some men never learn

[TicParticipant 4329]

I’m witnessing the collapse of couple of marriages around me. One guy is getting f~~~ed financially while his wife got a new boyfriend. She gets to live in his house.

so I ask him, would you marry again? He says with some hesitation, “Yeah, I guess if it’s the right one…blah blah blah.” I immediately replied, “wrong answer.”

I had another conversation with another guy in an absolutely terrible marriage. We both agreed that social media, specifically facebook, is destroying marriages and relationships. Women are constantly being “liked” and contacted by old flames or some strangers and feeding their ego. There are no more boundaries. Relationships with women is now a dead-end game. Yet, he still thinks I should work on another relationship down the line. Why? To gain what? There’s no winning. Even if I were to ever trust another woman again to have something meaningful, there has to be 100% no tolerance policy of social media. I don’t see another way.

I guess some men never learn.

God bless peace and freedom.

[HitmanParticipant]

facebook was one of the primary reasons my marriage failed.
it’s too much for women to handle.
their friends from 20 years ago contact them and off they go to lunch.
as you said it feeds their ego’s .
the entire game changed with social media.
like handing a butcher knife to a primate your’e living with,
and expecting NOT to be HACKED to DEATH .
………………………………………………………………F~~~ FACEBOOK !

[EinherjarParticipant 608]

Tic wrote:

Women are constantly being “liked” and contacted by old flames or some strangers and feeding their ego.

Hitman wrote:

it’s too much for women to handle.

Quite right! My last ex did not only contact her old flames, she also liked to entertain new guys she met on a day-day basis. She would openly flirt with them, right there for all to see. And the most alarming thing was that she became very angry every time I questioned it. Did she like the attention? Yes! Was it hypergamy? also yes! Did she cheat? Of course she did!

As long as there is social media, and as long as white knights still panders to them online, no husband or boyfriend may feel safe. It sort of takes the whole point out of having a relationship.

The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle (384 - 322 BC)

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Only when a man stop thinking with his dick … will he be saved.

Only then can he be reached.

Most men are idiots…… until proven otherwise.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Even if I were to ever trust another woman again to have something meaningful, there has to be 100% no tolerance policy of social media. I don’t see another way.

But then you have to ask yourself this question: What kind of a woman would voluntarily reject social media? I’ve dated a few and was friends with a number of women who reject it, and I’m here to tell you that they are all complete, f~~~ing whack jobs.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Hitman wrote:

facebook was one of the primary reasons my marriage failed.
it’s too much for women to handle.

Same here. That and online dating sites/profiles. Allows them to arrange there next hookup over their morning coffee while sitting across the table from you. Now that I think of it; social media truly is the ultimate hypergamy tool. Beta provider provides the resources while she gets cheap thrills and validation through likes – she can then sort them into orbiters and Chads. Chad’s she will get her next fling from, orbiters will be lining up for the next beta provider role once she willing to cash-out.

Unfortunately, social programming is strong – some are never able to break the cycle. Their dick gets them physically involved and then the biochemical response of pair bonding takes over. At work, I see this same behavior from very educated men – MD’s, specialists, surgeons – intelligence is not a huge factor – most are on marriage 2-3.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[TicParticipant 4329]

basically, society is f~~~ed and I don’t give a s~~~.

God bless peace and freedom.

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

I’m glad I learned from the older men here what marriage is like. Marriage is for women and gays.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Anonymous 54]

Hitman wrote:

facebook was one of the primary reasons my marriage failed.
it’s too much for women to handle.
their friends from 20 years ago contact them and off they go to lunch.
as you said it feeds their ego’s .
the entire game changed with social media.
like handing a butcher knife to a primate your’e living with,
and expecting NOT to be HACKED to DEATH .
………………………………………………………………F~~~ FACEBOOK !

I went Mgow over a decade ago. I see no point in having a relation ship when fb is available to them .Loyalty is now a non concept.I remember when you would have to use a pay phone to cheat. He’ll its just just to easy now.Your eating lunch and across the table she’s flirting on line.F~~~ all of this s~~~.Mgtow for life.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Spot on times change, if you don’t adapt you die.. As the OP stated I hear guys say ‘ if I meet the right one ‘ it’s laughable.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

most men never learn

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Tic wrote:

women are constantly being “liked” and contacted by old flames or some strangers and feeding their ego. There are no more boundaries.

You are so right that there are no boundaries. Just look at the Direct TV and DR Pepper commercials we discussed in another topic. It is now perfectly acceptable for women in a relationship to flirt with and hook-up with other men or old flames.

