some men put up with this

[BryantParticipant 229]

"He who lives with honor dies with honor."

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

I feel the rage rising. It is a good thing I long ago mastered my rage. Except road rage, I would have killed people if I had super-powers while driving.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

We can’t go to the picnic because your mother is a c~~~.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

This video made me think about how mangina men as a group in part are responsible for c~~~ behavior of women by putting up with s~~~ like that.
Like a quote from V for Vendetta says: “if you’re looking for the guilty, you need only look into a mirror”

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[BDParticipant 1146]

A true Mgtow car would have the ejection seat option, oooh how many times I wish I had the ejection seat…   and V for Vendetta is awesome.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[RoyDalParticipant]

This video should go on that red flag list.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yyyyyeah, I could go on for a f~~~ing month about this.

• “I caught you looking at her”.
• “I saw you smiling at her”
• “I saw the way you were talking to her”.
• “I CAUGHT you….”

….and my personal favorite….

• “How do I know I can trust you?”

That question alone is grounds for immediate ejection – with no remorse. Punch that ejector seat button with your fist. She thinks she can say 8 words and now you’re expected to stand on your hind legs and PROVE that she can trust you. The female perception of “trust” vs. “respect” is totally ass backwards.

To a woman, “respect” should be given – and “trust” is earned. Bulls~~~.
The last time a woman said “how do I know I can trust you?”, I just laughed at her.

They love to start questions that way:

• “How do I know you’re not a rapist?”
• “How do I know you’re telling me the truth?”
• “How do I know you’re not a serial killer.?”

My ears opened to that s~~~ in about 2007 when I invited a chick back to my place – who seemed to be quite lovely! – until she asked “how do I know you’re not a serial killer?”. To me, this was the most disgusting and repulsive question to ask on a date — on a romantic date where she wants a man to take an interest in her. To which I remained calm and replied with a smile:

“How do you know I AM???”

She was speechless. She doesn’t know that I am. She just expected me to PROVE that I am not. I reflected that back to her. Now the choice is hers. She can come over, or she can leave. Of course, she ended up coming over anyway. This was how I ended up dumping her. I made her SICK of hearing it. I brought up that “serial killer” thing over and over again.

I’m not going to jump through hoops to PROVE I am NOT a serial killer. What arrogance to assume that I am now required to prove I am not something she imagined in her head. Clearly, she was out of her f~~~ing mind. By answering her that way, I deflected that s~~~ test back at her and required HER to prove that I am.

“How do I know I can trust you?”

“You don’t. Leave.”

“How I know you’re not a serial killer?”

“How do you know I AM???”

“How I know you’re not a rapist?”

Easy. YOU get up and leave here there. And don’t look back. Done.

Nobody requires trust to be “earned”. Especially women.

Women tell the most intimate secrets and details of their personal lives to complete strangers. They don’t need “trust” to be earned. Women keep secrets like they’re poisonous. It’s a hell of a lot easier to tell a perfect stranger, bartender, hairdresser, the person sitting next to you on a plane, anything you want about your life. Even the most intimate details. Why? Because they can’t hurt you. Your wife can. Your boss can. Your friends can. Your lover can. Except those perfect strangers can’t… because they don’t give a s~~~.

Trust is (and must be) freely given until it is abused.
You HAVE to give it away. OR of course you can choose not to.

YOU HAVE to go through your life “trusting” that when you have a cheeseburger, someone with a gun isn’t going to come in to MacDonald’s and open fire. You are forced to face your day trusting that cars driving in the opposite direction are not going to cross those lines and kill you at any time. Because they can. You don’t run around to every person or car you pass asking that f~~~ed question “how do I know I can trust you?”. You either DO…. or you DON’T. This game of expecting men to prove the are trustworthy to the sex that commits paternity fraud is the most laughable concept. I don’t know how women expect to get away with it!

Don’t ever fall for that s~~~ from women.

Trust me.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

This girl reminds me of how my mom treated my dad when I was growing up.  When I got into my teenage years she used to do this s~~~ to me.  It was insane how she could literally flip out at you, call you every name and cuss word you could ever imagine and slap and throw s~~~ at you, then storm off enraged.  She’d then spend the next hour calling everyone who would listen telling them what a f~~~ up you were, and when she had nobody left to call, she’d calmly come over and ask if you wanted to take a drive to the store or go out for dinner with her or something.  When you tell her no, because she had been in raging c~~~ mode for hours, and you didn’t even want to look at her, she’d then throw another tantrum how you don’t ever want to do anything with her and you hate her.  Uhh…I wonder why?

The funny thing is, after moving out into my own place…she tried this s~~~ a few times and just got mostly ignored for a few years.  I didn’t care enough to argue with her or fight with her, and since I didn’t have to live in the same house as her all I had to do was hang up the phone and not pick it up when it was her number on caller id and she was out of my life.  Literally the only contact I had with her was at family gatherings, like holidays and stuff, and I’d try to keep it to a minimum.  She eventually got the hint that I wasn’t going to deal with her s~~~ anymore, and now actually acts like a normal person with me…but even still, after 10+ years of treating me like total s~~~ I’m still not very close to her, and of course its my fault and I should go to counseling with her lol.

Its like Russky said…the less that men are willing to put up with this s~~~ the less women will do it.  Its just when there are so many manginas who deal with it, its easier for a woman to just go find a mangina than to have to deal with someone who flat out tells her act like an adult or leave.  Its also one more fantastic reason to not get married.  Once they know they own you financially they know they can get away with more s~~~ like this because leaving her comes at a heavy price.  If you refuse to marry and can drop them at any time with no financial butt rape, its just one more pawn on your side of the board and one less on hers.

