Someone asked me "don't you feel alone?"

[~BSParticipant 3266]

back in the old days, with the standard husband-wife model with kids, you didn’t need to worry so much about these things because SOCIETY chooses for you. You will apply your energy towards supporting a wife and kids, and ensuring their survival. You will work long hard hours, and be too tired at the end of the day to spend on yourself. Family was your passion assigned to you. If you had hobbies along the way, good for you.

Nowadays, society is all f~~~ed up, which frees men from the above obligations, if you choose to. Attempting to follow the old model now, just opens you up to a huge world of hurt, and it is not the rational choice. Therefore, you need to find some way to apply yourself, some passions or hobbies to work towards, good friends and family you associate with.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

~BS wrote:

Therefore, you need to find some way to apply yourself, some passions or hobbies to work towards, good friends and family you associate with.

Being sovereign is not easy. It takes work and discipline like everything else. If you feel lonely then you’re just sitting waiting for something. The two things you get from being sovereign is choices and time. If you choose to sit and wait you will rot. Get up, get out get moving. Use the time, make the choices.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[QuellParticipant 2538]

The golden rule of life should be “Don’t associate with people you do not enjoy.”

Everything in the universe is energy and you only have so much mental energy per day. Therefore you must be very selective who you devote your mental energy to. Humans are very influenced by others behavior which in turn has an impact on our thoughts and emotions. We don’t realize how many external people ruin our energy level on a daily basis.

Give the boot to those who display negative energy towards you including:

• Close friends who have betrayed your trust, time or are no longer invested in you.
• Acquaintances who brag and offer little in the way of stimulating conversation.
• Women who are selfish, mean spirited and manipulating. (Remember AWALT)
• Jobs that are boring, bosses that don’t respect you or co-workers you can’t stand.
• Family members who nag, prod or use shaming tactics to manipulate your behavior.
• Religions who preach about donations and offer only black and white answers.
• Complete strangers who are rude, pushy, nosy or generally have a lack of manners.
• Social Media that indirectly promotes conflict, jealously and breeds contempt.

That being said that list of people you truly connect with should be quite small. That is a good thing though, if you spend your time with those who lift you up you will constantly be in a better mood. When you are not spending time with positive people being alone is the next best thing.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

freedom wrote:

he said “I get it, but even the bible says that a man shouldn’t be alone”

Remind your “friend” that immediately after God stated that, he made the animals, and that even when he created a woman, the first thing she did was betray the man.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

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