Someone asked me "don't you feel alone?"

[freedomParticipant 5129]

I gave him this answer

“I used to, many times, sitting alone in my apartment trying to understand what my next move is, or waiting for a girl to respond to my text or call me back.
I felt very much alone when a woman I was with for 2 years, stabbed me in the back and showed off with her new c~~~-guy, no one tried to encourage me because I was to man up about being spit on, after taking care of every s~~~ty problem she had during those 2 year.
Yes I felt also alone, when a woman lied to me about being single, while she was actually married for months, Yeah I felt alone – very much so.

It has taken me 11 years to understand that none of it is my fault, to ignore the men shaming, the “you are not married than you are probably a lonely loser” shaming, which mostly came from women, 11 years till I learnt to give the big F~~~ YOU to everyone.
I am alone, and I feel alone, but you know what? for the first in a decade, I accept it as a bliss, because I don’t have to deal with that s~~~ anymore, I am a f~~~ing good person and that’s my validation, not some entitled scum who thinks that by opening her legs, she approves me being a man and a human.
I served my country, I have a college degree, I work, I pay taxes, I love my nephews and they love me, I give donations every once in a while, I believe in respect, dignity, and understanding among fellow humans. Those are the parameters by which, I measure myself, I don’t need you to stamp me as a good or bad guy, the only difference is that nowadays I know How to point my middle finger to anyone who tells me there is something wrong with me. ”

Love yourselves brothers, you are the only ones who can validate yourselves, not them.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

A-f~~~ing-men Brother.

[X11Spectator 4520]

TBH it’s the time alone I value most in this life.

They shouldn’t have to make you do bad things just to get into a solitary confinement cell.

All that peace and quiet, meals delivered, free healthcare, free rent. Lucky bassids.

[DocParticipant]

There is a difference in feeling alone to being lonely.

I like being alone. I am not lonely.
I am happy in my solitude when my kids are with ex.
I don’t need people to complete me. I am whole. Entire.
And I definitely don’t need some chick parasite sucking my wholness.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Quite good, but still too much victimhood.
When you’ll reach a truly positive mentality people will stop to ask you if you feel alone: they’ll think that you’re a selfish bastard and you’re secretly f~~~ing around tons of females.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

well he is a good friend of mine and not some acquaintance, I wanted to make him understand why I don’t want him to hook me up with someone

[OdinParticipant 524]

What was his response to that? I assume he shut up and gave you a weird look. They usually pull out the “are you gay?” card on me

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Well put freedom. Live by your own rules and not by the expectations or demands of others.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[freedomParticipant 5129]

Odin wrote:

What was his response to that? I assume he shut up and gave you a weird look. They usually pull out the “are you gay?” card on me

he said “I get it, but even the bible says that a man shouldn’t be alone”

[AttonParticipant]

Base your views not from the opinions of fools.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 42]

Don’t you feel alone?

Don’t you miss my s~~~ vortex?

What about my endless manipulation and lies, don’t you miss that?

What about my spoiled brat cold spells where you may as well be dead, while I interview your orbiter replacement? Surly you must miss that?

Now that I’m f~~~ing chad and regret my choices surly you’ll take my cum burping pussy back just because?

What about the fact I love you when it serves me best and hate your f~~~ing guts when it doesn’t?

If all that isn’t enough, what about the divorce rape where I use the all-might power of the system to DESTROY YOU WITH YOUR OWN FUNDS? Hmmm? What’s not to LOVE???

[DocParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

spoiled brat

BOOOOM!!!

Two most descriptive words of a modern women.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[Anonymous 42]

Eric Lauder wrote:

When you’ll reach a truly positive mentality people will stop to ask you if you feel alone

What’s wrong?

^^^Disco was still alive the last time I heard that! I’m usually WAAAAAAY happier than any given cluster of people around me! Their misery fuels my gratefulness, my gratitude that I’m spared from bondage and endless MISERY!

Run MG-Tower RUN!

RUN FUN

[Anonymous 14]

Same was asked of me Freedom. With all of my animals I am never alone and they are more loyal than a bitch, though I debate which eats more, but animal food is cheaper than filet mignon. Plus, chickens produce their own food.
John Candy said it best in Uncle Buck 🙂

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

[Cú ChulainnParticipant 3910]

freedom wrote:

Odin wrote:

What was his response to that? I assume he shut up and gave you a weird look. They usually pull out the “are you gay?” card on me

he said “I get it, but even the bible says that a man shouldn’t be alone”

He’s wrong,
“To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single, as I am.”
1 Corinthians 7

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

freedom wrote:

well he is a good friend of mine and not some acquaintance, I wanted to make him understand why I don’t want him to hook me up with someone

freedom wrote:

Odin wrote:

What was his response to that? I assume he shut up and gave you a weird look. They usually pull out the “are you gay?” card on me

he said “I get it, but even the bible says that a man shouldn’t be alone”

So you were basically arguing with a reality-fled person citing the bible while talking about the situation in 2017.

Anonymous wrote:

Eric Lauder wrote:

When you’ll reach a truly positive mentality people will stop to ask you if you feel alone

What’s wrong?

^^^Disco was still alive the last time I heard that! I’m usually WAAAAAAY happier than any given cluster of people around me! Their misery fuels my gratefulness, my gratitude that I’m spared from bondage and endless MISERY!

Run MG-Tower RUN!

RUN FUN

Basically that.
I have not even an hint how it works dating today: since the split with my ex wife I hitted on a total of three women (that was before going monk) after they gave me strong signals, but I never tried to hook up a woman, all three times I was minding my businesses and they started the thing.
My answers and my attitude when asked about “dating” make people suspect that I’m sleeping around a lot just because I still view “dating” as something as it was in the 90’s.

I also do not understand the idea of “looking for dating” when a man is over 40: it seems to me totally pointless, after a marriage contract, kids and divorce then “looking for dating” makes zero sense to me.
What would be the goal of dating?
Kids/family? Already done, it’s enough.
Psychological satifaction through “scoring points” by hooking women? Already done, a lot, before my marriage contract.
Sexual satisfaction? A fleshlight is immensely more efficient than pursuing sexual satisfaction through catching women and having sex using a condom.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[WallyParticipant]

Good response Freedom, also recent studies show single people have better relationships with friends than married people who become more isolated.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Doc wrote:

I like being alone. I am not lonely.
I am happy in my solitude when my kids are with ex.
I don’t need people to complete me. I am whole.

That’s what I was going to say since it is true for me as well.

Eric Lauder wrote:

Quite good, but still too much victimhood.
When you’ll reach a truly positive mentality people will stop to ask you if you feel alone: they’ll think that you’re a selfish bastard and you’re secretly f~~~ing around tons of females.

Once you master solitude you will be the envy of every man and the challenge of every woman. They are holding their breath waiting for you to look backwards with sad lonely eyes. When you don’t they chase after you thinking you know something they don’t and want to own it or destroy it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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