[RedPillBonerParticipant 541]

Most men are f~~~ing idiots. I was playing poker with a few of my buddies and none have been married before but saw what happened to me with my marriage and divorce. All of them said they want to get married someday and I about spit my drink out. I pretty much went off on them saying what f~~~ing retards they are. Their exact words were “let us find out how f~~~ed up it is for ourselves”. Dips~~~s.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

loyalty is a men’s construct. women will remain loyal only if social and peer pressure demands it.
right now social pressure is encouraging promiscuity; and virtual interactions made attention seeking, flirting and cheating so easy and covert, that her peer group would think she’s stupid to not take advantage of this social climate to liberate herself from any responsibilities.

Blue pill men need to understand that women view honor and loyalty as stupid, and that the only way they will agree to adapt such qualities – is when they’d be penalized socially and financially for not doing so. Realizing that honor, loyalty and integrity – are men-specific virtues, was on of the biggest red pills for me – something I’ve never thought of before discovering MGTOW.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Tic wrote:

Women are constantly being “liked” and contacted by old flames or some strangers and feeding their ego.

Tic-
Thanks for posting this.
I personally have never been on FB and I never understood why FB was such a big deal to ladies. Now I get it.

So a lady finds a beta wallet to provide resources. Then the lady gives her attention and affection to an endless supply of chads and beta orbiters she meets on FB.
She receives a great amount of attention and her ego is stoked. She becomes emotionally unavailable to her husband/boyfriend. Eventually her husband/boyfriend is replaced by a bigger wallet. Feel the love.

I knew it was bad out there, but I didn’t realize exactly how bad.

A man would have to be an idiot to be in a relationship these days. Thanks.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Yup, my ex had a match.com profile up while we were still married. How did I know? Because she was too stupid to log out of her profile on an iPad. I went to look something up and when I typed in an “m” match came up. So I looked. There was her profile and I could see all of the conversations she was having with other men.

She also never stopped being friends with her old boyfriends. I always thought that was weird. After hanging out here for a while it makes total sense. Keep the orbiters.

And she wonders why I don’t want to get back together! Um, because you’re a lying cheating piece of crap dunce. But, hey, let the next guy have her.

Order the good wine

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Let them burn we ain’t gonna be that one putting a gun on our head when they realises they got screw so bad that their only way to get out is by putting a bullet in their head

[TicParticipant 4329]

RedPillBoner wrote:

Most men are f~~~ing idiots. I was playing poker with a few of my buddies and none have been married before but saw what happened to me with my marriage and divorce. All of them said they want to get married someday and I about spit my drink out. I pretty much went off on them saying what f~~~ing retards they are. Their exact words were “let us find out how f~~~ed up it is for ourselves”. Dips~~~s.

And, they probably thought you met the wrong one and they can do better. They’ll find out soon enough.

God bless peace and freedom.

[TicParticipant 4329]

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

tic douloureux wrote:

Women are constantly being “liked” and contacted by old flames or some strangers and feeding their ego.

Tic-
Thanks for posting this.
I personally have never been on FB and I never understood why FB was such a big deal to ladies. Now I get it.

So a lady finds a beta wallet to provide resources. Then the lady gives her attention and affection to an endless supply of chads and beta orbiters she meets on FB.
She receives a great amount of attention and her ego is stoked. She becomes emotionally unavailable to her husband/boyfriend. Eventually her husband/boyfriend is replaced by a bigger wallet. Feel the love.

I knew it was bad out there, but I didn’t realize exactly how bad.

A man would have to be an idiot to be in a relationship these days. Thanks.

Boom. You hit the nail on the head. They become emotionally unavailable just as they already cheated. How can you keep her attention towards you when she is out in lala land getting virtually ego-stroked. Imagine if you had to be out of town on a business trip or visiting your sick parents, or whatever…she has access to so much out there. Game is over. For me at least. I just can’t get into the traditional relationship anymore. It’s so ridiculous, it’s comical.

God bless peace and freedom.

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

Russky wrote:

loyalty is a men’s construct. women will remain loyal only if social and peer pressure demands it.
right now social pressure is encouraging promiscuity; and virtual interactions made attention seeking, flirting and cheating so easy and covert, that her peer group would think she’s stupid to not take advantage of this social climate to liberate herself from any responsibilities.

Blue pill men need to understand that women view honor and loyalty as stupid, and that the only way they will agree to adapt such qualities – is when they’d be penalized socially and financially for not doing so. Realizing that honor, loyalty and integrity – are men-specific virtues, was on of the biggest red pills for me – something I’ve never thought of before discovering MGTOW.

As the great psychologist, Baumeister, put it. “Men are natural, women are social”. Men have a natural morality, women are shaped by the latest social fads. That’s why they are slaves to fashion. The current fad is to infidelity and promiscuity.

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