some men put up with this

[Dcue95Participant 78]

It’s s~~~ like this that makes me want relationships even less, like why would I ever want to put up with this s~~~?

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

The female perception of “trust” vs. “respect” is totally ass backwards.

 

 

Well said Keymaster!.

 

S~~~ like this is daily among Manginas who “don’t want to get into an argument”.  just so that they can get laid once a month and don’t wanna create a “rift” with their wives or girlfriends. Makes me wanna f~~~ing puke, and noticed how this c~~~ says: “now you’ve ruined my whole day!”. Good god that reminds me so much of an ex-girlfriend I once had that would start off by “i don’t like the text you sent me this morning”, then would go on about “whats wrong with you?”. Then an argument would ensue, and i would get that “My day is ruined because of you” type crap.

 

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[CatoParticipant 65]

My 30 year marriage distilled down to 3 minutes. It’s one of those scenes that at first you say wow she’s kinda hot then within 30 seconds she’s about as attractive as Vladimir Putin.

[GregerParticipant 7]

That could be me and my ex gf….

[BlueEvolve11Participant 1]

I honestly don’t understand why some Men would deal with this… It’s so disgusting.

[Anonymous 1]

To me, the video looks staged, almost as part of an anger management course.. in any case, I watched the beginning accusatory scenario play out 1000 times when I was growing up…My poor father just shot indults back and retreated to his office to work…

 

 

 

 

[Terminus EstParticipant 145]

Kind of his own fault. You need to be able to ditch abusive women right from the start. In college I picked up this girl to go see a play and she was mad because I was 10 minutes late. before I knew it she’d smacked me just as I started driving. I immediately stopped, reached across my tiny college era clown car and opened the door. Problem solved.

Society will even convince you that being a man means having to “man up” to abuse, while women are eternal victims. That it is a bit of your role to suffer nobly and be able to take it. Bulls~~~. “Manning up” means calling women on rude or abusive behavior every chance you get. Call them out on anti male sexism as well.

[LathanderParticipant 6]

Horror stories so familiar…

My ex was that like many  girl. When we walked the campus roads, she said “Dont look” whenever a hot girl with mini-shorts  entered my sight.She did it just in the second for the … sake,not one later second, nor was I looking. Sound like a joke when I think of it but  that nighmare was real once upon a time..

She was jealous of every female close to me, even her “good” friend. A female waitress  who asked me “what would yo like to take” was  a sworn enemy too. But I will give her right, every female is nicer to you when you are holding hand of a beautiful girl 🙂  Women know women well.

I used to keep my anger inside like that poor guy. It was not  a behaviour special to her, but I  showed her too much tolerance. I understood late she wanted me to show my anger.

She left me when she understood  she can’t control me “enough”.She was trying to convert me to islam, worst way of jihad one could see :). But she came back.Because on break-up scene she was crying and all f… up drama while I was calm and talking with logic. She couldn’t accept I was ready to live without her so she harassed me for four months after. I kept her messages as proof if she ever makes a false accusations and spread lies about me through her spy network 🙂

Anyways, there is much wisdom to be found in this site, accurate observations and analytical logic of men.

[MyselfParticipant 353]

The funny thing is that when a man spends time with a woman like this, and tries to accommodate her “insecurities”, all the man is really doing is learning how to IGNORE WOMEN.  Absolutely f~~~ing brilliant.  If I ever bump into my ex, I’ll have to thank her.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Helen be Damned wrote:

I would have killed people if I had super-powers while driving.

HOLY SHEEP S~~~ BATMAN! I COULDN’T AGREE MORE!!!!!!!

My death tolls would be in the bazillions if I could just mount a damn 50 cal to the hood of my damned trailblazer, wooohaaa!

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Hey Watch This One!!!

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Hey BOYS Guess what the women from this video is now back on the open market….

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Jeremiah, if only we could do that! You take the 50 cal, and I’ll drive!

[DOOGLERParticipant 17]

lololololololololololololololololol

he should have punched that bitch in the mouth, and the stupid daughter of course thinks her mom is right

[I_Walk_AloneParticipant 580]

Whenever I feel lonely, I log on here. Within ten minutes of reading I’m thankful of my ‘predicament.’

The golf’s on. Another beer…….

[DOOGLERParticipant 17]

I_Walk_Alone wrote:

Whenever I feel lonely, I log on here. Within ten minutes of reading I’m thankful of my ‘predicament.’ The golf’s on. Another beer…….

exactly

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

I’m not sure how that original video got made. “Wanted: actress to portray abusive psycho jealous POS on camera to make life lesson for guys”. O well, the laydeez do worse than that for money…

That was my first LTR, a former schoolmate I got involved with in later uni years. She was insanely jealous. Stupidly jealous. Drop-of-a-hat for no reason jealous. The ridiculous thing is I’m way down the scale, having developed my brain and character rather than my body, while she was very pretty: it was absurd to think other women were trying to steal me away, but she saw it everywhere.

One time I mentioned to her in passing that I’d run into a mutual (female) friend from school.

HER: Did you tell her about me?

ME: Of course, bragged about dating you now.

HER: Did you tell her how much you loved me?

ME: I told her we were serious, sure…

HER: YOU DIDN’T SAY YOU LOVED ME!??!?!?

Now, all this is going on while she trying to park her car (me shotgun) and before the conversation was over she hit a pole twice and the front of the car against the wall once. She got so angry she was basically trashing her own car.

It was my first LTR as I said so I made plenty of mistakes along the way too, but man, what a lesson that girl was…. I saw her at a reunion, she’d been through an abusive marriage and was now with another abusive guy.

ME: You know, I think there’s a pattern there…

HER: Yeah, I am pretty co-dependent.

She also said a lot about how she now appreciated how well I treated her, which of course she had to lose me to figure out.

[KimblemsParticipant 9]

I’m happy I learned about this community before I continued with my life. I understand now. I was told by other guys don’t try to understand woman you can’t. In reality you can,taking the red pill, woman generally are like this and it’s sick. Seen it all time and I always wondered why things happened like this. It was just illogical. And the “how do I know I can trust you?” question, I know it’s everywhere now. I’m happy I joined yesterday.

[DudeParticipant 13]

My Ex did that to me many times. Even when the name of another girl that I had a record with was mentioned by my friends for instance, she would flip out.

Onwards,

The one who gives the ultimatums – her in this case – never has the choices. We only have been told  to comply.

But She does it as an instinctive thing – a test –

I’m not justifying her for being a bitch, but just how women are wired.

If he complies he’s screwed. More power for her. More resentment for him.

If he argues back at her for being a bitch – she is though – most probably their daughter will start crying and … then he’s begging for forgiveness. Again more power for her.

The thing is that scene is a product of what he let happen. He let it fester.

He did not, repeatedly, show authority in the relationship. And what I mean by that is in absolute control of emotions – tell her that he’s human and hence has a pulse, and that he will not tolerate that behavior – repeatedly. Every time. As many times as needed. For ever.

Sounds something you want to do ? I’d just get myself another bitch. The kid ? Be a better father, present loving and PROUD, away from her crazy mother, enjoying THE life we get to have.

 

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