Some Advice Needed. Newly Realised MGTOW.

[Anonymous 42]

Into The Wild wrote:

MY QUESTION IS: HOW? ANY TIPS ON AVOIDING BEING BURNT AND BRUTALISED AGAIN?

Hey Into The Wild, sounds like “indecision”, try making up your mind on things you will not accept and keep adding to that list.

In a short time you will formulate the things that are acceptable extrapolating from your list of things that aren’t.

Do this enough and you’ll clear your mind of reprobate thinking and unnecessary backtracking, you’ll stay on course!

[Anonymous 18]

Learn about yourself. As has been said.

But more importantly STOP projecting whatever you feel for a woman and assume she has the capacity to reciprocate the same emotions. She doesn’t.

When in doubt ask (if hypothetically you do date) a woman you’re with what she means by love and commitment or hardships or sacrifice in your specific context. And wait till your jaw drops. She will fail.

[Anonymous 0]

Veritech Ace wrote:

Do you call him “Chad” because he’s always “hanging around”?

Not bad. Though the reader would have to be kind of old to remember the original “hanging chad” reference from the Bush vs. Gore election: http://www.u-s-history.com/pages/h916.html. Though I guess there’s an updated version of “hanging chad” currently in use: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=hanging+chad

In any case, “Chad” is a separate and distinct meme of its own: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Chad

Sometimes you see it as “Chad Thunderc~~~”: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Chad+Thunderc~~~

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Welcome. Don’t be so hard on yourself. These women did not Rob you. They did not have you thrown in jail. They did not have your children. Be very very thankful you have no permanent ties to those harpies whose only language is shaming you.

I too was told by my ex to “man up” and be “aggressive” and “ambitious” and “masculine” and all that other crap. I too was 21 when my ex decided that I needed to change myself to suit her needs. I was love drunk and wasn’t thinking straight. I have been where you were and I get it. We all do.

Keep forging ahead. You have talent and energy. Limit your interaction with toxic people and kill TV. Social conditioning only works when you care. Keep reading on this site and learn from the brothers here. There is no other place on the Internet like this. Take advantage of this.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

These days if I have intrusive thoughts about needing a woman for company, I have a wank. Nine times out of ten I then realise I wanted sex. I then get on with more productive pursuits. I have contact with women and spin some plates. It’s a bit like playing with dynamite but as long as I have no desire to marry or co-habitate then I know I’m safe.
If I had my time again, all those years agonising over relations~~~s would be spent learning to play guitar better and learning some woodwork. You have such a massive opportunity to shape the future. Take it.

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