[MyselfParticipant 353]

Brought me right back to my ex.  I was such an idiot back then.

The video is spot on, especially the whole how do I know I can trust you line.  I felt I could prove it to her, because she really could trust me.  And that is the trap that I fell into and it turned my life into a living hell for years.  Every day, being interrogated about women I saw or might have seen, any billboard with a model, TV and movies – the only way to prove she could trust me was for me to completely withdraw from the world around me.  I was totally under her control.

Fortunately for me that kind of servitude could not go on forever,  and when I started to give up trying to prove myself trustworthy, like walking down the street with my head up high (the nerve!), exposing my feeble man-brain to all the visual temptations of the world. Well… once she started loosing control it was downhill from there.

It is amazing how different trust is in other sophisticated relationships.  The level to which I trust my business partners, and how easy it is to move forward past the mistakes that are inevitably made.  Or back when I worked in construction and we trusted each other to work safely and with equal effort. The trust and respect is always present and is never in need of being proved –  it would be impossible to get anything done if it were.

 

[Great-OzParticipant 226]

Self-important women that need to be put back into their place.

"Life is the future, not the past." Wizard's 7th rule, Terry Goodkind

[ClintParticipant 331]

My question is do men actually respond to women like the guy did in this video?

"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you into something else is the greatest accomplishment." -Ralph Waldo Emerson

[Colonel GaveAFuckParticipant 77]

 

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[Colonel GaveAFuckParticipant 77]

Yeah, I’m not proud to say my father would respond like this, he was “whipped” so to speak. And my mother was at least ten times worse, worst screaming voice you ever heard, only meant to harm your ears and intimidate you. Even if you had something to say you couldn’t get it together because the pain in your ears became your first focus. She would also try and talk over you, or start screaming in the middle of your sentence basically calling you a liar. Talk about a nutjob. And to think my ex of 3 years decided to take a stand about me getting along with and complying with my mother… Sheesh.

She would start with the accusations and name calling, he would beg and plead and calmly and kindly be rational… Never worked for him, she is a nightmare of wife to him.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Any time a woman complains about you about “looking at other women” or whatever challenge her to give you a reason not to: “Well if you think I’m out there looking at other women, what does that say about the one I’ve got?”

If she gives you an ultimatum: “Stop looking at other women, or I’ll break up with you,” call her bluff: “Then I’ll be able to ogle all the pretty women I want with nobody to whine at me about it.”

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

The worst part is the daughter learning that behavior/attitude from her mother.

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

It all starts with our mothers. What do you think happened next? She must’ve told the child that they can’t go to the picnic because she can’t put up with her (child’s) father.
The man of course could’ve said that let’s go to the picnic honey, after dropping your mom home (where she wants to be). But that rarely happens and in the eyes of the kid, the father is antagonized. If the kid is a girl, he mother of course will teach her that all men are like that, and if the kid’s a boy, he’ll be lectured on how not to become like his dad and to be a real man.

 

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Behold: Marriage in a nutshell.

If that had been her and the guy didn’t pick up her bag, she’d be bitching about chivalry or hamstering about something. And all that will go out the window when she decides to cheat and blows some guy in the very vehicle they’re sitting. She will. That’s classic projection.

F~~~ing hypocritical, double standard having c~~~s.

Fuck this planet.

[Big Viking Chef BVCParticipant 1286]

If she needs proof of love, he should take her home and beast f~~~ her.  If she protests, he should say that obviously she is the one who can not be trusted.  Accuse her of projection and leave.  She can’t have it both ways: bitching at him for not wanting her, then turning him down when he tries to show that he does want her.

BVC

 

Swallow this RED PILL ===> Men will lay down their lives for their brothers, their women and their children. This makes Men useful as slaves. Women will lay down their lives for ONLY their children. To expect more from women is just a FANTASY created by society and reinforced by the unconditional love that we experienced from our Mothers. The key to freedom is the understanding that the woman you meet is not going to fantastically love you like your Mother did. If you buy into the fantasy, then she is your new master. If you do not buy into the fantasy, then she is nothing, and you retain your freedom.

[SargeslideParticipant 82]

My Ex was a insecure control freak and did this to me a few times. I let it go until she did it at a military picnic, with all my guys and the usual high ranking face timers. I was in Spec Ops, you don’t want to look like you don’t have your s~~~ together in any aspect of your life, it causes a lack of confidence in you with your team mates. “If you cannot handle your dependents, you cannot handle your team” kinda stuff. Plus she was losing it over someone else’s wife, which could cause one of my guys to not trust me or doubt my dedication to him and his well being, real serious s~~~ for unit cohesion.

I pulled her off to the side and instructed her if she ever so much as hinted at something like that again I would practice my interrogation techniques on her. Her eyes got wide, her mouth dropped open, and I am sure she had some stupid remark to say, but thought better of it. When we got home, I let her know that next time she made me look bad she would be on the next plane to the States. To show her I meant business I made her stay naked all the rest of the weekend, and I took what I wanted when I wanted.  She came around and was a model wife for a few years after that, but eventually they all figure out a new way to f~~~ you over, and she was a sneaky bitch. As soon as she had a great job (Which I got her), her bulls~~~ started up and eventually we split. F~~~ her, hope she is up to her ass in water down in Houston

[davParticipant 422]

I will never forget the stress relief and joy I felt when my ex-wife left. I put on some rock and roll loud, sang and cleaned and rearranged the house like I had a military inspection pending. Have never looked back. Will never marry again ever.

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