys would hit on them? Most likely far less. If you’re going to do any kind of online dating do tinder. Just make sure to ask if they are married or have a boyfriend.

Only meet for coffee when you first meet never go on a meal. It’s best to meet after you ate so sometimes are 7 pm to 8 pm.

You have a better chance getting a good date at a grocery store believe it or not.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

You have a better chance getting a good date at a grocery store believe it or not.

Grocery stores in good neighborhoods are actually perfect places to meet women.
Because not everyone goes to bars or dates online, but everyone has to do groceries. Plus you can tell a lot about her life situation by what’s in her shopping cart. The lighting is good, there’s little noise and she’s probably not wearing much makeup.
I am not doing it, but if I was still dating – I would totally use this approach.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 12]

I have seen dating profiles where the woman doesn’t even fill out her profile, just a few pictures, and I just know that there are men messaging her with all sorts of bulls~~~ even though to me an unfilled out profile screams fake and/or a woman who is just not interested.

I even did it myself, I created a female account, posted a fake pic, filled out the profile and I got hammered with responses, the guys sent mostly bulls~~~ messages that varied from ordinary to obscene to lame.

It taught me a lot. These women sit there like Queens watching all these men message them and they get to decide whether or not they are worthy of responding, it makes them feel in demand even if it is just in demand for sex.

Back to my experience on dating sites as myself, the responses you get from some of these women, one woman responded with 4 paragraphs as to how my message to her could have been better, she could have just responded with a sentence saying hi in return but she felt the need to tell me how I should be doing this, why would you do that?

Women who want more than just “Hi how are you” in a message but they are hypocrites because they do not initiate messaging themselves so what would they know, when they do initiate messaging they say “Hi, how are you?” because lets face it, it’s difficult to know what to say to someone.

There are better places if you want to meet someone.

[darkParticipant 8]

Spank The Misandrists wrote:

Hi man, I don’t think dating-site is a good place to find friends, sure you can find food in the bin from time to time, but you don’t need the reputation.

Sounds to me that you are still looking for a relationship, which is fine, I am not here to judge you and I respect your choice. But are you sure this community is the right place for you? Just saying, you might not like the harsh truth we share here, especially when you are not ready to let go that big blue pill.

I am very familiar with the community and have been here since 2014 and even prior to registering i’ve studied the subject and i’m fully aware of the topics discussed, Doesn’t change the fact that we can sit here and bash women and their stupid antics all day long; but at some point we are going to want to be with one whether its intimate,relationship-wise etc unless you’re gay. (i may be speaking for myself)

As for me, Yes i am still looking for a relationship, Not with an western woman of course.
In regards to me not being ready, I agree – I don’t think i’m ready to fully embrace what its like to be a MGHOW however that may change with time.

Back on topic though, what gets me the most is the fatties – these morbidly-obese tubs swear they’re gods gift to men. You see them often trolling these sites attempting to look sexy in there photographs showing their flabbs, it is disgusting to say the least.

Hell, here’s a perfect example of one in my local area whos always posting on CL and these pigs actually throw themselves at her and even give her gifts and pay her phone bill etc. OMG, see for yourself: https://gyazo.com/569a64ee69d0ac198d31369886672bee

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